Daughter, stay at your mother's house for a few more days and let your sister-in-law cook for you. Going back to my husband's house has suffered too much. How to solve it?

Stay away from your mother-in-law, stay away from your sister-in-law, just close the door and live a good life with your husband and children.

In the eyes of her mother-in-law, a daughter and a daughter-in-law are different. The daughter is a married princess, and the daughter-in-law is a nanny who enters the door. As a daughter-in-law, you should learn to protect yourself and not be bullied.

1. Daughter, stay with her family for a few more days. Wei (a pseudonym) who lets her sister-in-law cook for you is Xiao Liu's sister-in-law. When Xiao Liu gave birth to a child, nothing happened in her family, but when she gave birth, her mother-in-law was worried. When the channel was slightly in a bad mood, she was angry with her mother-in-law, and directly asked her to stay at her parents' home for a few more days and let Xiao Liu cook for her. She said her husband's family was too angry.

Xiao Liu's mother-in-law only cares about her daughter and doesn't consider her daughter-in-law's feelings. Didn't her daughter-in-law get angry with her mother-in-law when she gave birth to the baby and looked after it? When Xiao Liu is angry, she must bear it. When her daughter is angry, she will go back to her parents' home and be served by her sister-in-law. Such a difference will make anyone shudder.

2. Stay as far away from your mother-in-law as possible. There is nothing wrong with your mother-in-law doting on her sister-in-law, but there is something wrong with letting her serve her sister-in-law. As a mother, you can serve your daughter by yourself. Why do you want your daughter-in-law to serve your daughter?

Besides, your mother-in-law doesn't love your daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law has to do everything, only spend money and have children by herself. It doesn't matter whether she has children or not. I gave birth to three children and got out of bed for work three days later. But instead, I told my daughter to study hard and enjoy it, so that her mother-in-law could let her husband serve her better and ask her what she wanted.

Daughter is also someone else's daughter-in-law, and your daughter-in-law is also someone else's daughter. Forget it if it doesn't hurt, but you can't bully others. As a daughter-in-law, you must relax. Stay away from your mother-in-law. It's enough to do something thankless once or twice, and you can't do it all the time.

I sincerely suggest that Xiao Liu separate from her mother-in-law and live independently with her husband and children, even if she rents a house. Only when she is really separated will she not be bullied.

Third, manage your own home and love yourself as a daughter-in-law. You must remember that your mother-in-law, sister-in-law and father-in-law have no responsibility to support you. You only have the responsibility to help your husband support you. You just need to be a good hostess, run your own small home and make money.

Women should remember that you have the responsibility to support your biological parents. You can't abandon your career and let yourself have no income. It will be difficult for your husband to bear the responsibility of supporting his parents. After all, as a son-in-law, he can only help his wife support her in-laws, and his responsibility is to support his parents.

Therefore, women should remember the problems of their brother-in-law's parents-in-law and sister-in-law, and let their husbands take care of them. You just need to take care of your parents, brothers and sisters.

Whether men and women get married and have children, their status and responsibilities have changed. Whether you marry your parents or your in-laws, you must be measured. Sister-in-law is mother-in-law's business. It has nothing to do with being a sister-in-law. Be polite. There's no need to pretend if you have a bad relationship. Don't wronged yourself for the sake of so-called face.

Women must love themselves. Only by loving yourself well will others love you more. Compromise blindly will only make others take it for granted.