Tell me about Mr. Li

When I was washing after dinner, Mr. Li began to answer the phone. I thought it would be a short call, but I didn't expect the child to finish when I put him to bed. In a daze, he hung up the phone, then turned on the computer and led me to find the IELTS listening audio on the CD. I am very touched. In fact, from his phone call, I can hear that there are thorny problems at work, but he didn't bring the unsatisfactory things at work into family life. He told me this many times before, all for customer service, but I am full of complaints and dissatisfaction, and I often get angry with him. But from this aspect alone, I can also see my immaturity.

I naturally married Mr. Li for many reasons. I think the most important thing is that his composure and humor attracted me. Every time I am with him, I feel very safe and at ease. Because of his advantages after marriage, many contradictions have arisen. Because of the embarrassment of life, I attribute all the reasons to Mr. Li's lack of progress and contentment, but what I ignore is that he is not a very lazy person. On the contrary, he is cleaner and more diligent than me.

Looking back on the whole year of 20 18, we had a big fight, and there was another one before the eleventh. Strange to say, I 1 1 began to change slowly after I came back from my parents in Nanjing, and found that more was Mr. Li's good. For example, he will get up early every day to make breakfast and buy some fruits and vegetables after work. He also cares about me and the children. The other is that he signed up for PMP, which showed me his efforts and persistence in learning. I don't know whether my daily shift and learning English have also influenced him, but I know that in the relationship between men and women, what husband and wife need is mutual support and progress. First of all, we must have clear goals and plans, and work hard for our own goals, which will inevitably bring more strength and encouragement to each other. On the other hand, while working hard, I will have less time to quarrel with each other, but I will cherish our days together more.

Tell Mr. Li that he wants to eat pancakes made by my mother-in-law. Let my mother-in-law do it when he goes back. I am particularly touched. In the evening, my mother-in-law made sparerib soup, spinach and eggs, and tomatoes and potatoes fried by Mr. Li. Looking at the two dishes and one soup, rice and pancakes on the dining table, I can't say how warm it is. I think this is the way of a happy life. I am also very grateful to my mother-in-law, who takes care of our children and cooks for us without complaint. Yesterday, it was obvious that all the rice was ready. I heard that I want to eat pancakes and make them for me. Of course, I'm good, too. I basically ate all the pancakes. For this, what reason do I have to be dissatisfied with my mother-in-law? Establishing a good relationship with my mother-in-law is actually to reduce the burden on Mr. Li!

Another special feature of Mr. Li is that every time he comes back from work, no matter how tired or busy he is, he always plays with his children for a while. One of my colleagues was very angry and told me that her partner couldn't hold the baby when she came home from work and seldom played with the children. By contrast, I am much happier. When I was pregnant with Dabao, I told Mr. Li that I was only responsible for giving birth, not raising it. Now think about what an irresponsible sentence this is. At that time, I didn't like children very much, even rejected them. From this perspective, it is also a kind of courage for me to insist on giving birth to Dabao. After Dabao was born, it brought us a lot of joy and changed my attitude towards children. Now every time I see a baby, my inner maternal love will stir. When I was not married before, I especially hated hearing my children crying outside and wanted to run away. Now, as soon as I hear the child crying, I feel anxious and wonder how cruel parents should be to make the child cry so sadly. Maybe that's why I don't want Dabao to cry. Mr. Li occasionally says that I am somewhat spoiled by Dabao. I don't think this is a help, just another way. If children can express their needs through language, why cry? This is my philosophy. Therefore, whenever the child is crying or making trouble, I will hold the child over, first appease the child, and then let the child say what he wants. The advantage of this method is that I can make the children quiet when they are noisy. On the other hand, children can communicate more with their families. Sometimes when I see Miss Li playing with children, they all cry, and I will nag Miss Li. The trivial scenes in these families seem ordinary, but they are always full of love and warmth.

As Bauer's due date approaches, I don't know what will happen in the future. I only hope that Miss Li and I will be well, support and encourage each other, and maintain our small family with love. Only in this way can we pass on this love and let everyone in our big family feel it. This big family includes my parents-in-law, Mr. Li's brother's family of four and Mr. Li's brother's family of four. In this way, there are almost 14 people in this big family. Well, cheer with Miss Li and light up everyone's love through the love of a small family.