Thoreau embraced nature: if I really talk to the cloud, please don't take it amiss.

Thoreau, who lives in seclusion in Walden Lake, said, "If I really talk to the cloud, don't take it amiss. Cities are places where millions of people live alone. "

People are most afraid of being in the noise, but they feel lonely. Although we live in a crowded place and think we can rely on it, the question is, when you face real life alone, are you confident or unprepared?

Mao Mu, the author of The Moon and Sixpence, said, "Who doesn't pretend to be strong and live seriously at the same time?" Yes, everyone has to bear the pressure of life alone, and often it is helpless that when they want to talk, they can't find anyone; When I want to get close to the light, I can't find my way. Life is like a journey against the world, but you have to pretend to be strong all the time.

If possible, I hope someone can accompany you and hug you when you feel lonely, helpless or tired. He can turn into a light to warm you in those dark moments.

At the age of 28, Thoreau built himself a cabin by Walden Lake and lived in seclusion for two years. He lived a life of returning to nature, such as "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence" and "the mountains are getting better and better, and the birds are going home" described in Tao Yuanming's poem Drinking. During his seclusion, Thoreau also wrote the famous long prose collection Walden Lake. The words in the book are full of tranquility and wisdom, and people need to calm down and read them carefully.

The naturalist writer and philosopher wrote in Walden: "For those who live in nature, there is never a time of despair."

Yes, the greatness of nature lies in its inclusiveness. While making people respect each other, they can't help but want to throw themselves into its arms. There seems to be some mysterious connection between man and nature, which makes people living in cities feel at a loss, and always gives birth to the idea of escaping from the current working and living environment, eager to find new hope and strength in a fresh Yuan Ye and soil.

In fact, we clearly know that no matter what stage you are in your life, you may experience some terrible troubles and problems. But real life is like this, it gives you bitterness and sweetness. Even if you can get rid of this dreary and congested city, you can't get rid of the interpersonal relationship that needs communication, you can't give up the material desire to make your life comfortable, and you can't completely return to the countryside at a young age to pursue the so-called poetry and distance. At most, you can only seize the opportunity of weekends or small holidays and stay in nature for a short time. This can replenish energy for the body and mind who travel around the city day and night, and let us stick to real life for a longer time.

We want to get rid of it, not because we are fragile, but because we need to adjust. Be able to perceive the changes of surrounding environmental factors, adjust the relationship between oneself and the environment, adapt to the environment purposefully, shape the environment and choose a new environment, and strive to achieve a harmonious state between oneself and the environment.

We want to stay away, which does not mean that we choose to live in seclusion, but that we need to find hope and eternity again. We can often find that pure, naive and inspiring power can be found in any natural thing. Sky, sex, flowers and birds, fish and insects, vegetation, mountains and rivers, rivers and lakes, etc. We all want to be close, hug and wander; Sometimes standing in a daze in a green field can give you great comfort. It seems that being close to nature has become a good way for us to decompress.

Man yearns for nature, and the mysterious bond between man and nature is hidden in his heart. In a lonely and crowded city, we need such an inner heart that embraces nature. Open it occasionally, just like opening the door of nature, let you put down all kinds of anxiety, get rid of all kinds of distractions, let you learn how to take care of yourself in isolation, and know how to create your own life in a pure place away from the noise.

However, everyone has their own way of life and is eager to embrace nature. You don't have to choose to live alone or return to the fields like Thoreau, because it is a great test of the soul. Moreover, if you want to live alone, you need to pay certain conditions and costs. Whether you choose to live alone voluntarily or because of objective reasons, you must first have a healthy body and self-care ability. Secondly, you should have a relatively stable source of life and an ideal residence. Furthermore, you need to have a strong psychology of enduring loneliness and loneliness, and it is best to have three or five friends or a few hobbies to pass the time.

In a word, living alone has some advantages, but it is not necessarily suitable for everyone, and it is not necessarily suitable for spending life like this. What we pursue is inner peace, and the purpose is to take care of our true feelings. Only by learning to get along with your own world can you rekindle your love for life. Only when you have some basic abilities and strive to achieve harmonious and unified integration with the environment can you make the experience of living alone wonderful and happy and make yourself stronger. Otherwise, mechanical understanding and reluctance will only make you feel pain.

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