My father-in-law is 80 years old and my son is not married. I don't want to lose everything to save him. Do you think I did the right thing?

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I am 55 years old and live in a small county. My family condition should be regarded as the lower middle class. Four people in my family live in a 70-square-meter house. My mother-in-law died early, and my father-in-law has been living with us. He is in poor health. Taking medicine alone is a big expense. My husband and I both work for a living and have no pension. My son is 33 and not married.

I have three aunts, one of whom is worse than the other. When we were children, we had many quarrels about housework. In those days, divorce would be laughed off. Although I am angry, I can only live so humbled. My son is a Woodenhead, and he can't talk to anyone himself. He is getting older every year. As a mother, I have no worries about his marriage, dragging a matchmaker everywhere to introduce him, but I can't talk about it. Some people don't like him, some people don't like him, and some bride price is too outrageous. We can't afford it, so we have to worship.

Last year, the matchmaker introduced my son to another object. This girl is both beautiful and filial. Most importantly, she has a good temper with my son. They have been talking about love. My husband and I discussed waiting for May Day to get married for our son. Unfortunately, my father-in-law was suddenly hospitalized. He is old and ill. The doctor said it was serious and difficult to cure. He can only maintain it, but the medical expenses are more expensive. Let's be prepared. In the first few days in the hospital, it was nearly 1000 yuan a day, and then it gradually stabilized, hundreds a day. To tell the truth, our family really can't afford it.

My husband and I take turns to take care of my father-in-law during the day and my son sleeps with me at night. In less than half a month, the whole person was haggard. The three aunts didn't have any money, but they were good at talking. Every time you come, you ask us to wait on your grandfather. My father-in-law's illness has worsened recently. The doctor said that you can enter the ICU if you can, but the cost is relatively high, 8,000 yuan a day. I was dumbfounded when I heard it. It's not that I don't agree to treat him. My son is not married, so I can't spend all my money on my father-in-law. How will I live in the future? I didn't agree to go to ICU Third aunt had a big fight with me in the hospital. They say that I am unfilial, and I have encroached on the property of the elderly and have not been kind to them. Heaven and earth conscience, my father-in-law's broken house sold for more than 40 thousand, even his medical expenses over the years are not enough. Third sister is a bitch, and she came up to hit me. Fortunately, she was hugged by my son, otherwise I didn't know this would happen.

I left the hospital in a rage and went to my sister's house. Anyway, I have the bank card, and it's useless for anyone to say it. It's not that I'm heartless, it's that my father-in-law has lived enough at the age of 80. Why do you have to have both money and people? Aunt asked them to pay for her filial piety and take care of her father-in-law's food, clothing, housing and transportation for so many years. I have done my duty with a clear conscience. Do you think I did the right thing?