11. Loyalty is the bottom line of a marriage relationship. Once it is breached, it may overturn the marriage ship, hurting your lover, hurting your children, and hurting your relatives. Although many

11. Loyalty is the bottom line of a marriage relationship. Once it is breached, it may overturn the marriage ship, hurting your lover, hurting your children, and hurting your relatives. Although many people understand this truth, there are too many temptations in this world. The important thing is to have a clear mind, learn to reflect on yourself, and let yourself mature. 12. When we complain about the boredom or misfortune of marriage, we are actually making the same fatal mistake, that is: we point the source of misfortune in marriage to the marriage itself rather than to ourselves. This is really a big deal. The misunderstanding is also our tragedy. Who creates an unhappy marriage? It is ourselves. Happiness or misfortune all depends on ourselves. 13. Falling in love is an art, and love is when two people grow together. This requires communication. Only with communication can there be understanding, and with understanding can there be deeper love. There is bound to be the possibility of disputes in communication, but this is not a bad thing. Exposing conflicts is ultimately more conducive to marital harmony than covering them up. Silence does not solve problems, but only conceals and avoids them. 14. Couples living in two places have to experience more temptations than ever before, there are more candidates for love, and they are surrounded by crises, which is a huge challenge to the relationship between husband and wife. Since a couple is separated in two places due to an insurmountable reality, they must first accept this fact, and secondly, work harder on their marriage than other couples. 15. There is no absolutely correct way to keep a marriage fresh, and there is no panacea that works for all marriages. The most important thing about whether a marriage is vital and whether it can be kept fresh is not to seek these tricks to keep it fresh, but to always have this string in your heart and have it in your heart. With this string, you will come up with ways to keep your marriage fresh, and your husband and wife will be able to love each other forever. 16. Marriage must be as plain as a steady flow of water. Only plainness can last, and thin water can flow for a long time. But plainness does not mean tasteless, and thin water does not mean completely calm. Otherwise, it will go to the other extreme of marriage, and it will also be another dead end of marriage. , being bland and lacking in freshness is the biggest fatal flaw in a marriage. 17. Love cannot be forced, and marriage does not need to be forced. Both men and women should treat love and marriage with caution. Emotional marriage cannot be a casual act. 18. Love and marriage are not a one-man show. If a man or a woman only excels on a purely personal level, it will not necessarily lead to a happy marriage. Whether they are a talented and beautiful couple or a mutual appreciation couple, their essence is the same, that is, mutual understanding of style. To understand life, the so-called husband and wife "play a double act" - they can't do it without cooperation. 19. Extramarital affairs means infidelity and betrayal of marriage, but the occurrence of extramarital affairs does not happen out of nowhere. There are internal and external environments where it occurs. Emotions are indeed extremely complicated things and cannot be judged simply by good or bad. Perhaps rationally Thinking can help you better deal with this difficult problem. It not only gives opportunities to oneself and the other party, but also gives opportunities to marriage and family, without losing the basic dignity of being a human being. Think and face rationally, and deal with it with confidence and dignity. 20. Six types of "extreme" men cannot be married: extremely selfish men; extremely lustful men; extremely chauvinistic men; extremely stingy men; extremely loose and lazy men; and extremely Oedipus complex men. The best sentences to end an extramarital affair 2 1. After walking through love, walking through passion, walking into marriage, walking into dullness, passing through the seven-year itch, and crossing the ten-year hurdle, will the road to marriage enter a dead end or become wider and wider? It depends on how we care for and manage it. 2. The premise and foundation of happiness is of course love and loyalty, and whether happiness can be truly obtained in the end depends on the good emotional habits between husband and wife. Therefore, good habits create a happy marriage. 3. What do women need? In the final analysis, in addition to basic material security to live a worry-free life, women also need a man’s sincerity, his true love, and his attentiveness and care. Real love can be seen in the subtleties. If you love her, take action and implement it into every detail of your life. 4. It’s okay if one is different from the other, for many men. It is often said that men like the new and hate the old. No matter how beautiful a woman is, she will suffer from aesthetic fatigue after being together for a long time. As long as she is new and meets someone new, it will be "fresh" for many men.