I don't like my own brother. I have a grudge against him. Should I give him a year of birth?

A family is always interconnected. If he has difficulties, the family will definitely help him solve them. At that time, parents will worry that their attitudes and behaviors will affect you. In the long run, you can help him through his birth year, which will do you no harm and reduce the troubles of his parents. This is also your filial piety. Plus, it doesn't matter much whether you like him or not. Giving him a holiday can also show your generosity and make your parents less. It's good for your family and you.