Although the child talks nonsense, but the child is outspoken, what should parents do?

Parents with young babies believe that they all feel the same way. Children nowadays are really weird! Not only is it more precocious, but sometimes it makes people stunned.

It's nothing to say that children are naive at home, but it's not only embarrassing for parents to say it in public, but even the surrounding air is still! This is not what is said on the Internet. Many treasure moms have shared their babies' embarrassing stories!

The anecdote about children's childish words shared by netizens.

1, as a kindergarten teacher, I naturally witnessed many children's childish words, but once it was really embarrassing. During the nap, a little boy pressed on the girl and made a sound of "wheezing, wheezing". I asked the little boy what he was doing.

The little boy also solemnly said, "I slept while playing games with my sister." That's how my dad lies on his mother at night. They mean playing games. " After listening to it, I was really in distress situation. Several teachers didn't know how to respond to the little boy at that time.

2. Going home from college holidays to see my niece at my brother's house and watching TV with my niece on the sofa. My niece suddenly pulled open my short-sleeved neckline and said, "Oh, aunt, your grandmother is not as old as my mother ..." Fortunately, there was only my aunt at home, which made me embarrassed and embarrassed!

I once took my daughter to a friend's house as a guest. My daughter wants ice cream. A friend jokingly asked her daughter, who is better looking, your mother or your aunt? The daughter thought for a moment and said, "My mother is good-looking, because my aunt is too fat …". Ok ... I told my daughter that if you say your aunt is beautiful, she will give you ice cream. The daughter said solemnly: "children can't lie, lying will make them grow noses." . Fortunately, my friends are also nervous and don't care so much.

4. Once I took my son to an amusement park, I happened to see the boss taking his daughter to play. Because it was my second marriage, I was a little old. Before I could ask my son to call someone, my son said, "Hello, grandpa." At that time, I felt the air freeze for a few seconds ... why is my son so polite today? ...

In fact, whether at home or outside, there are many cases where children like the above are outspoken. Some people say that such children lack education, while others say that there is nothing wrong with children being frank and liberated. Parents should correctly guide their children's curiosity!

Then, if the child is particularly outspoken, how should parents treat and respond correctly?

1, don't criticize children.

If a child says something inappropriate outside, most parents will feel a little embarrassed, so the first reaction may be to stop criticizing the child instead of blaming the child, but to let the child think more about what he said is inappropriate and what he can't say on any occasion.

2. Properly satisfy children's curiosity.

We should know how to satisfy children's curiosity properly. For example, parents are accidentally caught in the same room, naturally curious. Children will ask a lot of questions. Without good guidance and explanation from parents, children will go out to imitate their parents' behavior and even talk about it in public.

Therefore, parents should know how to satisfy their children and gently tell them that this is an act of love, but it can only happen to adults, and they should promise to keep it secret from their parents.

3. Cultivate children's expressive ability

Sometimes children will be outspoken because they don't have good expressive ability, and their words will be careless because they don't express themselves, which will make parents and people around them very embarrassed. Therefore, our parents should cultivate their children's good language organization and expression skills from an early age, so as to reduce their outspoken situation.

If children speak openly in public, it will really cause a lot of embarrassing situations. As parents, we should face up to this situation, while understanding the child's frankness, don't escape, and learn to give the child correct guidance.