Children grow up and become farther and farther away from their parents.

If you don’t do some things today, you will never have the chance again in the future.

"Growing up is the process of getting farther and farther away from your parents"

1. Maybe it is a season like this, in which people's emotions, thoughts and physical conditions will all change. The "commotion" began.

Recently, my mother’s health has not been very good and she looks a little haggard. Looking at her increasingly thin face, I feel not only distressed but also a little guilty because I work outside all year round. The reason is that I can't stay with her to take care of her when she is unwell, let alone take her to travel around the world when she is healthy, visit every corner of the city, and see the scenery of every place.

We are growing up, but they are getting older quietly.

All relationships in the world are getting closer, but the relationship between children and parents is wonderful. As time goes by, you will only become farther and farther away, no matter how you No matter how hard you run, you can't keep up with the speed at which they age.

After we turn 18, we go home less and less often, either because we go to school too far away from home, or we are too busy at work to get away. We always have a reason not to go back to visit them, and we always have a good reason for it.

Parents learn some emerging knowledge, start learning to use computers, browse Taobao, and chat with their children on WeChat. They do this just to get closer to their children. They want to know what their children are doing now. They care about something, want to know what they are thinking, and they also want to get into the children's hearts and have something to talk with them.

I still remember the first time my mother learned to use a smartphone, the first time she learned to use WeChat to send me a smiling emoticon, and the first time she bought the first product on Taobao through her own learning. ...There are many firsts where they can video chat with us on WeChat during every festival in order to get closer to us. What they do is just as parents caring about and missing their children. It is because we are afraid of the loneliness and loneliness we feel in a foreign land.

To be honest, I never understood these details before. At that time, I was naive and thought that they just need to plant flowers at home, raise fish, and watch every sunrise and sunset and current family TV series. , until now looking at their aging figures and the increasing number of silver threads in their hair, I suddenly understood that as their parents age, they are also afraid of the wrinkles and hair that time has left on their faces. There are more and more silver threads on my parents, but what they fear most is not being able to accompany us for a few more decades...

Many times, they always think that they work hard to give their parents a good life. In his later years, the lack of affection for his family can be made up for with money. Don’t you know that what they want is for you to sit next to him. Even if you don’t say anything, it is beautiful to sit quietly and watch TV together.

2. Think carefully about how much time you can spend with your parents. How many times can you go home in the 365 days after graduating from college, even if your parents will always prepare things for you in advance every time you go home? Delicious meals, a warm bed made for you, every toy and furnishing you played with as a child is still placed in the same position as when you left home to work in a foreign land. Perhaps you have never noticed these details. , but in the eyes of parents, it is just their own important job. We seem to be always with mobile phones, iPads and other electronic products, but we ignore the hesitant look in my parents' eyes when they look at me.

I still remember that some time ago, because my mobile phone was not working properly, I took it for repair and forgot to say hello to my mother in advance. After the mobile phone was repaired and turned on, my mother sent the most messages on WeChat, more than a dozen messages in a row. She asked me why I didn't answer the phone and if it was safe. Just when I was about to call her back, my mother called again and asked me what was going on, with a tone of worry that I was anxious.

My eyes were a little moist when I saw the messages they sent. We don’t live with them and we can’t know whether they are doing well or not, but what we can do is greet them as if they care about us. and thinking about them.

There is indeed selfless love in this world, and it undoubtedly comes from your family. They are the only ones who love you without asking for anything in return. However, they are also the ones you ignore the most.