A letter to an ex-boyfriend

The past has become a memory, my boyfriend has become an ex, and time is gone. No matter what happened in the past, I only remember the good feeling when I left. I miss the days of holding hands and leaving sad tears. Below I sorted out a letter to my ex-boyfriend. Welcome to reading.

A letter to my ex-boyfriend XXX:

I didn't cry when we broke up.

After breaking up for a year, I often woke up in the middle of the night, sobbed, couldn't sleep, raised my pen again and again, and interrupted again and again; After breaking up for one year and four days, I finally finished writing this letter, burying your past and starting our new life.

To my ex-boyfriend:

Remember how it started, and remember how it ended more deeply:

When breaking up: I remember that you came to accompany me for the New Year. I cooked four dishes and one soup, and I broke up with you when you were almost finished. You didn't make a sound, washed the bowl you ate, and then went back against the cold wind on the last night of 2007. I didn't cry, but I was worried that you slept very cold and caught a cold all night. I told you to take a hot bath before going to bed, but I know you don't listen to me. I don't know if you cried, but I know you won't tell me.

Before we broke up, you didn't write me a love letter, and I didn't write you a love letter. Even you don't have anything in writing to remember me, except a short message you sent me, which I recorded with a colored pen.

A year after breaking up, I wrote such a letter as a souvenir of our youth.

Before breaking up, I made up my mind to break up with you, but I don't know why.

I didn't know we had broken up until a year after we broke up.

The summer before we broke up, I often made breakfast for you. However, when you were young, you didn't think you needed breakfast. In order to sleep a little longer, you always leave breakfast in the pot. And I get up at 6 o'clock every day, steam steamed buns, fried eggs and hot milk in various colors for you, and then have breakfast in the hot sun and wait for the bus. It takes 1.5 hours to change to two buses for work.

Before breaking up, I took you to the vegetable market, taught you to buy vegetables, taught you to recognize vegetables you don't know, taught you to cook, taught you to wash clothes, told you to take a bath and change clothes frequently, and taught you not to be male chauvinist; Actually, I don't want to change you at all I just want to be able to take care of myself completely in life and not rely on others.

I used to like shopping before we broke up, and you were very dissatisfied. You suspect that I am a materialistic woman. I bought what I could afford and paid for it myself. You are not satisfied, and I am not satisfied.

Before breaking up, when you just graduated, you often needed to borrow money from your colleagues to raise money to visit me. You can't bear to eat out, so I have to cook for you with my clumsy skills.

After breaking up, you finally paid off the student loan and got a deposit, but you never came to me again.

Before breaking up, it was my hardest day, and you accompanied me. You used your youth to kill my youth and your passion.

Before breaking up, it was also your hardest day, and I was with you. I used my youth to wear away your youth and consumed half of my heart.

Before breaking up, I often like to buy you things. You said you didn't need or want me to spend money for you, and that I had no taste in choosing things.

Before we parted, I thought of you as myself, and I had nothing to hide in front of you.

After breaking up, I slowly found myself, facing myself and hiding myself in front of others.

Before breaking up, we often go shopping and cook together on weekends, and then clean the room and watch movies together; I often complain to you that life is dull, and you always say that life is like this.

Before we broke up, I often said that life was boring and you were boring, but you said I was boring. I only know how to calculate the rate of return, take various exams, love shopping and gluttony, have no hobbies, and are a little withdrawn.

After breaking up, I found myself with many hobbies, more and more friends, and abundant time, but I always cried alone under the covers.

Before breaking up, I treated other boys like air.

After breaking up, you told me not to just remember to play, but to remember to get married in time, but I still haven't met anyone.

Before we broke up, you managed me very tightly. You even cared about me taking photos with my male colleagues alone and the tone of my eyes when I talked to others. I'm often angry that I didn't put you first. I seldom care about you and often ignore you. I thought I set you free. You think I don't care about you at all.

Before we broke up, you thought I was heartless. In fact, I am a person whose behavior can't fully express my heart. I'm afraid to express my love. I'm afraid of controlling others by myself, and I'm even more afraid of being controlled by others in the name of love.

Before we broke up, you often blamed me for not finding those little bracelets you gave me, but I never lost them. I still often wear the necklace you gave me.

Before breaking up, I often remind myself not to interfere with you and leave you alone. As a result, you jumped to the company I recommended to you for the first time and jumped to the second company I recommended to you for the second time.

Before breaking up, I often dragged you to teach me to swim. I am learning happily in the water and smiling happily, but you don't have much joy.

After breaking up, I vowed to learn to swim, swim well and learn all kinds of strokes, no matter how many years it takes.

I really want to go to Guilin with you after breaking up. You once spent a day and a night from Wuhan to Guilin to see my train. You said it was too hot to go.

Before we broke up, I really wanted to learn dancing from you, but you were not interested in teaching me.

Before we parted, I really wanted to go to Hangzhou and visit the West Lake with you, but I didn't mention it to you. You thought I was not interested in the scenery.

You washed my feet several times before we broke up, but I didn't wash you once.

Before we broke up, you gave me various nicknames. I just called you Gege or Benben.

Before we broke up, you told me to watch less sad movies, less literary novels and more realistic things. You told me to change my temper and behavior. I think you are always dissatisfied with me, but you just can't accept my performance.

I've changed a lot since we broke up.

When we broke up, you were worried that no one could always comfort me, a hysterical person.

There was really no one to comfort me after breaking up, so I learned to comfort myself.

Before breaking up, once you were sick and refused to go to the hospital, I led you to register for a doctor, as proud as a mother taking her children to see a doctor.

Before breaking up, one summer happened to be your birthday. You have a cold, but you refuse to take medicine. You have to cover all the quilts and lie in bed to cover your sweat. I cooked porridge for you, and then I watched you lying on the ground with satisfaction.

Before breaking up, I often asked you why you fell in love with me. I didn't get the answer, and you never asked me this question.

Before breaking up, I often asked you when you fell in love with me. I didn't get the answer, and you never asked me this question.

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

A letter to ex-boyfriend Erxxx:

People always have to reflect on themselves. They won't regret it, maybe it's not a good thing! Look at others and reflect on yourself, there is nothing wrong! Perhaps, that's what you face your past with a positive attitude!

A letter to my ex-boyfriend a long time ago:

Maybe when you see this letter, you will feel that this woman is shameless, and she will write me such a letter even if she makes it so clear, but I still hope you won't read all this email, but I believe you will delete it after reading it. It is also my hope to delete it completely. I didn't see you for the last time, and finally said what I wanted to say. I still hope it will be more comfortable to say what I want to say.

When you read this letter, it should be a whole year since we broke up.

First of all, I want to make it clear that I will never bother you again and never contact you again.

Any contact information, text messages, phone calls, emails, and even any information related to the other party, including the company you have been with and the company that has heard from you intermittently. I may be ready to leave soon. When the customers in some areas are developing well, I decided to leave. Of course, there are more reasons for me. But I really should go. I'm too tired to work here. I just wanted to find a place to live simply and have fun.

Secondly, please delete my phone number.

It shouldn't be difficult. I could have changed it myself. The amount is not good, and it didn't cost me a penny. But it has been used for a long time. I've been using it since school. My parents are already familiar with it. Call me as soon as something happens, and you can delete it. I believe that you will never contact me again, and there is no loss for you.

Actually, there is another reason. I don't want anyone related to you to contact me again. I believe neither of us can be friends, let alone your friend can be my friend. I'm not angry about your girlfriend last time, but I don't want any more contact between us. No matter how much she loves you and misses you, it has nothing to do with me. Let me quote. I'm actually very grateful to her (the girlfriend). She let me know that you once loved me. I never believed it. That's enough.

Third, I think I am kind. Growing up, I never hurt anyone. Of course, I don't want to hurt you. If it's all my fault, I don't want to take full responsibility. After all, breaking up is your fault. I called so many times and you didn't give me any chance and hope, so please don't hate me. Yesterday, I heard you on the other end of the phone like a rogue, dragging your impatient tone, which made me feel that you were so strange. I can't imagine you talking to anyone or anyone like this. Maybe I never knew you before, and I didn't know you had such a side. Maybe it's just no feelings. I clearly hear disgust and hatred. Just half a month ago, you told me it was difficult to cross the sea, but I really didn't want this ending. Even if we die of old age, please leave your beauty in my heart.

Fourth, I hope you have a good life, at least happier than when you are with me, because you have given up so much on me, and you should find a happier ending than when you are with me.

Fifth, consider your marriage carefully. If you decide, you must stick to it until you are old. Because any woman looking for a husband wants to grow old together.

Finally, my advice to you is to manage your marriage well, just as you are passionate about your career, but I want to remind you that any career can be abandoned in stages, because giving up may be a new beginning. But marriage is different. I still remember what my family said when I came home for the New Year. The elder said: We are not the kind of children who grew up in a divorced family, so getting married may be a lifetime thing for you. ? I think this applies to you, too. You can't give up halfway. Because when you get married, you always say, you don't watch TV dramas, I'll tell you. Love and respect each other, regardless of poverty or wealth, sickness or health, and never give up. ? I always thought you never had a strong sense of family. Maybe my feelings are wrong, but I hope you can really manage all aspects of your love, marriage, career and life with your heart.

The purpose of attachment is not for anything else, but to make you not hate me so much and know that I have regretted it. Actually, I'm lazy and afraid of trouble. I read a lot of books at the earliest and refused to write more words. I sorted it out the day before yesterday and found that there seemed to be a lot of modal particles left over this year. I want to show you here. Anyway, you deleted it after reading it. I'm not afraid that you will laugh at me. I just hope it will help you manage your love. Of course, my mood can't represent the mood of most women, but if I can help you after reading it, I will feel that I am the greatest comfort.

Maybe you don't know the purpose of writing this letter after reading the whole letter. What do I want to express? Actually, nothing else. I just want to find a relief for myself and give myself an end. You did me a favor when you read it. I just want to find a time, a place and a reason for this year and the past. Remember the text message I sent you when I just broke up? How can we accept new people? How can I forget the past? Please answer me, time can change everything. The purpose of writing this letter is that if I want to end this relationship, I hope this time is today.

Zhou Jing

April 13

A letter to ex-boyfriend Sanhani:

I know I can't call you that anymore, but just this once. I know it is hypocritical to write such a letter to you two and a half months later, and I also know that it will only make you dislike me even more. But I still can't help myself. There's something I really want to say to you, just to let you know.

At this moment, I am quietly sitting in a small box in the library, writing this letter to you, recalling the bits and pieces we have together. I don't know where to start. We met on September 30th, 20th11. That day, you added me to everyone. We were together on June 24th, 1 1. Sometimes think about it, the speed is really fast enough, perhaps because we got each other too fast, so we didn't cherish each other well and didn't know each other's personality well, so we came together in a hurry, so that we often quarreled later.

I always thought that our quarrel was nothing. There was a couple who didn't spend the time in the quarrel, but I was wrong. That's how feelings quarreled bit by bit.

You are really good to me. You will remember my favorite food and know that I like fish, Flammulina velutipes and broccoli. Say good night to me every night. I don't spend the night every time I quarrel. You always call me before going to bed. At that time, my heart was really sweet. You will buy me brown sugar during my physiological period and hold my hand tightly when crossing the street. You often say that I have a hole in my brain. I don't know when you stopped doing this to me. Are you in love with someone else or are you tired of me?

You always say that I like being angry, hurting you and being willful. These are all shortcomings that you don't like me. But how do you know what's on my mind? I hurt you because I believe in our relationship. People are always angry with people within the safe range, because subconsciously I always thought you wouldn't leave me. My mouth hurts you, but you are really outstanding in my heart.

I still remember the first time we quarreled, and I have forgotten what it was about. I cried in the dormitory. I broke up with you. You held me by the artificial lake at school and refused to give up. During the 10 months with you, I mentioned breaking up many times, but I didn't mean it. I really just want to talk, because I know you will coax me. I was very happy when you coaxed me. One second I was sad, and the next I was happy. Girls always love sweet talk. Only that time, someone told me that you chased several girls in your class, and I was really angry. I always think that a man will be stable when he chases so many girls. You said I shouldn't pursue your past, but I really didn't, because at that time I began to get involved in my feelings, and I was afraid that I would become your past like those girls. I don't want one day, when I couldn't extricate myself from love, you pulled away, so I cut it off while I didn't love it at that time. I clearly remember that it was Thursday, February, 20 1 year. At that time, you refused to part, and you didn't care about face in front of my roommate. I finally relented, Hani. You know, you can coax me back at that time, not because you have the ability, but because I can't bear it.

I know that it is meaningless for me to write these things, and these things have no logic. Maybe I should start with our sweetness from the beginning and write a breakup bit by bit.

On August 9, 2065438/kloc-0, you said on the phone:? Shall we separate? At that moment, I was really confused and scared, and tears came down. After that, we didn't communicate anymore. One afternoon, I forced a smile in front of my colleagues. In the evening, I sat by the roadside alone and called you. You are still so decisive on the phone, there is no room at all. Later, your head never showed up. I know you are invisible, so cancel it. It is also possible to delete me. What about qq signature? Cherish people with ruthless mouths? I also deleted it together and never called me again. Your speed is too fast for me to react. Someone asked me what happened to you two, and I said, ah, we broke up. He said why, but I said I didn't know. For five days from the date of 19, I didn't eat anything, only drank a little rice soup every day. My family asked me, and I said I had eaten outside. I didn't want to torture myself deliberately, but I will remember the feeling of being so hungry that I have to vomit even drinking water for the rest of my life. Later, I fainted at home because of hypoglycemia. My mom was scared. You may not believe it, because even I don't. I have never been seriously ill, and I am as healthy as a pig. I dare not call you because I know you are trying to prepare for the judicial exam. I don't want to disturb you, and I don't want to affect you. Your phone has been repeated many times, but you still dare not exhale.

I thought I could type this paragraph calmly and tell such a story peacefully, only to find that my face was wet before I knew it. 10 months may be nothing to you, because you have an unforgettable first love, which may occupy all your memories. I'm just a passer-by to you. It may not be long before you forget me and that we once loved each other. But this 10 month has been deeply portrayed in my mind. Before you, I had a boyfriend. I don't know if I should be a boyfriend. He comes to see me at school occasionally, but I have no feelings for him. During the three months together, I always met him several times and knew nothing about him. So dear, you should know that you are my first love in the true sense, and you have given me a feeling that I have never felt before, that kind of being loved and sweet. It's just that 10 months is too fast and fleeting, but I will spend my whole life thinking.

In July 19, I asked for leave to visit you in Ningbo. I was really happy when I saw you. That day in college, I got out of the taxi and you picked me up, wearing a yellow T-shirt, still so handsome and sunny. At that moment, I felt that the fatigue on the road was nothing. The child who was almost fainted by shit in the car was nothing, even if he went home and was scolded by his family. It is worthwhile to see you who miss you day and night. When you walked into the room, you hugged me and told me how much you missed me. I knew you must have liked me then. I really wanted to give you the most precious thing of a girl at that time. Maybe you'll think I'm so cheap Even if I can't go to the end now, I won't have a little regret, and I won't pester you with this. You know, I am not a girl who will pester you. Sleep at night, you sleep soundly and snore lovely. You may not know, I just looked at you quietly in the dark, brushed your cheek with my fingers, and outlined your outline, thinking to myself, how could a person like me, who had completely disdained feelings before, love someone so deeply? Then you woke up and saw me playing with my mobile phone. You are angry, scold me and say that I don't sleep in the middle of the night. I'm awake. I just think time can pass slowly, let me stay with you for a long time. I don't want time to pass so quickly. When I wake up, I will go home again, and I won't see you for more than a month. But you don't understand. Why don't you stay up at midnight and get a room? Why not take the main road? 2 1 went home. At the station, I looked at you and tasted parting a little. Did you feel a little reluctant to part with me? When I returned to Lanxi, the first thing I did was to deposit 1 100 given to me by Yuan You in the bank. The password is the day we were together, 1 1 1024. At that time, I also planned our future, and the senior year could save a little money together, which is also a witness of our love. After coming home, I hid in my room and secretly cried. I don't know why, I just want you to cry. I have never felt this way before. I miss someone and want to cry but can't help but stay. That kind of missing, very painful. Memory is a tormenting thing.

I always fantasize about our future days. I think I can graduate from college smoothly with you and find a job that is neither salty nor light. You don't need to earn a lot of money, and you don't need a lot of entertainment. You can go home early after work every day. I'll make you something to eat and wait for you. You can have petty bourgeoisie occasionally when you have money, and have instant noodles with you for fun when you have no money.

I really want to see things and miss people, but I found nothing. All I can think about is those messy memories. I bought you a lot of messy things, such as key chains, umbrellas, auspicious beans and cushions. I wonder if these things are still there. Maybe you have thrown them away, maybe you are still using them, because for you, umbrellas are just umbrellas, and other than that, they have no meaning. You didn't give me anything except the doll you gave me when you signed up for the compass training class. It is still lying on my bed, covered with my tears. And the blue short-sleeved T-shirt I bought for you that you don't like. I'm going to wear it as pajamas. I know you only wore this skirt once. Actually, I didn't mean to ask for this dress at that time. I just want a dress that you have worn, because it will have your breath and familiar smell. Some people say that if you love someone, you will smell a special smell from him, that's all. I don't want you to buy me clothes and shoes. Sometimes as long as a simple thing is given by you, I am very happy. But now that we are separated, there is nothing to remember, and there are things in my life that left your mark.

In the future, I can no longer walk around campus holding your hand, dragging your arm to coquetry you, never seeing you make that silly gesture of staring at me, never resting my head on your shoulder, never dragging you to take selfies with you, never telling others what our xx is like, and never even having the right to be angry with you.

Do you feel a little reluctant to think about this, just a little?

People around us are optimistic about us. We know each other and love each other in the most beautiful autumn. That's it. You still don't want me. Accustomed to your life, I regard you as my family. I think of you every day when I open my eyes. I wonder if you have got up for breakfast.

I can see you at school by chance, without communication or eyes. I can't figure out why two people who used to be so close are now strangers and don't even have a smile. It hurts to think about it.

I have begun to adjust myself. I began to study hard, eat seriously, work hard and try to adapt to life without you.

Maybe many couples are like us, so we should cherish it. Some people will stop once they miss it. It's impossible to get back together Let's take it as a memory Because I know that what is lost will never come back, and what comes back will never be perfect. Tears are almost dry these days. We used to love each other, and it hurts to think about it.

In fact, I learned a lot during my stay with you. I believe that all girls in love have this problem. They always think that the other person will notice their unhappiness, and they must know the reason for their unhappiness. But sometimes they don't feel it at all because they don't have our sensitive nerves. So now I understand that communication must be the most important. If you are angry and ignore people, and you cry, it will only make boys think that you are unreasonable and don't know what it means. If you don't say something, they will never know. The tears I shed for you these days can be packed in a big bottle, and I am still crying for you until now.

You once said you didn't want me. You said to take me back to see your parents after the judicial examination. You said you told me not to take a driver's license test, and you came to pick me up for work. You said you wanted to date me after the bar exam. But now everything is empty.

Now, I'm beginning to believe some of them. 1. Even people who haven't contacted for a long time will still miss that existence. It is true that strangers can't be lovers. People who are too attached to their feelings often die miserably.

? Wish you happiness? I don't want to say these four words selfishly, because I always feel that only you and I are happy. 165438+ judicial examination results1sunrise on October 20th. Whether you pass or fail, you should be happy, live a good life and work hard. Because no matter when, you are not alone, as long as one day you need me, I will always accompany you. Dear, for the last time, I really hope that a girl can love you like me, because I want to say, I wish you happiness. You once told me that you felt a little guilty about me, but it was really unnecessary. I have never resented you. Thank you very much for giving me an unforgettable college love.