My grandfather

Whenever I think of or someone talks about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I want to say it in my heart.

I am very lucky. My husband and I were childhood friends. Since junior high school, I have been to his house for my birthday, even though I have met "my husband".

There is no difficulty in meeting and getting along with adults. Later, when I got married, my husband and wife didn't ask much of me (snickering). Therefore, I have never been looked down upon by my husband's family. After the first year of marriage, I lived with my parents-in-law, and they wouldn't even let me wash the dishes. Whenever I want to wash it, they always say, "You don't understand, you don't understand. Don't worry. " It's the same as my own parents said (I just started trying to wash the dishes myself in high school. )

Therefore, even if I got married, I never knew what the so-called mother-in-law relationship was.

I am very lucky.

How happy parents-in-law should be if they are healthy in their later years! !

My father-in-law had a stroke when my daughter was two years old.

By then, we had moved out for several years. After the birth of her daughter, her father-in-law often goes to visit her granddaughter by bus on weekends. On a home visit, according to him, the feet became soft as soon as I got off the bus. Suddenly it was like limping, the moment I got off the bus. He didn't think much at the time.

When I got home, I wanted to have a rest and didn't go to the hospital immediately. I felt something was wrong that night, but it was already late at night.

It was too late to go to the hospital the next morning.

My father-in-law had a stroke!

It's not convenient for my father-in-law to move his feet from now on.

My father-in-law is tall, with big eyebrows and a wide face. I thought my father-in-law had been a soldier for a long time. The reason is that he looks upright from beginning to end. Ha ha laugh

You said a tall man had a stroke, didn't he feel bad?

From then on, he walked with crutches.

Every time I look at it, I feel a heartache. However, with the passage of time, the pain, of course, also subsided.

After all, I'm just an outsider. Hey!

Sometimes we feel powerless, not because of difficulties, but because we are powerless in the face of difficulties.

My father-in-law walked around on crutches for the next 10 years and never complained. But God didn't have eyes, diabetes and high blood pressure, and these old people didn't stay to take care of my father-in-law.

Because of these complications, my father-in-law's health has gone from bad to worse. It's been 12 years, and now he can't even walk with crutches.

But my father-in-law can always make me close. He never complains, never curses, and cooperates with the treatment.

The so-called unfilial son after a long illness My father-in-law needs to go to the hospital every month, either to draw blood, take pictures, see a doctor or get an injection. He never complains. Listen to my son's arrangement. After several times of chemotherapy this year, it is still the same.

In fact, sometimes it is the hardest thing to do in life-you will know how difficult it is to be sick and angry all the year round. How hard it is not to complain!

Part of the reason why I love my father-in-law is this. I imagine, if it were me, I couldn't live! I won't let go of the people around me: my husband.

Today, my husband went to take his father home. I cook at home and wait for them. Upstairs is an old woman who is ill in bed. She seems very happy today.

I was hospitalized before the Lunar New Year, but I can go home for the New Year.

I went downstairs to help with my things. Before entering the door, my father-in-law was thinking about the newspaper in the mailbox downstairs. My husband said he would take those later.

My father-in-law said something for several days and didn't say anything more.

At the door, I put down my things and went downstairs to get the pile of newspapers.

After lunch, when I was washing dishes, I looked back at my father-in-law who was sitting at the dinner table and turning over the newspaper. Be safe!

During the week in the hospital, he couldn't sleep and wanted to take sleeping pills. I was going to say you wouldn't lie down? I stopped talking when I looked at him.

Seriously, when I turned to continue washing dishes, a smile appeared on my lips.

It's a grin, because I'm actually very sad, and my tears are almost falling into the dishwasher ...!

I used to sometimes think: what will we be like when we are old? I sometimes even think, if I am paraplegic, will I choose to live?

But after many years, I think, there will always be a way, right?

People, important, are still alive.