The meaning of living

1, learn to be cold-blooded, just for those who are good to me, for some people, it is a waste of feelings.

2. Learn to be happier than before and smile even when you are sad.

Learn to be lonely, no one will protect you as a treasure, and the world is always lonely.

4, learn to be strong, in fact, a person can live a beautiful life, laugh at yourself and cry at yourself.

5, learn to be patient, shut up when you should shut up, and be silent when you should be silent.

6, learn to cherish, there are not many intimate friends, if you go again, you really only have yourself left.

7. Learn to turn a blind eye, choose to ignore disgusting things, choose to block disgusting things, and no one will make me unhappy again.

8, learn to be content with happiness, the so-called content with happiness.

9, learn to be independent, can no longer blindly trouble others, do your own thing.

10, learn to grow, and you can't be so willful, so naive, so naive.

1 1, learn to be serious, and be serious about people and things.

12, learn to be cautious, don't know people you shouldn't know, and don't intervene in things you shouldn't.

13, learn to forget, can't live in the past, the memory has passed away, and continue to live in the present. The so-called happiness is just a happy smile. .......

In fact, each of us wants to control our own destiny, not entrust it to heaven or others. But unfortunately, many times, fate is beyond your control, because you can't decide whether you were born in a rich family rather than a poor family, what era you were born in, and whether you were healthy rather than disabled. Well, even if you really want to be born in a rich family, you want to be born in a satisfactory era, you want to have sound limbs, can you control your own destiny accordingly? ! Everything happens for a reason, and people can't escape. You can't completely control your own destiny and live according to your own thoughts and wishes. This reminds me of a sentence that Murong Ziying said in "Sword 4" with his back to Liu. Life is an empty dream, but it is short-lived. Only the heaven remains unchanged and the cycle remains unchanged ... "

Now think about this world, there are still many things that human power can't do, but I am not willing! I used to think that a lot of things can actually be done by manpower, otherwise why bother? Why are you fighting?

At first, I really felt a deep sadness. I really realized that many things can't be changed by manpower alone. I have also thought about profound philosophical issues such as destiny and heaven, and I have found some books to study. Finally, I was awakened by a sentence-Man proposes, God disposes! This does not mean resigning, nothing, resigning. On the contrary, I understand that many things are beyond people's control, and I should do my best within my own ability. . .

Let's talk about the pursuit of getting along with people:

When the things we have believed in for many years collapse, when our former friends or people we like leave me, do we really have nothing? In fact, we have everything again, because we finally understand what we should believe, what is true, what we should guard and what we should really cherish. ....

"The most terrible thing is people's competitiveness." This is also a sentence in the fairy sword, although I don't remember who it came from. The most terrible thing in the world is not war, but our fighting heart that has not disappeared for thousands of years. Actually, there is nothing wrong with fighting. It is precisely because of fighting that social material progress and ideological progress are promoted. But once everything is persistent, it becomes a huge and terrible force. Since ancient times, the heart of competition has also destroyed a lot? Therefore, between people, if we can be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others, it is the best ... it is an ideal state, hehe. ..

About love: I don't want to say anything more. Let's sum it up with what I wrote:

Love is like the wind, love is like smoke, love is difficult, but they are close to each other. Looking back in a blink of an eye ~ ~ Laughing at the world of mortals painting rosy clouds ~ Beauty is hard to find, and it is really difficult to break the world of mortals with a royal sword ~

I am an ordinary person, and I will still be confused in the face of things. Sometimes I can make a calm decision, and sometimes I will be emotional ... Hehe.

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Postscript:

Oh!

Sing while drinking-enjoy life to the fullest.

Life is short.

Like dew

Like morning dew, day after day

Loneliness of Qionglou Yuyu

How can it be compared with relying on the warmth of others?