Critical sentences

1, criticism will not change the facts, but will cause disgust. Carnegie

It is not terrible to criticize you, but to be disappointed in you. -Chai Jing

You can criticize a person, a thing or a phenomenon, but you can't criticize a group with a label. -Zhang Jiawei

4. Truth likes criticism, because after criticism, truth will win; Fallacy fears criticism, because after criticism, fallacy will fail. -Diderot

Whenever you want to criticize someone, you should remember that not all people in this world have the advantages you have.

If you are criticized, please remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance, which also shows that you are accomplished and attractive. Many people get satisfaction by blaming people who are more accomplished than themselves. Dale Carnegie

7. The more successful people are, the more criticism they get; Only idle people can avoid criticism.

8. One cannot live without criticism and self-criticism, so one cannot make progress. Mao Zedong

9. Don't criticize all dissidents, but reserve the right to criticize in order to achieve harmony. -Dalden

10, criticism is useless, it arouses resistance and makes people eager to defend themselves; Criticism is dangerous, it hurts self-esteem and even makes people hate it. Dale Carnegie

1 1. If you want to provoke the other side, you only need to use fierce criticism as a weapon; Even if the criticism is reasonable, the other party may hold a grudge for life. Dale Carnegie

12, never criticize others behind their backs, especially your boss is ignorant, mean and incompetent.

13, one of human nature is that people will not accept criticism from others, always think that they are always right, and like to find various excuses to defend themselves. Carnegie

14, criticizing what you don't know is more hateful than praise. -Leonardo da Vinci

15, some criticism is that you really want to do it well, and some criticism is that you can't do it well. You should cherish those who really want to be nice to you; You can't see how good you are, so why take it to heart. Amy Cheung

16, I take others' criticism as a compliment. -Ronaldo

17, less criticism and more praise is a good way to avoid stoma. -The Feast Master

18, sharp criticism and attack, the effect is equal to zero. -Dale Carnegie

19. In this society, a person who can only criticize does not mean that he knows a lot, but that he is very idle, which means that he likes to stab others with a knife. When we criticize and give an antidote, please also give suggestions. This is the real helper. Don't get angry when you meet someone who just pokes and doesn't care. In the end, he will be isolated by everyone. -Liu Tong

20. God will not judge people before the end. Who are you and me to criticize people? Dale Carnegie

Self-critical and reflective sentences

1, one should abandon those disturbing distractions and focus on the road of life under one's feet.

Only one listener is singing a hymn for himself.

3. People who are afraid of you face to face must hate you behind your back.

4, self-criticism: too handsome. Introspection: Don't be too handsome.

5. Always treat others with a sincere heart and tell the truth when retelling. But it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is whether he/she believes you from the heart.

6. As soon as the school started, it repeatedly emphasized the school rules and discipline, reminding students not to violate the school rules, but I didn't take the words of the school and the teachers to heart, didn't pay attention to what the teachers said, didn't pay attention to the important matters promulgated by the school, and turned a deaf ear. It is also disrespectful to the teacher. What the teacher said should be kept in mind, and the school rules and school minutes promulgated by the school are urgent in mind.

7. Only in the crowd can you know yourself. (Germany)

There are so many stars in the sky that you can't see the soot on your face. (Malaysia)

9. Introspection is the road to virtue and God. Watts

10, communication consciousness is not strong enough. Sometimes I only do things from my own work or the work of my own department, and I don't know the arrangement of some work related to the project. Although I have finished my work, I still feel in a hurry.

Even the most sophisticated people can't see their own backs.

12, if you can't judge yourself, you won't judge others.

13, introspection is a mirror that can clearly illuminate our mistakes and give us a chance to correct them. Heine

14, everyone makes mistakes, but only fools insist. cicero

15, dear yourself, your side is full of praise and criticism. Those compliments magnify your merits. You are not so good. Try to see your shortcomings covered by praise and praise and improve them. Those criticisms magnify your shortcomings. You're not that bad. Remember to cherish your own advantages that you can't really attack and give full play to them.

16, golden rule of interpersonal relationship: no criticism, no blame, no complaint. Like to criticize others, it shows that you are not smart enough; Accusing others every day shows that you are not calm enough; Complaining about others often shows that you are not smart enough. Don't criticize people you don't know, control your emotions first; Don't accuse others of their actions, put yourself in others' shoes; Don't always complain about others, try to praise others. Hurt others, and finally hurt yourself.

17, I sincerely hope that the teacher can continue to care and support me, but handle my problems as appropriate.

18. Afterwards, I thought calmly for a long time. The mistake I made this time not only brought me trouble, but also delayed my study. Moreover, my behavior has also caused a bad influence on the school, destroyed the management system of the school, and also caused a bad influence among my classmates.

19, the only thing in this world that can't be fooled is your own heart. It always exposes your joys and sorrows when you least expect it.

20. There are too many books that can broaden our horizons and increase our wisdom, such as the Book of Changes, the Tao Te Ching, the Southern Classics, the Four Books and the Five Classics, and a subset of the classics and history. It is said that it is better to take Wan Li Road to study in thousands of books, but you can only take Wan Li Road as a postman without studying first. If you want to improve your level, read more ancient books and look at the world on the shoulders of sages, if you recite the Analects of Confucius, Ceng Zi, Tao Te Ching, Lao Zi, Heart Sutra and Diamond Sutra, Buddhists and Bodhisattvas will follow you all your life, compare themselves with the virtues and wisdom of ancient sages, and correct their thoughts, words and deeds.

Talk about being criticized by the teacher.

Talk about being criticized by the teacher.

First, there is a thing called group notification, and sometimes all members of Aite don't have it. One day, the teacher sent a message in the group that he could go for an outing and wanted to register information. Seventeen people, except one, happily registered the information and paid the deposit to prepare things. How much is the deposit for the remaining one? News? I know I missed it, but I don't want to be criticized by the teacher, so I blame others for blocking the news from him.

Secondly, I decided to study hard and was praised by my teacher for almost a week, but every time I criticized it, it was because of smuggling, but only you could distract me.

Third, although Yan Yan was rated as a three-good student this semester, her final exam results were extremely unsatisfactory and she was criticized by her teachers. I was thinking, what's the problem? I talked to the teacher, but the problem is that my eyes are too drifting and my confidence is too high. Mathematics is a piece of cake for him, but this time he got the lowest score. I think this is a good thing, and it also gives him a small blow, so that he can remember that whatever he does in the future can be down-to-earth.

Fourth, before the exam in the afternoon, I was hit in the corner of my eye by a cup from my classmates next door. Even my best math exam is too painful for me to check carefully. But because he was afraid that his classmates would be criticized by the teacher, his brother told the teacher that the situation was understated and that he was not careful. The teacher only made a slight criticism. I was moved by my brother's kindness. Although some people will feel silly, I hope my little brother can keep this kindness all the time.

Fifth, in high school, I will also be troubled by many small things and worry that others will talk about me behind my back. So I have been trying to create a label of my own. Now my high school classmates only remember that I was admitted to a university. No one will ever mention how ugly I was when I fell on the playground. No one will remember how embarrassed I was when I was criticized by the teacher in class. You are weak, others define you; You can't decide who you are until you become strong.

I met my old classmate today. I was the monitor of Xueba when I was studying. I am a scum who is often criticized by teachers. Later, we graduated and drifted in the society for several years. Now, I am sitting at my desk, while my former seniors are waiting outside the door and watching my face. I was too lazy to look at him and said impatiently, please show me your parking permit. No foreign vehicles are allowed in this community!

Seriously, after reading the first issue of School, do you really feel that someone has made you feel your campus life? I had no feelings for such people when I was at school. Now I feel that this unreasonable statement about my mistakes is still a slap in the face when I am criticized by the teacher. Those who influence the classroom in order to impress themselves in the classroom and brainwash others without their own efforts are really annoying. Anyone who goes too far is ill-bred.

Eight, watching Qingmang suddenly found out that this girl is Ningning of Blue Fox TV series. Memories of primary school come to mind instantly. At that time, after school at noon, my grandfather and I ran home to watch. I watched while eating, and the old man watched while smoking. So dad won't turn off the TV. I am always criticized by my teacher for being late for school while watching TV series. I miss my grandpa. Grandparents must be super happy now.

Nine, we will find that the child is really sensible and has just been criticized by the teacher, but when he turns around, he still helps to distribute all kinds of stationery materials with a bright face, because he knows that the teacher's strictness is also love; Squatting down, we will find that children are sometimes brave. Although they hurt their arms and legs because of naughty falling, we will feel happy because we didn't shed a tear to spread happiness to our children in praise!

10. English for extra-curricular education. Mom and dad have always been very conservative about whether to give their children various extracurricular classes, especially English. Taking Hiroko to an English class today was criticized by the teacher. Why do I come to study when I am so old? What I said really made Ma Ma want to admit her mistake. Sales psychology has done a great job here, and the professionalism of children's education/psychology can capture the feelings and demands of customers. I hope Hiroko will enjoy his study here.

Why are so many people only interested in things that are out of tune? This kind of person has been like this since childhood. I remember that they were not interested in learning at school. If the teacher tells jokes in class or a classmate is criticized by the teacher, there is nothing more interesting than him, and such a person's life is doomed!

Twelve, don't say that college students are not creative now. When we were young, our creativity was scolded by our parents for drawing on books on the wall. The teacher criticized the picture on the drawing board when it was different from that in the book. When the jigsaw puzzle is different from that on the drawing, creativity is stifled in the cradle.

Thirteen or four years ago, he was the top scholar in the college entrance examination, and I was a scum who was often criticized by teachers. After graduating from high school, he went to Tsinghua, and I began to embark on the road of society. Now, I am sitting at my desk, and the former champion of the college entrance examination obediently waits outside the door, looking at my face. I was too lazy to look at him and said impatiently, please show me your parking permit. No foreign vehicles are allowed in this community!

In the past, playing mobile phones in class was always criticized by teachers. Now playing mobile phone has become my job, hahaha.

Fifteen, sleep quietly, watching him carefree now. Sometimes I wonder what it's like to grow up. Will you be bullied by your classmates at school, criticized by your teacher and dumped by your girlfriend in the future? Haha, I'll omit 10 thousand worries here, and finally tell you not to have a daughter-in-law forget her mother.

How to get up early tomorrow? ! Just when my mind suddenly lit up, I found that I was weak and inferior, and I probably couldn't tell the difference between light and heavy. In the design class, I was criticized by the teacher every day. Yesterday, the teacher said that I was not clever but practical. The coach said I worked hard. I just looked in the mirror and found that I didn't look like an elf or a chicken thief, so I decided to develop into a scholarly punk. I wish I could understand this holiday.

Seventeen, I took the wrong bus taxi and dragged me around xi' an to find a place. I lost my bag, money, books and the money for paying the taxi fare. I was criticized by my teacher for being two hours late. I want to see how unlucky I can be today.

18. Chatting with junior high school deskmates about the old days and copying the answers to math homework; Talking and chatting in physics class was criticized by the teacher by name; Rush to a small shop during recess; Reflections on physical education class: escape from running and go back to his hometown; Remember to think, no matter how you do in the exam, I will cheer for you.

Physical education class is lucky not to be criticized by the teacher. During military training, of course, the movements can't be done quickly and in place. The sweet, lovely and kind instructor smiled gently and said, I can't bear to tell you the truth, because you look too much like my teacher. I never thought I would brush my face one day. But I can't bear to watch you back down. I try my best, I try my best, I am the best coach.

20. Whenever I feel embarrassed about what others say, you always change the subject immediately without a trace; Whenever I am criticized by the teacher and feel sad and want to cry, you always secretly hold my hand under the table; Whenever I just talk to that person and ignore you, when I react to make up for it, you always smile clearly. I am a person who is not good at words. I see your kindness and understanding, but I always say it when I leave.

2 1. When I was a child, I was always criticized by my teacher for having no brains: all the knowledge I learned was eaten. Now I eat very hard, but I still can't eat everything from you.

Twenty-two, truancy, not answering questions was caught by the teacher, criticized and punished. I was so proud that I was automatically punished and went to the playground for ten laps. Running, running, the more uncomfortable, the more wronged, but I will finish, I will definitely finish. After running, I will go back to the classroom and listen carefully. After class, I will make up what I didn't listen to. Even if I stay up late, even if I make up lessons, even if I retake the exam, I will graduate one day.

Twenty-three, the mother who entered the primary school repeatedly reminded the children that it doesn't matter if things were confiscated by the teacher, criticized by the teacher, failed the exam, or locked in the classroom! Everything can be solved by communicating with the teacher. Never go home and never jump off a building. The private parts of the body should not be touched by anyone. Other children should stay away from pencils and sharp objects. If others bully you or beat you, you can tell your teacher and your parents.

The book was criticized by the teacher, but the handwriting was good and praised by the teacher. The merits and demerits offset each other.

Twenty-five, once, he was the monitor of Xueba, and I was a scum who was often criticized by teachers. Later, we graduated and drifted in the society for several years. Now, I am sitting at my desk, and my former seniors are waiting outside the door, watching my face and acting. I was too lazy to look at him and said impatiently, please show me your parking permit. No foreign vehicles are allowed in this community!

Twenty-six, take the children to leave the park today. I remember when I first went to kindergarten, the teacher told the children not to play on the playground after school and to leave as soon as possible. One day, Kiki couldn't hold back and went straight to the slide after school, which was seen by the teacher. The teacher went straight over and said the rules. Kiki was criticized by the teacher in front of her mother and suddenly cried. It is this move that makes me 100% respect and trust teachers.

Twenty-seven, chatting before going to bed, P children who haven't talked to me about kindergarten talk a lot today. He was very excited to talk to me about all kinds of things in kindergarten. Who was naughty, who was criticized by the teacher, who walked around talking in class, who was punished, and so on. Record one of them, because I always think he is a child without emotional intelligence. What a surprise to say such a thing!

28. A person should have a strong heart and strong self-confidence, not when parents repeatedly tell their children that you have to believe in yourself and that you are smart and capable, and then the children will be truly confident and capable. Children are not fools, they will find their real position in the group. Children who always fail exams and are criticized and laughed at by teachers every day will not have confidence when they grow up, even if they are fed more chicken soup.

This report is like an exam. I'm still a little excited and nervous about how you learn and master it. I'm excited because I can finally report and show my talents. I'm nervous because I'm afraid I can't speak well. I was criticized by the teacher. I have been preparing for this battle for a long time, so I must go all out.

At thirty, the kindergarten starts in the morning, and I start to get up one hour earlier. The little guy turned over lazily, arched himself into my arms, took my arm and played chess with Duke Zhou sweetly. Hey, what can mom do with you? Then, we were late and criticized by the teacher.

Thirty-one, I remember when I was a child, I wrote an essay called "Play is the most fun", which was criticized by the teacher for only playing. Hehe, I just want to say, don't you like playing? Who doesn't like playing? Why is it wrong to write articles according to your true thoughts and feelings? Later, when writing a composition, I will make up all kinds of so-called positive energy, and then those sb teachers will often praise me for writing well, and then I don't like writing very much.

It is very hard to cultivate a pretentious specialty in your thirties and twenties. I was singing music in my dream and practicing the piano when I woke up. I hope the second class tomorrow will not be criticized by the teacher.

Thirty-three, focus on results and pay more attention to process. In retrospect, these days must have been very fulfilling. Miss being criticized by the teacher, praise the original memory is still a green fruit, or an immature student, but sometimes it has too many ideas. I'd better study quickly for my dying training.

Although I know that meeting may be criticized by the teacher, it is even more frustrating not to meet for a long time.

Communication skills: gently criticize children.

Communication skills: gently criticize the words of the children's elders to the younger generation.

1. Criticize children gently

There should be different ways of criticism according to different situations. How to hint, how to make the other party better realize their mistakes, depends on different things and the situation at that time. This requires us to make full use of our intelligence.

One sentence makes people laugh.

Liang Qichao was clever since childhood. He began to learn four books and five classics at the age of four. At the age of 9, he was able to write an eight-part essay of several thousand words. 12 years old is a scholar, 16 years old is a scholar. /kloc-When I was 0/0 years old, I once visited a friend's house with my father. Seeing a beautiful apricot tree in the yard, he secretly broke off a branch and hid it in a wide sleeve. This move was discovered by his father, who was very angry, but it was not good to scold him in front of everyone, which not only disturbed the atmosphere of being a guest, but also made Xiao Qichao's face ugly.

When it's time to eat, all the guests are seated. Liang Qichao was the youngest and the last one was arranged. At this time, the father suddenly had a plan and said to his son in public: You love to show off your literary talent since you were a child, and a gentleman should also see how deep your ink is. I'll go out first. If you are right and get the approval of the gentlemen present, you can sit down and eat. If you are not satisfied, eat standing up. The guests also echoed in chorus. Liang Qichao was full of confidence in his talents and readily promised. Father thought for a moment and said: The first couplet is: flowers in sleeves, young people hiding spring scenery. Xiao Qichao blushed when he heard this, only then did he know that his father had discovered his act of stealing apricot flowers. It's not good to expose it in public, so we can only criticize him with the first couplet and let him correct his mistakes. So, he replied: my bottom line is: hanging a mirror in front of the hall, adults have eyes. As soon as the couplet came out, everyone cheered in unison.

When the father saw that his son understood his meaning, he made a mistake. He made such a good connection and won everyone's appreciation. He forgave him for this disgraceful behavior. Xiao Qichao was not only taught, but also saved face and became more self-disciplined from then on.

In the face of his son's indecent behavior, Father Liang did not find it in person, but implicitly criticized it in a humorous way. A difficult problem, kill three birds with one arrow: it not only implies criticism, but also shows strict family education to prevent children from making a fool of themselves in front of everyone.

Jump in one word.

In an institution of higher learning in a city, a student blocked the population of a classroom in the Humanities College because of parking.

Before long, the tutor angrily entered the classroom, facing more than 100 students in the classroom, shouting at the top of his lungs: Who is stuck in traffic at the door? Do you have a brain?

A student stood up and said, this is my car. I'm sorry

You pull over at once, or I'll ask security to tow it away. With these words, the tutor swaggered away, leaving the students in a daze in the classroom. It turns out that the quality of our tutor is so low.

After this incident, the whole class disliked him. In his class, everyone talked loudly as if he didn't exist. There are also many people who don't hand in his homework. Everyone thinks that he is not qualified to teach students. Finally, the tutor had to apply for transfer because his work became more and more boring.

The tutor could have handled this problem amicably, but he chose another extreme way, hurting others and eventually hurting himself.

guide to action

Parents can't condone their children's mistakes, but they must pay attention to strategies when criticizing their children. When children make mistakes, they should not only point out their own mistakes, but also remind them to correct them in time, and be careful not to dampen their self-esteem.

No one has the right to hurt the dignity of others, even parents. But in reality, there are always some people who pretend to be elders and think that they have the right to hurt those younger generations, and often criticize and accuse them unscrupulously, and even humiliate and reprimand them. They get a little satisfaction from their own criticism, but they never consider the feelings of others. In the end, they got nothing but bring disgrace to oneself and abandonment.

Elders criticize children in order to help them correct their mistakes, but if they take criticism that hurts children's dignity, it will only make people who have made mistakes more stressed, disheartened and even depressed or give up on themselves. In life, such examples are not uncommon.

Therefore, when the elders criticize the children who have made mistakes, remember not to use the following attitude: (1) cynicism. They are not enthusiastic about the younger generation who have made mistakes, and help them understand their mistakes and correct their shortcomings. Instead, they are cynical and hearsay.

(2) rude accusations. They take a simple and rude attitude towards the younger generation who have made mistakes, don't ask indiscriminately, and criticize fiercely, completely ignoring their psychological endurance and self-esteem.

(3) Give up completely. They gave up, let go of the younger generation who made mistakes, and no longer cared about them.

In fact, the process of making mistakes in the eyes of elders is the inevitable growth process of children. The process of children's mistakes is the process of constant correction and self-improvement. If children are not given such opportunities, they will become lazy, negligent in trying, accustomed to dependence, and will become inferior, indecisive, introverted and withdrawn, which is not conducive to the formation of a sound personality.