16-year-old son always looks disgusted with his mother. Whatever his mother does is wrong. What should his mother do?

I am a teacher and the mother of a junior boy! I can deeply understand your feelings! My son is the same as your child in the second day of junior high school and next semester! I tell you, this is a typical adolescence! At that time, my son's face was turned every day. No matter what an adult has done, he is dissatisfied and even disgusted! As soon as we talked to him, he was very resistant. He left his room as soon as we approached it. Anyway, he just doesn't want to have anything to do with you! Our approach is to let nature take its course, even if he turns his face and smiles at him, because this is not a big matter of principle after all, and it is also an act that he can't control. After about half a year, everything will be the same as before, sunny, handsome and warm! So I suggest you understand the special situation of children at this stage and spend this time smoothly with them! In fact, every child's adolescence is different, some are obvious, some have no feelings at all, and their children also have their own pains. I hope you respect your child, respect his adolescence, let him feel at ease in the past, and hope to be happy and healthy!

I have a son, 14 years old, and I will let him take me all day. In the morning, I will tell him what I want for breakfast and ask him to cook it for me. Then let him take me to buy food. When I come back, please ask him to show me my summer homework. Then I will watch him write and let him cook lunch. ...

In a word, I let him take care of me and do whatever I want, sometimes working with my husband and three people. ...

He is a boy and I am a girl. Is he not good at taking care of me? Although he doesn't do many things well, we need to give our children a chance to grow up.

1. Parents should keep learning, keep pace with the times and set an example. They shouldn't just ask their children and take it for granted that they can't do it themselves.

2. Talk about things, never nag, never turn over old scores.

Parents should not always complain when their children have problems. They should consider the root of the problem, solve the problem from the source, and let the children trust you instead of listening to your constant complaints.

4. Give children some free space and don't take care of everything. We learn to let go and trust them, but we can't let ourselves go and never give in on matters of principle.

5. Be a tower lamp for children on their way forward, not a "bureaucratic parent" who only points fingers.

6. Pay attention to your gfd etiquette. Children want clean and decent parents, not sloppy or vulgar parents. Moreover, parents have good feelings, and a warm family can bring more confidence to children.

These are the ways you usually get along with children.

Why don't you like mom? Have you looked for this reason? He is a teenager now and has his own thoughts and ideas. Sometimes he thinks differently from you. If you reject him blindly and deny what he thinks is wrong, he will resist. Against you. So I hate it. Sometimes don't deny his thoughts, but consider his feelings. Although this is his choice, you should respect his choice and tell him. Although it's your choice, mom doesn't object. But you can give advice. If he persists without listening to advice, he sees the consequences. You will find that you are not blindly willful. Sometimes it is also a good choice to listen to mom's advice. As part of growth, children sometimes make mistakes. Communicate more, communicate more. He will tell you what he thinks. Children with worries will only become more and more introverted.

Does mom cook at home? Let my son do it later.

Does mom wash dishes at home? Let my son wash it later.

Is mom washing clothes, shoes and socks at home? Let him wash clothes, shoes and socks later.

Does mother care so much about everything and often nag him? My son 16 years old. Don't nag him about trivial matters in the future. Remind him of something important. That's enough. Mom should learn to let go slowly and learn to respect some of his own choices and ideas.

Does mother always meet his excessive demands, big and small? Mom can confidently choose to refuse him.

Mom, is it true that every time he has an attitude that he doesn't like you, her mother will only tolerate Nuo Nuo for fear of offending him? This will only encourage him to show less respect for others. If he does this again next time, you can walk there. I owe you nothing. Please respect me.

It will be difficult to do, but it can be done. A child who doesn't respect his parents is either because his parents never respect him, or because he has been spoiled since childhood, and he doesn't understand and understand his parents' difficulties and don't know how to be grateful.

If a mother loves her children, she must first learn to love herself!

Come on! Good wishes!

You should stop all his bad behavior quickly and let him take adults as the benchmark. You should guide him correctly. Without rules, you can't be Fiona Fang. If you let him go, you will cry when you grow up. I saw a video on the Internet. The boy in the video 13 years old. When he is unhappy, he will hit his mother. His mother just dodged, and his grandmother didn't stop him. His mother is very helpless. Don't think that he is nothing now. He grew up day by day, and his rebellion has taken root in his heart. You can't undo it. It's not good to look at you now. You have to listen to him completely in the future, or you will get bored. It doesn't matter. You should set an example in front of him and let him learn to follow suit, learn to do things, learn to be a man, and don't know how to be a man. You must educate him to respect the old, love the young and be grateful.

Take the children to the movies, let them communicate with their parents more, let the rebellious children care more about him, and let her know how to be grateful. Parents are not easy. You can listen to your child's voice and think about what you have done to make your child dislike you. There is no right or wrong, maybe you speak in a heavy tone and talk too much, and your children are tolerant and correct.

My son is over the age of 16 and will be a junior soon. Recalling his rebellious spirit at the age of 0/6, I am still very angry. At that time, mother and son disliked each other and even hated each other. Later, I thought it was just an experience of life. Look down on it. As long as you control him not to take a wrong path, you will let go.

Then you can swap roles with him for a few days! You let him be a mother and you be a child! Let him take care of this family for a few days! If people can put themselves in others' shoes, they will understand each other, and it is useless to say something.

This problem should be your family's problem Your husband and family may always ignore you, and your children will ignore you from an early age. If you want your son to be kind to you, you must first let your husband love you. Parents are the best role models for children. Then you should also pay attention to your words and deeds, don't always repeat useless words, and it's best to be concise to older children.