The behavior of a man after a breakdown

These three manifestations of a man’s collapse are not because he doesn’t love you, but because he loves you too much.

01. If you don’t reply to his message for a long time, he will keep waiting, even for one night, but when you reply to him, he will be very irritable

Dating between two people The relationship has been going on for a long time, and although it is not as sweet as it once was, for each other, the other has become an indispensable part of their lives.

It's like saying good morning and good night to each other. Suddenly one day without sending them, you will feel something shortcoming. This is also the love between two people turning into a habit.

So when you don’t reply to him for a long time, he will think randomly about what you are doing and where you have been. If you wait for a long time, he will inevitably collapse, but it is definitely not right. A disappointment for you.

He will keep waiting for you to reply, always dreaming of hearing the message notification sound the next second, but when you reply to him, he will be very irritable and ask you angrily why you didn’t reply to the message. .

Even if you tell me the reason, he still won't understand. I think his mood at this time must be full of happiness, but also mixed with irritability and anger.

When a boy collapses in this way, you must feel that you are very happy because he loves you, so that he will collapse because you don't reply to his message.

02. When you are having a cold war, he will drink to relieve his sorrows, get drunk, and complain about your shortcomings

Every couple will always have something to do with each other. They fight protracted wars over trivial matters, ignoring each other, and each is busy with his or her own affairs.

Compared with girls, boys pay more attention to face. Maybe when you decide to have a cold war, he shows a state of indifference, but a boy who really loves you will definitely be very broken and very sad, but more Just sad.

Because he cares, he doesn’t want to leave you for a second, he just wants to be with you all the time. In fact, it is not difficult to find that a boy is really clingy when he is in love.

Generally, things that are considered very small in a boy's mind are very big in a girl's mind. If you raise a cold war over a trivial matter, he must be devastated.

Many men use alcohol to drown their sorrows. They will call you to pick them up when they are drunk, and they will even complain about your faults, saying that you are wrong and he is right, but But he loves you so much in his heart.

When a boy is drunk but remembers to be the first to call you, this is enough to show how important you are in his heart. This kind of boy must love you the most and deserves you. To cherish.

03. If you blame him for not accompanying you well, when life and feelings are intertwined, he will collapse and blame you for not understanding him

In fact, some boys have Sometimes he will be very tired, because he needs to work very hard to let the people he likes have a better life, so sometimes he will inevitably neglect a lot because of work.

In his heart, he must also want to be with the person he loves most, live a world of two people every day, and also want to take the person he loves the most to travel around, but due to practical reasons, he cannot Realize your wishes.

You may have complained about him or blamed him, and you may have quarreled or even broken up because of this. He may also lose his temper with you, or even say that you don't understand him.

I think when a boy really loves you and you break up, he will never feel a kind of freedom, but a kind of collapse. When life and feelings suppress his heart, he will Will be really impatient.

After the collapse, he will definitely go back to make you happy, because he understands you and knows that you love him so he complains. He also wants you to know that he loves you too, and it is because he loves you that he works hard.

Many boys have this mentality, thinking that if they cannot let the people they love live a good life, they will feel very guilty. Such boys are really worth cherishing.

Love is inseparable from mutual understanding. This kind of love that considers and encourages each other will definitely make many people envious. Only this kind of love will come to the end.

So cherish these three types of boys who show signs of collapse, because he really cares about you and loves you very much. You are really lucky to have met him.