You don't tell me, I don't ask, this is the distance. What is the classic passage?

You don't say, I don't ask, this is the distance; I ask you not to say, this is the gap; I ask you, say, this is trust; You don't say I don't ask, this is the tacit understanding; I'm not begging you. This is dependence. When the heart is near, words and deeds will be as natural as running water; If the heart is alienated, words and deeds will only be as dim as the tree of Sanqiu. Distance is not terrible, what is terrible is that the heart is getting farther and farther away.

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Many things you see and hear may not be what you think. When you are alive, give others more opportunities to explain, and give others more patience to explain, and life will be less regrettable. Don't ask, don't say, don't explain, it's not cool or human, it's irresponsible and unfair to yourself and others, and giving others a chance is also giving yourself a chance.

I'm not afraid of being in the north and south, but I'm afraid my heart is far away. If the heart is close, words and deeds will naturally flow like water. If the heart is alienated, words and deeds will be colder than winter.