I want my brother to help me when I am in trouble. Yes, my brother pretends to know nothing. Tell me.

"Human feelings are thinner than paper, and no amount of brothers are empty! Not as useful as outsiders. " My mother has been in a bad mood these days. My grandmother is in hospital, and several sons are close at hand. Who will accompany her to the hospital has become a difficult problem.

Grandma is over 90 years old, far away from other provinces, and lives in turn with her four sons. The family lasted for two months. When it's mom's turn, they pay the little aunt to take care of it. The last two months of this year was originally my mother's turn, but my aunt didn't want to take over, so my mother asked my fourth uncle to help her take care of it. The sun came out a few days ago after the cold weather. The old lady went out to bask in the sun and took off a vest. As a result, she began to have a fever and finally went to the hospital. Medical expenses are easier said than done, and children will share them equally. The problem is who will take care of them during hospitalization, but it has become a big problem. Several uncles have to work to earn money, and his uncle suggested simply asking a nurse to save worry and effort. My brother-in-law said that it is best to take care of your family. First, outsiders are not at ease. Second, the old lady has a strange temper. Her son in hospital won't accompany her. She is going to cry and say that she is going to adopt a white son. She will never eat it and throw it away when you are not looking. Third, he has an aunt at home. He doesn't need a nurse. Finally, it was decided that the four sons around him would one day be taken care of by turns in the hospital.

When the old lady was admitted to the hospital, when her mother's phone was not idle, several uncles called in turn, not complaining that the old lady had a strange temper and did not take medicine, which caused trouble to the children. In other words, the older you get, the worse your health is, and you are over 90 years old, or it implies that this time it was the elder sister who took the wheel and the old lady was ill again. How can she take care of the fourth child when she is a bachelor? Now she is well, and the old man is ill. And so on, my mother is really sad to hear, but she is also helpless. She had to be kind enough to persuade her, so she ignored everything. She was treated first and discharged from the hospital.

However, there have been no moths in these two days. My uncle's daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, and my uncle needs to go to Kunming with the local chickens and ducks he bought. He discussed with several brothers that his second uncle or younger brother should accompany him for one day, and he would pay the lost time according to the daily wages of local workers. The little aunt said that she was in poor health recently, and it was her turn to go. My second uncle said it was too inconvenient to be hospitalized. He would rather work on the construction site than stay in the hospital. He can only manage his own wheels. His uncle looked for a circle without results, and he was very angry. He really has something at home, and his wife and son are urging him, but his brother turns a blind eye, turns a blind eye and is unreasonable. I called my mother when I was angry. Sister, you should come out and comment. Mother sighed and called her fourth uncle again, asking him to do her a favor and solve the problem.

On the phone, my mother was silent for half a ring and suddenly said, "It is not a good thing for people to live too long. They always die, their children are very tired, and there is no dutiful son in front of their bed for a long time. If they are paralyzed, I am afraid they can only wait for death. " What's the use of having so many sons? One is unreliable! "Dad and I were shocked. Dad said quickly, old woman, what do you want to do with so much? You are a patient yourself. Mind your own business. It'll work out. My mother began to wipe away tears, and I felt uncomfortable. Look at your little brother. I am so kind to them because I want your grandmother to live with them in the future and be nice to her. I spent money for nothing!

It turns out that my mother has always been bitter about my aunt's refusal to help her take care of her grandmother. Now my grandmother is ill, which has caused her a great psychological burden. Just like Xianglinsao, she opened her mouth and poured out memories that had been stuck in her heart for many years: a few years ago, grandma was in Chongqing, and it was her mother's turn to take care of her son outside the province. She and her father took over and never asked them to go back to Chongqing to take care of themselves; Grandpa was seriously ill several times before he died, and my mother took the lead in cooking and delivering meals. Before and after running, she didn't complain, nor did she shout for nursing fees. Grandma has always been eccentric and small. To some extent, my mother is actually a "helper". My younger brother got married and decorated the old house. The wood used was bought by my mother, and she quietly helped to settle the cement, river sand and other things (dad actually knew, but didn't say); My brother bought a house in the town, from deciding, selecting projects, signing contracts, handing over houses and issuing certificates. At the end of the renovation, everything in the kitchen was also built by my mother, just to make it convenient for my grandmother to live in the future (are those renovations and appliances still there? )

Last year, my mother got cancer, had an operation and continued chemotherapy. "They came back, didn't come to see me, didn't even call, and my illness is not contagious, so chilling!" The palms of my hands are covered with meat. These brothers are not as good to me as my old sisters! "Mom really can't figure it out." Pay, don't want to return, just be worthy of everyone. You are all over 70 years old. "My father comforted my mother.

When I entered the kitchen, my father told me quietly that it was their turn to take care of my grandmother in June of 5438+0 and February this year, because everyone was going back to their hometown during the Spring Festival, and the old couple flew over to take care of it. "We arrived the night before and stayed at your little uncle's house. The next morning, your little aunt got up and made breakfast for only the two of them. Your mother and grandmother were hungry, so I came. I couldn't figure it out, so I had to buy some breakfast. They will go back to Chongqing in ten days, so your mother quickly gave 1000 as food expenses, and only lunch was ours. I was chilling at that time. Of course we won't live for nothing, we are so inhuman! The old lady must feel worse, and her brother can't tell the head of the family that he is unhappy. Don't talk about your mother. If you have time to talk to your mother, she won't think about it. "