Talk about realistic disappointment (48 items)

1. Lonely people are best at pretending to be busy.

2. If you act too cheaply, no wonder no one will cherish you.

3. Don’t say it, you will still miss me after you leave; don’t say it, you will still be friends after you break up.

4. The loneliest loneliness is when your world is barren.

5. I promised you that I won’t love you anymore, but I haven’t promised myself yet.

6. There are always some people. In their hearts, you are just a passerby, but in your heart, they cannot be cut off or forgotten.

7. We are not good actors in relationships. You can't hide your indifference, and I can't pretend to be reserved.

8. Many things in life are hard to come by. Those who are deliberately forced cannot get it, and those who are not expected often come unexpectedly.

9. I don’t regret what I have done. What I regret is that I didn’t do some things when I had the opportunity to do them.

10. 1. Disappointment and anger are the same. Anger just wants to be coaxed, but disappointment means I can't listen to anything you say, and I start to rationally think about the meaning of this relationship.

11. I like to be alone but hate loneliness.

12. No matter how long the road is, it will have an end. No matter how long the night is, it will have an end. No matter how hard it rains, it will always stop.

13. The time is short but I feel deeply lonely and unbearable.

14. When a relationship lasts for a long time, it is no longer love, but dependence; when it is lost, it is not pain, but reluctance.

On the day when I let go, there were no words, only tears falling.

16. I would rather be parallel lines with him and never intersect, because once we intersect, we will become farther and farther apart after that point.

17. You need a fulfilling life now, not worried feelings, a trembling soul, and the person you can’t love.

18. Maybe, it’s okay not to want those lost memories.

19. When we encounter unhappiness of one kind or another, we might as well calm down and think about why we do these things.

20. As long as my mobile phone still has power and data, it cannot catch up with me when I am alone.

21. What is loneliness? Others are waiting for umbrellas, while I am waiting for the rain to stop.

22. Time is the most deceptive, but it can also make you understand that there is nothing in this world that cannot be lost. What is gone is the scenery. What is left behind is the right person in the end of life.

23. Loneliness roars in my mind, like a waking beast.

24. Let me eat memories as dinner and swallow the sourness of these many years.

25. In a person's life, there are some unspeakable secrets, irreparable regrets, unreachable small goals, and unforgettable love.

26. I mind everything but can forgive everything.

27. It took me too long to learn, don’t get to know anyone too quickly, don’t show your heart to everyone, because not everyone really wants to know you and become each other. A truly meaningful partner.

28. Put down your temper and dignity just because I can’t let you go.

29. Sometimes it takes us a few seconds to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Thirty. Like is light, but love is deep. I heard that happiness is very simple, so simple that it will be diluted by time.

Thirty-one. I won’t be jealous anymore. I won’t think about it anymore. I’m tired. Just go with whoever you like. One sentence: I'm fine.

33. The greatest sadness in life is to meet someone who is very important to you, only to find out that it is wrong and have no chance, and you have to give up after all.

34. Your heart is the place I want to come back to even if I go to the end of the world.

Thirty-five, I want a family and no longer want to live a wandering life.

Thirty-six. I am really afraid that I will never meet the one I like and then die alone.

Thirty-seven. Once, I wanted to share all my secrets with you, but now, you have become the deepest secret in my heart.

38. A lonely person will always carefully remember everyone who has appeared in his life, so I always think of you counting me over and over again every night when the stars fall. of loneliness.

Thirty-nine, the story begins to go back, the most beautiful dream has gone far, the happiness you promised me is no longer happy.

Forty. Time flies, and there are so many people around you. Have you ever wanted to get to know someone again?

41. When I meet you again, I feel more sad and less fond of you.

42. We all like to show off our strength and always like to cry and say it’s okay.

43. I stand in the middle of thousands of people, very lonely and beautiful.

44. You look like you don’t need me, how dare I embrace you deeply.

45. I have been looking for that feeling, that feeling of holding a pair of warm hands and walking forward steadily on a cold day.

Forty-six. When a person is thinking about something, he really wants to find someone to accompany him. A person loses himself. I don’t know if there is still hope to pursue.

47. You are unhappy because you do not love yourself properly, but because others consume you.

48. Loneliness is a beast that lives under the bed, loyal and free. Realistic and heart-wrenching classics (48 items)

1. "It's my duty to help you, but it's my duty not to help you. Everyone has their own position." The ugliness of human nature lies in his If you help him when he needs something from you, he will take it for granted; if you don't help him, he will say that you are heartless and unjust.

2. The beginning of the story is always like this. It happens at the right time and is caught off guard. The ending of the story is always like this, two flowers bloom, separated by the sky.

3. There are always windy mornings, gorgeous dusk, and shooting star nights. Give yourself a sense of freedom and ease, and learn to say to yourself: Life is no big deal. Time is fair, and many things can only be understood after experiencing them. How many dreams can we hold on to, and how many years can we squander. Just like feelings, only after the pain has passed can we know how to protect ourselves. In gain and loss, we slowly get to know ourselves.

4. Don’t get close to people who don’t like you, don’t talk nonsense with people you don’t like, and waste your limited time on beautiful people. This life is really not long, and the best gift we can receive is just one sentence: Let's spend the rest of our lives together.

5. In fact, we are all ordinary people. They are kind-hearted, and they are also stupid and afraid of loneliness. Sometimes they are clever and want others to treat them better, but they are too lazy to pay.

6. There is no secret to growing old together. It is just that when you are in love, you should be touched, and in the cold war, you should be grateful.

7. No one will always look for the only spiritual comfort in the same corner; in reality, there are too many frustrations, too many fears, too many helplessness, diluted, covered up, understand . What's left is only the emotion of looking back at the scene, and the longing without regrets... People who are too preoccupied always have random thoughts, and as a result, they are trapped in a mess of thoughts, unable to move. Sometimes, it is better to have less energy than to worry too much.

8. We throw away our childhood and our youth in exchange for something called achievement; we throw away our parents and ourselves in search of something called love.

9. Life is not bitter at all, but what is bitter is that we have too many desires; people’s hearts are not tired, but what is tired is that we cannot let go of too much.

10. The sign of maturity is not being able to talk big things, but that you begin to understand the little things around you.

11. The best way to be a human being is to respect others, ignore other people’s business, and not show off your own superiority. The more you grow, the more you learn to be restrained and self-possessed. This world does not exist for you alone. Just be quiet and do yourself a good job by not saying bad things about others. Don't seek depth, just simplicity. You don't live just to please others, nor to show off what you have. No one cares, more people are watching the joke. As you become better, the environment around you will also be optimized.

12. Dreams do not need language. They are gardens deep within the soul.

So sometimes I feel that dreams are my reality, with a clear feeling, a life of release, and an exploration of the distance and the unknown. Nightmare is a reality, while wakefulness seems to be sleep. It's like the night is my day and the day is my night. There is nothing new under the sun.

13. Everyone will be tired. No one can bear all the sorrow for you. There will always be a period of time when people have to learn to grow up on their own.

14. Sometimes, we must put aside our pride and admit that we were wrong. This is not about admitting defeat, but about growing up.

15. There are some people you can’t keep. It's not that he's not worthy, it's that he doesn't have you in his heart at all. What matters in falling in love is not how good you are, but how good he is to you. If someone cherishes you, then you are the best no matter what. If a person dislikes you, then whatever you do is wrong. Don't waste time on people who don't love you. Only those who love you are worthy of your love.

16. Is a bad marriage terrible? It is just like a school, where you experience the most heartbreaking pain, the most humiliating training, the toughest endurance, the most bone-gnawing loneliness, and the most hopeless waiting. Facing the future with such a tested mind, are there any obstacles that cannot be overcome?

17. Some things just don’t deserve to be forgiven. It has nothing to do with generosity. Everyone has their own bottom line. If you make a mistake, you should consider paying the price for your mistake.

18. If you are not satisfied, change it; if you don’t like it, break it up; if you feel uncomfortable, leave it; if you are unhappy, leave it. There is so much pain in life, it’s just because you don’t let yourself go!

19. When you are hungry, someone will give you half of the steamed buns, which is friendship; someone will let you eat the steamed buns first, which is love; someone will give you all the steamed buns. Eating, this is family affection; someone will hide the steamed buns and tell you that he is hungry too, this is society. What happens in society every day is like a TV series, but it is even scarier than what is shown in the TV series.

20. All complicated relationships have problems behind them. Because the best relationship is actually the simplest one, with no cheating, no third party, and no money entanglements. It's just that two people like each other, then get along, and finally stay together for a lifetime. It's not that the world is too complicated, but that your love is too complicated. Don't be troubled by entanglements, choose a simple person. Love is simple and long-lasting.

21. Life is not just about ease. It is a man's responsibility to make money! Women have value when they make money! Being pretty is an advantage! Living beautifully is the key!

22. Look at the vicissitudes of the world with a smile, the flowers bloom and fall, there is no need to hold them back, as long as you are grateful.

23. There will always be someone who is trying their best to be nice to you, and then when their presence becomes your habit, you will be indifferent for a moment. Coming is fate, leaving is also fate. If all contact has become a disturbance, no contact is really the best state. Life is not just about survival. Everyone in life is struggling on different paths, whether sad or happy. The ups and downs are felt most deeply by yourself. No matter how beautiful you look, you cannot see the pain inside. You have to bear the hardships on your own for the sake of face and survive. Happiness cannot survive misery, life is like this from generation to generation.

24. If you like someone, you have to confess it. At worst, you won’t even be friends. Being friends is useless, and I don’t lack friends.

25. Some wounds, no matter how long it takes, still hurt when touched; some people, no matter how long it takes, still hurt when they think about them.

26. Instead of caring about others’ betrayal and unkindness, it is better to manage your own dignity and beauty.

27. Memories can really turn a person into a psychopath. One second ago, the corner of his mouth was still slightly raised, but at this second, his eyes are moist.

28. Don’t get married just to be responsible. You know, marrying someone without loving them is the most irresponsible thing. Even if it makes the other person sad at that time, it is better than making him sad for several years or even a lifetime.

Twenty-nine, flowers bloom and fall, clouds roll and relax, fate comes and goes. Some words are better said early; some words are better not said. There are always times in life when you can't help but lie, and there are also times when you can't help being silent. There are some things that I don’t want to say, just like there are some secrets and thoughts that I just want to keep buried deep in my heart and known to myself. It’s hidden and won’t be eaten by insects, so what’s there to be afraid of? He said it, but he was like a bird out of its cage that could not be chased back.

30. Many people are unhappy because they always feel that the past was too good, the present is too bad, and the future is too vague.

31. It is reasonable not to help you, but it is affectionate to help you. Everyone has their own different stance

32. Only those who have experienced the most painful persistence can be worthy. Have the most permanent happiness.

33. How many people keep changing their signatures, but actually they just want to make someone feel something?

Thirty-four, people always have to mature slowly, see this flashy world more clearly, see through the disguised truth, see clearly the hidden falsehood, and no longer believe many things that they originally believed. However, you must believe that in this world, there will always be more beauty than darkness, more happiness than suffering, and there are many things that are worthy of your belief as always.

35. The so-called gap between ideal and reality is that when you pick it up, you think it is a piece of meat, but when you bite it, you realize that it is actually a piece of ginger.

Thirty-six. It’s very painful now. When you look back after a while, you will find that it was actually nothing.

Thirty-seven. There is always a person hidden in everyone's heart. Maybe this person will never know it. However, this person can never be replaced by anyone. And that person is like a scar that will never heal. No matter when, as long as it is lifted or touched lightly, it will hurt.

38. Adversity is a necessary process for growth. Those who have the courage to accept adversity will grow stronger day by day.

Thirty-nine, as long as parents are here, there is still something to come in life. When parents go away, there is only one way home left in life.

40. Life is fair. To live a wonderful life requires an enterprising heart. Always keep a calm heart and a tolerant heart. If you can't let go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. An elegant life is to have a calm heart and a peaceful mind, and stop regretting what you missed. The most valuable thing about people is their atmosphere. You must learn to say to yourself, if you can be satisfied by saying this, I am willing to accept it.

41. When we understand how to love someone, it is the maturity of emotion; and when we understand the love of another person, it is the maturity of love.

42. Someone stabbed you in the chest and said you were sensitive. You inserted the knife back, but he said "this little thing doesn't matter."

43. Sometimes I am silent, not because I am unhappy, but because I want to empty my heart. Sometimes you need to step back, clear your mind, and remind yourself who I am and where I'm going.

44. Mature people need masks. Put it on and face the society with strength; take it off and face your family gently.

45. Never overestimate your status in the hearts of others. In fact, you are nothing. There is no more than you, and no less than you.

Forty-six, I will no longer shout around because I am excited, nor will I pray for others’ understanding and comfort because I am depressed. Both the good and the bad have learned not to exaggerate or shout about it. I learned how to live a serious life in a humorous way.

Forty-seven. That’s it. Don’t think too much. Life is still going on. There are many worries every day. Don’t bring too many emotions into your daily life.

48. In the journey of life, there will always be a period of time when you need to walk by yourself and carry it by yourself. Classic quotes about how life is very realistic (48 items)

1. There is no need to let everyone know the real you, or there is no need for you to keep telling people what kind of person I am. Because this is ineffective, people will still only want to see what they want to see.

2. Growth is to doubt over and over again what you believed in before, and then overthrow yourself one stage after another, growing new wisdom and temperament, with countless confusions and uncertainties, firmness To move towards the next stage of yourself.

3. Anger is to punish yourself with other people’s mistakes; worry is to torture yourself with your own mistakes; regret is to destroy yourself with helpless past events; worry is to scare yourself with virtual risks; loneliness Self-esteem is to use the prison of self-control to imprison oneself; inferiority is to use the strengths of others to destroy oneself.

4. When you grow up, you realize that once something is said, there will be a gap between the hearts. You have to apologize to others because you exposed the truth.

So if you want to live smoothly, please always bring your brain.

5. People have to make many choices in life, but the most difficult thing is to live with your own choices. No one else can help you.

6. For things like vanity, you must have the strength to pay for it. Otherwise, it would be to save face and suffer.

7. Don’t pay too much attention to the superficial emotions between people; people who are close friends don’t need it, and people who have casual acquaintances don’t need it. If you don't care about emotions, they won't hurt you.

8. How much friendship, now the only connection is likes.

9. If you see someone clearly, there is no need to expose him; if you hate someone, there is no need to turn against him. In life, there are always people who can't stand us, just like others can't stand us.

10. Don’t rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When separation comes, what you lose is not a person, but your spiritual support. No matter when and where you are, learn to walk independently, it will make you walk more calmly. —— Hayao Miyazaki

11. There is no need to please everyone, because for some people, the more you please them, the more they are mean and the more they feel that your kindness to them is natural.

12. The greatest success in life is to develop a good attitude and make yourself unhappy all the time. Life is the best teacher, rounding off the edges, forgetting hatred, and turning dreams into reality. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. Smart people are always looking for a good mood; successful people are always in a good mood; happy people are always enjoying a good mood.

13. Happiness can come slower, as long as it is true, it really doesn’t matter if it comes later. The happiest thing is that after a lot of hard work, everything is slowly turning into what you want!

14. Kind-hearted people always feel that rejecting others seems like they have done something wrong.

15. Everything that appears in life cannot be possessed, it can only be experienced. We are just passers-by in time, and one day we will say goodbye to everything. Those who know this deeply will understand: there is no such thing as loss, it is just passing; there is no such thing as gain, it is just experience. What we pass, no matter how beautiful it is, can only be a memory after all; what we get, we should cherish it, and then say goodbye calmly when we lose it.

16. Later, you no longer dig your heart out when you meet others. You start to care about whether the effort and reward are directly proportional, and whether the person is worth it. You become very mature and very selfish. The good news is that you know how to love yourself. The bad news is that it’s hard to love others.

17. The height of life does not come from how many achievements he has made, but how many difficulties and hardships he has stepped on.

18. Only naive people will be soft-hearted, while mature people are the most ruthless.

19. I give you one candy. If you see me giving him two, you will have an opinion about me. But you don’t know that he also gave me two candies. What do you think? None of them were given to me.

20. The ears do not hear the faults of others, the eyes do not see the shortcomings of others, and the mouth does not speak of the faults of others.

21. When you see someone clearly without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you hate someone without falling out, you understand the ultimate respect. In life, there will always be people you can't stand, and there will always be people who can't stand you.

22. If you live in the eyes of others, you will be lost in your own heart. In this world, don't rely too much on others, because even your shadow will leave you in the dark. Don’t regret the past; don’t worry about the future; cherish the present. If you are content, life is full of scenery; if you are not satisfied, life is full of traps!

23. There is no debt in life. Others give to you because they like you; you give to others because you are willing. Love comes out of your own free will, and you have no regrets.

24. Trust is the easiest thing to lose in this world, and it is also the hardest thing to restore.

25. The ability is not in the face, and the ability is not in the mouth. We must do practical things in a down-to-earth manner. Life will not become different because of a certain node. Future luck is the accumulation of past efforts.

26. If someone helps you, you are lucky; if no one helps you, it is a just fate.

No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you have to be responsible for yourself.

27. If a sensible person fails to cooperate, he will be said to have no conscience. A willful person will be praised non-stop for being well-behaved.

28. Life doesn’t have so many plots. Reliable people don’t have many tricks but can accompany you to live an ordinary life.

29. There is no why. Ask less why. Adults must learn to accept it.

Thirty, if you have more patience, you will have fewer regrets. Fewer falling outs will lead to more steps. The more times you can't hear it, the less times you'll be bothered. The less harsh words you say, the more leeway you can have, and the more you can do to be a good person, so that we can meet each other easily in the future.

31. No matter how you live, someone will say something to you behind your back without defending or caring. To laugh it off is actually the best form of contempt.

32. The best thing in life is to learn while walking. Don't force yourself into a world that you can't squeeze into, making it difficult for others and making yourself inferior; don't force yourself to do things that you can't do; change your mind and you may get twice the result with half the effort; don't forcefully take things that you can't get, even if you get them temporarily , will also be lost!

Thirty-three, kindness and love are free, but not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a little sharp, and your love needs to have some sense and eyes to recognize people. After all, not everything Everyone deserves them.

34. Don’t care too much about other people’s feelings. Don’t get nervous when others feel disappointed. Don’t feel soft-hearted when others apologize. Don’t always make others happy while feeling wronged. Think about it yourself. , why let yourself be so tired that you can't breathe. You are too sensitive and too kind, and people who are too kind will suffer in the end.

Thirty-five, starting from talking about everything, and finally having nothing to say. Most of the relationships in the world, be it love, friendship, management, or relationships between people and society, are like this.

36. You can’t change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can’t change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can’t change the past, but you can change the present; you can’t control others, but you can change the present. You can control yourself; you can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you can't have everything go smoothly, but you can do your best in everything; you can't extend the length of life, but you can determine the width of life.

37. The happiest thing in life is not to live like others, but to live more like yourself after working hard. Therefore, as long as there is still a chance to work hard, don't give up easily.

38. You will wake up tomorrow morning anyway. This is the important motivation for living. There is nothing that is truly insurmountable, except death.

Thirty-nine, people, when they reach a certain age, live with a smile every day with some worries and some unspeakable pain.

40. No matter how far you go, you can see the open scenery. There is nothing not to do. There is nothing that must be done. There is no dissatisfied mentality. Be 100% satisfied that you can exist in the present moment. ——Noriko Morishita, "Every Day is a Good Day"

41. Life is not about begging, so no matter how embarrassing your life is, you must go on calmly and live up to your life.

42. When you are embarrassed to reject others, think about why they are embarrassed to embarrass you.

43. There is no need to be picky about the unsatisfactory life. Everything is nothing more than your own innocence meeting the reality of society. It is better to understand than to hold prejudices, and it is better to let go of complaints.

44. In this age of sentimentality, "Dear" is just a hello at best, and "I'll treat you to dinner next time" is at best a thank you. Why take it too seriously?

45. There are many things in life, which need to be endured; there are many desires in life, which need to be endured; there are many feelings in life, which need to be endured; there are many sufferings in life, which need to be endured; there are many pains in life, which need to be endured ; There are many words in life that need to be endured. There is a lot of anger in life and you need to endure it. Forbearance is a kind of vision, forbearance is a kind of mind, forbearance is a kind of understanding, forbearance is a skill of life, and forbearance is a rule of wisdom!

46. Others slander you because you are excellent. When others use you, it shows that you are valuable. If someone is jealous of you, it means you are ahead of them. When others use words to attack you and maliciously hype you up, it shows that you are very influential.

So don’t be angry but strive for success, be happy but don’t be sad, and make breakthroughs but don’t see through. Life is like a mirror, it laughs when you laugh, and it cries when you cry, so it is better to smile at life and insist on being original.

47. The ugliness of human nature cannot withstand being exposed. The more it is revealed, the more disgusting it becomes.

48. It is not the work that tires you out, but the people you meet at work. It is not tiring to deal with work, but it is the people you have to face every day that are helpless. Talk about realistic and disappointing feelings

1. After a long relationship, it is not love, but dependence; when you lose it, it is not pain, but reluctance.

2. On the day I let go, there were no words, only tears falling.

3. You need a fulfilling life now, not worried feelings, a trembling soul, and the person you can't love.

4. Maybe it’s better not to have those lost memories.

5. When we encounter this or that kind of unhappiness, we might as well calm down and think about why we do these things.

6. As long as my mobile phone still has power and data, loneliness cannot catch up with me.

7. What is loneliness? Others are waiting for umbrellas, while I am waiting for the rain to stop.

8. Let me eat memories as dinner and swallow the sourness of these many years.

9. In a person's life, there are some unspeakable secrets, irreparable regrets, unreachable small goals, and unforgettable love.

10. I mind everything but can forgive everything.

11. It took me too long to learn, don’t get to know anyone too quickly, don’t show your heart to everyone, because not everyone really wants to get to know you and become a truly valuable partner. Meaningful partner.

12. Let go of your temper and dignity just because I can’t let you go.

13. Sometimes it takes us a few seconds to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

14. Like is light, love is deep. I heard that happiness is very simple, so simple that it will be diluted by time.

15. I’m not jealous anymore, and I don’t think about it anymore. I’m tired. Just go with whoever you want.

16. Even if all my worries are combined into one sentence, I’m fine.

17. The greatest sadness in life is to meet someone who is very important to you, only to find out that it was wrong and have no chance, and you have to give up after all.

18. Your heart is the place I want to come back to even if I go to the end of the world.

19. I want a family and no longer want to live a wandering life.

20. I am really afraid that I will never meet the one I like and then die alone.

21. Once, I wanted to share all my secrets with you, but now, you have become the deepest secret in my heart.

22. A lonely person will always carefully remember everyone who has appeared in his life, so I always think of you counting my loneliness over and over every night when the stars fall. .

23. The story begins to go back, the most beautiful dream has gone far, and the happiness you promised me is no longer happy.

24. Time flies, and there are so many people around you. Have you ever wanted to get to know someone again?

25. When I meet you again, I feel more sad and less fond of you.

26. We all like to show off our strength and always like to cry and say it’s okay.

27. How dare I embrace you when you look like you don’t need me.

28. When a person is thinking about something, he wants to find someone to accompany him. One loses oneself. I don’t know if there is still hope to pursue.

29. You are unhappy because you do not love yourself properly, but because others consume you.