Feeling insecure in love is actually afraid of loving others.

Feeling insecure in love is actually afraid of loving others.

Those who are insecure in love and afraid of not being loved are actually afraid of loving others.

To love first is to let go of one's inner guard, take the initiative to approach others, and allow others to approach. It also means that you may be empty and happy, and you may not get a response.

If you don't respond, you may lose, which is simply bad news for those who don't have love in their hearts.

Therefore, whether it is loving the brain or emotional isolation, the essence is the same.

The former, because there is no love, can't understand what the lover really wants at the inner level, so he chooses a lazy way, numbly dedicates himself, tries to sacrifice himself, and stirs up waves in the lover's heart.

Unfortunately, only love can arouse love, and sacrifice often brings wolf ambition.

The latter is also because without love, a heart has long been numb. Can't move, can't touch, just like a machine, the abacus is ringing. Love if you have value, but don't love if you have no value. Valuable and worthless are usually immediate and appropriate extreme egoism.

Both of the above are essentially to win and to escape from true love, so love is isolated through superficial behavior.

Love means believing. Whoever can't believe, there is no love.