What do you think of "many elderly women lead a relaxed life after their wives die"?

At the age of 68, my wife left me and I became a lonely woman. I was in pain for a while. I thought I would feel lonely in the future, but after getting used to a person's life, I feel that a person's life is quite carefree.

As a traditional woman, it is always very hard at home, not only to serve her wife's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also to look at his face. If she talks to an old man more, the old man will be unhappy, but now she has no burden and doesn't care at all.

At this age, I am relieved. In fact, no one will die in the end, but the old man left first. Although people are gone, their memories still exist. After decades of ups and downs, this friendship is still there, and my heart is quite satisfied.

An old lady like me is lonely in the eyes of others. Actually, I'm not completely lonely. Whether psychologically or in life, I have no burden at all, let alone anxiety. I can say that everything is arbitrary. How can it be uncomfortable?

It is natural for people to live, die and die. No one was summoned by terrorists to escape. Hujie's husband walked away like a child, and he was as thin as a skeleton. Hu Jie cried because she cried, but she cried for herself. Her life is not good. My neighbor, Sister Hu, is 56 years old. Today happens to be the first anniversary of her husband's death. Her husband had pancreatic cancer, from discovery to death, more than eight years. From the date of diagnosis, Hu Jie has been with her, trying every means to inquire about buying medicine for treatment, traveling with her in the early stage and staying in bed for the last three years. Hu Jie is doing her best to serve, knowing that she will eventually leave or try to live one more day.

After seven days of burning paper, Hu Jie and his girlfriend signed up for a group tour to Yunnan and took many beautiful photos, each of which was a smiling face. When I came back, I started dancing, traveling and shooting Tik Tok. Every time I see her, Tik Tok will add beauty to shoot the same paragraph, which is beautiful and distorted, but she likes it and is intoxicated.

Actually, this is also very good. Do your best when you are alive, and don't think about it when you are gone. This is good for both the dead and the living. I have a relative, and the husband and wife are very close. After her husband died of liver cancer, she was obsessed with it. When she got home, she felt that her husband had not gone out and could not help talking to the air. Later, I helped her find a job, and she got better after coming out. But her face has always been black, and her eyes were red when we took pictures together.

This is regardless of age. When one party dies, as a wife who will accompany him all his life, it will definitely be extremely painful. This is the right solution. In fact, many women, including middle-aged and elderly women, are in a better mood and health after their inner husbands leave, and they are cheerful and happy every day.

The reason is that this really shouldn't happen. Love is noble, sacred and beautiful. How happy men and women in love are. There will always be such disappointments in the world. Not all women's love lives are sweet. When they meet love rat, or they have different views, they are totally two-way cars from the inner and spiritual world. Choose divorce? It's not that easy. There are too many entanglements and things in the county. The son is still young, and some can drown people. Help them stop divorce, choose forbearance, endure great inner pain, and stick to this marriage in name only for the sake of children and so-called reputation. At this point, their hearts are already broken and insensitive.

Another situation is that a woman has paid too much for peace, her husband, her family and her children in life, and her hair is gray, and a beautiful woman has become an old woman. These humiliating efforts have not been recognized by their husbands, but in exchange for domestic violence and discrimination. I believe that every woman in the world will be chilling when she meets such a husband.

Therefore, after the death of their husbands, these women have no domestic violence and abuse, and there is no mental pain caused by disagreement. Their burden of life has been lightened and their hearts are relaxed. Therefore, their mentality has improved, and they are willing to participate in social activities and communicate with others. Naturally, the body is getting better every day.

They also admire beauty and love life, hoping to marry a good husband who knows the cold and the hot, but fate has not taken care of them, and they are unfortunate. When the husband is gone, he will no longer be beaten and scolded, nor will he have to eat three meals a day, sew and mend, and be busy with trivial matters. He can live according to his own wishes and get happier every day.

Such a fact should not appear now, but it happened. Let's wish all lovers in the world a happy life. Don't let this happen again.