A good friend owes more than 10000 for gambling and so on.

Hmm. Because we are good friends. Lend him some first. But don't help him with the loan. You should also tell him that gambling is a very bad behavior. And the seriousness of the consequences. You can help him this time. Doesn't mean you can help him every time. I hope he corrects it.

If he bets later. You should stop helping him. I'm sure he won't hate you too much. After all, you helped him. He'll think of it himself. People can't help themselves every time. Right? What did you do wrong? You have to bear the consequences yourself.

It is not good to say that you will not help at all. After all, you are good friends. People always make mistakes. Give him a chance to turn over a new leaf! Help him. If you are really good friends.