The sleeping position in husband and wife's life reveals the degree of love between two people. what do you think?

The daily sleeping position of husband and wife determines the emotional level of two people.

I have read a questionnaire about the sleeping position of couples in a British university before.

Psychologist Professor Wiseman found through research that when sleeping, couples whose distance is less than 2.54 cm have better feelings than couples whose distance is greater than 76.2 cm.

Among them, couples who sleep face to face with physical contact are more stable than couples who sleep face to face without physical contact.

Some people say that in the first few years of their marriage, the couple wanted to sleep and hug each other every day; But after a few years of love, when the marriage enters a dull stage, sleeping in a bed with the other party feels cumbersome.

In fact, this is also the true state when most couples get along. The daily sleeping posture of husband and wife also exposes the degree of love between them to a certain extent.

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Common Sleeping Positions of Couples and Their Analysis

When a couple has just entered the marriage and is in love, their sleeping positions will have these states:

First: face to face, hug to each other and sleep.

This sleeping position shows that the relationship between husband and wife is at its peak, and it is difficult to fall asleep without each other's company; At this stage, I just have a strong sense of dependence on my partner, and I can't wait to be entangled with my partner every day.

A few days ago, a female reader left a message under my article saying: My husband and I have been married for five years, and I have to be held by my husband every night to fall asleep. This habit has always been difficult to quit; For a time, the female reader company was on a business trip and she stayed in a hotel. She tossed and turned and couldn't sleep. She can only fall asleep if she keeps the video on with her husband.

This kind of "hugging and sleeping" is also the best state of husband-wife relationship.

Second: hold you from behind and fall asleep.

Another sleeping position with a good relationship between husband and wife is that a person sleeps with his partner from behind; Generally speaking, it is often men who hug behind their backs.

This sleeping position represents the following meanings: tolerance, protective desire, possessiveness and love.

A husband treats his wife like his beloved baby. He is careful, careful. He must hug her from behind to feel safer.

When couples have been married for many years and their feelings are in a dull period, there will be another sleeping position:

Third: sleep back to back, and no one bothers anyone.

The longer the couple get married, the more passionate they are about each other at first, and then they will sleep back to back.

Sleeping in this posture can better promote the sleeping state of two people, and they don't disturb each other, just want to have a good sleep.

The sleeping position in this case will also affect the relationship between husband and wife to a certain extent; Because I have been turning my back on you, it shows that my trust in you has decreased, and it also shows that I am hiding something from you.

The back is a person's defensive posture.

Fourth: a bed, sleep separately.

The husband sleeps on one side of the bed and the wife sleeps on the other side. This sleeping position also reflects the emotional state and degree of husband and wife, which is further weakened.

Generally speaking, middle-aged couples prefer to sleep separately from their partners, even if their feet are on their shoulders. Only in this way can they have a good sleep.

Even some couples don't sleep well. Only in this way can we improve the quality of sleep.

Fifth: when there are some contradictions and cracks in the relationship between husband and wife, they will choose to sleep in separate rooms.

Couples can sleep in separate rooms, but they must not always sleep in separate rooms; For example, you can sleep in separate rooms for 2-3 days a month, but it is best not to exceed one week.

Because sleeping in separate rooms for a long time will have a negative impact on the relationship between husband and wife. After a long time, two hearts drifted away.

For young couples, sleeping in separate rooms is not conducive to the development of their relationship, because not many years after marriage, the relationship between husband and wife should have been rising, and then after reaching the peak of the relationship, it will maintain a stable state.

For middle-aged couples who have been married for decades, sleeping in separate beds occasionally is often to get better sleep quality.

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There is a word in psychology called "hug"

The word "hug" was put forward by British psychologist Winnicott, whose original intention was that the mother met the early physiological needs of the baby.

But now it can evolve into: parents' holding and support for their children, and the dependence and security between husband and wife.

Between husband and wife, it is more necessary to hold; When a person is hurt and encounters difficulties, he needs his partner to stand up and help solve the problem and resolve the contradiction at the first time; Only by constantly hugging each other can the relationship between husband and wife continue to heat up steadily.

Once there is no such hug between husband and wife, the feelings will slowly dissipate over time.

What is husband and wife? To put it simply: you are close to each other on the road of life, and the only thing that can support each other to the end is each other.

If you can't handle the relationship with your partner now, you won't realize that you are wrong until you are old and can't walk.

Through the different sleeping positions of husband and wife, we can reflect the emotional state of two people on weekdays; Love or not, whether feelings fade, there are traces to follow.