My girlfriend who has been in love for more than 4 years broke up with me. In the lovelorn, she was very painful and irreparable. I don't know what to do ~ ask for help ... !

You love her, and she loves you. That's the point. As for the present situation, you didn't care enough, neglected others, accumulated a little, and now it broke out.

As for redemption, it is possible. It depends on what you do. Give you some advice.

First of all, show her the wonderful moments of your past together through words and pictures, preferably through words or emails. Sincere feelings arouse her enthusiasm for you.

The second is to express regret. Explain why this happened first. This is your fault. Let her know that you are still alive and it is safe to come back to you. Then promise her how to care about her in the future, how to care about her ... but keep your promise.

Besides, you don't have to find anyone else these days. If others don't see you, even if you go, as long as people around her know you have gone, she will know, but it's not for nothing. Send her something she likes, stay and leave, leave a message.

If she doesn't answer the phone, just send a text message, and she will read it sooner or later. However, everything you do must be sincere.