I'm too tired to get along with my mother-in-law

What I feel now is: tired, bored and disgusting.

Although my mother-in-law cooked dinner, I only ate a bowl of bean jelly left over at noon.

The food is tasteless, but I don't comment on anything because I didn't make it myself.

After dinner, take the children for a walk, watch TV for a while after you come back, then wash your hair and take a bath …

At this time, the mother-in-law seems to be invisible (because the child is more active, sometimes one person can't control it). I took a sweaty bath. I wanted to wash the bathroom and carry it to my room to get dressed. My mother-in-law must have just said to change the bathroom. I, a hypothyroid patient, made all the preparations for my baby in a stuffy, hot and humid space and ran out immediately, really suffocating.

Actually, my mother-in-law doesn't have to help me, but it would be great if she could really help me when I am tired. She helped me with one point, and I gave her three points. Isn't that how people get along?

I won't say anything in front of my husband.

I don't mind talking in front of my daughter.

I won't say anything until you help me clean up.

After all, no one is born to help others.

It's just that sometimes I look at my mother-in-law's strength and really envy her.

My mother-in-law is too powerful.

I think I should call her the public elevator. After all, she felt very tired and hard even after a few steps.

Whenever we are sick, we just can't sleep well.

Wear less clothes when you catch a cold, and then talk about what happened a few months ago.

How about always praising other people's babies for being quiet in front of them?

I always feel that it is very hard for children to draw and go to school, and girls don't need to read much.

Cooking never adds sugar, and soy sauce can really drip like a dropper …

Always muttering to yourself ...

I talked to her for more than half a sentence, and we didn't see each other much for a week (although we lived together), but for work reasons, it was good for us to eat once a week.

Actually, I dare not live with her. She is a little princess, so I can't sleep well all night. From the beginning, my family told me that you should take care of the children yourself. I didn't expect it to be so difficult …

Not only physically, but also psychologically ...

Just because she doesn't do it doesn't mean she won't tell you what to do.

…

I suddenly remembered reading an article in Zhihu.

In fact, the best parents are responsible for their children's character education when they are young, and quit their families when they are old, leaving their small families as masters.

But obviously, my mother-in-law is not.

She does nothing, but she is our inspector, disciplinary committee and food taster. Anything that doesn't match what she heard around her will be recited until we hear it.

Actually, I used to be happy,

Now I really feel too tired to get along with this mother-in-law. It doesn't make sense. She didn't listen, didn't understand, was stubborn and effeminate ... I felt very depressed.

happy ...

God, please give me a strong heart.