Let's have a rest.

Time is like a child, sometimes naughty and sometimes cute. Between a tight and a loose, inadvertently, the child will grow up slowly. Nostalgia, the youth that is gone forever, in retrospect, is really beautiful. Memory must be a standard "good person". No longer happy, no longer happy, no longer troubled, when it comes to "memories", it can always disappear, turning enemies into friends, and adding a little more scenery from now on.

Can be brought back to reality, now. You stand alone at the crossroads of life, where is the wind? Go to your freedom. My mind is full of hesitation and helplessness. Especially in the silent night, terrible darkness and quiet ghosts, even in June, I can feel the coolness of my inner struggle. So, I think a lot and think more.

Liu Tong said, "We are all the same. We look forward to the future, get rid of the past and fight for the present. Will be embarrassed, smart, but more scared. Not afraid of turmoil, not afraid of change, not afraid of sudden. Whose youth is not confused, in fact, we are all the same. " When the university just saw this sentence, it was impossible to extricate itself from love at once, especially to heal its own heart. "Oh, there are thousands of people in Qian Qian who are as sad, helpless and anxious as I am." When I passed 267, I found that thousands of people in Qian Qian are people who have nothing to do with you, and they are all trying to live a good life. If you look for the same kind and seek comfort, you will never get out of the circle. There is an inappropriate metaphor: "Beggars always envy the beggar who got the drumstick, and never think about normal people who eat the drumstick every day except beggars."

My inner voice told me to "leave that comfort zone, find my inner voice and meet the challenge", so I resigned.

I gave myself a whole month's time, reading and writing, visiting relatives and friends. Let yourself relax completely, there is no city, stay away from the traffic, calm down and sort out the messy thoughts.

During this month, I repeatedly asked myself four questions. First, what are my values? Second, what is my personal goal? Third, what is my personality? Fourth, what are my strengths? Only when you know yourself thoroughly can you make a better decision.

Thanks to the friends around you, thanks to the best books. Think about yourself repeatedly and come to the conclusion:

Family happiness is greater than work achievement. I like slow-paced city life, love sharing and learning, and am good at language expression and writing.

Walking in the rivers and lakes with a "sober self", the air is fresh several times. The developing city has chosen Changsha, the closest developing city to home, which is 28 minutes' drive from Pingxiang, Jiangxi Province. It can not only take care of my family, but also satisfy my desire for slow-paced city life. As for my job, I chose my previous job, enterprise training industry, and worked as a training supervisor in a well-known real estate group in Changsha.

From bidding farewell to Shanghai's high-paying and attractive consulting industry, to resting at home for a month, and then re-choosing now. I feel like riding a roller coaster, sometimes screaming, sometimes nervous, sometimes excited. Maybe it's because I have been engaged in training and have a sunny personality. Accurately speaking, it is always difficult to cultivate yourself into a sunny person. I always think that the confusion and hesitation, confusion and helplessness in the workplace book have nothing to do with me or will pass by. As it turns out, we are all the same. Don't think too highly of yourself. But don't lose heart, there are ways and strategies that will always be easy to solve.

This period is summed up as "decisive resignation-calm thinking-starting job hunting". Then tell me what you did at each stage.

Leaving is very painful, and the boss tries his best to keep it. The salary increase and opportunity challenge are very attractive. At that time, I read a book "The Moon and Sixpence", combined with my actual situation. Not leaving your job is not good except making money. After all, "more harm than good".

(2) Leave yourself a way out, take the initiative to make serious disclosure with colleagues one by one, and make it public in time, so that the pressure of public opinion will force you to make the final decision. Peng Xiaoliu writes an article, afraid that he can't persist? Then make it public. That's probably what it means.

Tell yourself not to underestimate your future. Who said that if you change jobs, you can't earn the salary of your last job? So don't miss it.

(1) I had a rare rest, opened the crazy reading mode, read nearly 10 books, all kinds of books and my favorite ones, and then wrote a book review for each article, or published or kept it. I was so busy. During this time, books are my best friends. Admittedly, they helped me clear away many obstacles in my mind.

(2) Call all the older and successful seniors in your address book. Ask questions, chat, and by the way, tell them your thoughts and current situation without reservation, listen to what they say, have any good suggestions, and learn from each other's strengths.

③ Attend online training meetings. During the rest time at home, I attended at least five different types of sharing sessions. It is about the operation of WeChat official account, PPT production, personality test, writing guidance and painting. While learning from others' strengths, I have also added many like-minded friends. Because of their help, it is also convenient to find a job in the future.

I am lucky to know this platform myself. Through my acquaintance with a group of friends, such as Li Tian, a reliable trainer, I quickly got invitations and opportunities for several training positions through their assistance. Besides thanking you, I can only go to Changsha to invite crayfish ~ ~ ~

The choice of 26 years old is very important. I specially called my friend who is a headhunter and asked him to pay attention to the matters and delivery channels. In the past, I only foolishly submitted my resume on photo websites such as Zhilian, Worry-Free Future, 58 and Hunting, but I didn't reply for a week, or it was all advertisements and false information. She told me that I should join the local industry QQ group, which is very targeted. I am in the training industry. When searching QQ group, enter the keyword "Changsha+enterprise training". Pick a group with the largest number of participants and post their own job requirements in it, which is instantly seen by thousands of Changsha trainers. Naturally, my phone number has been dialed many times, and I have successfully booked interviews with many ideal companies.

The remaining technical topics are put aside for the time being. Different people have different opinions, suit yourself.

"I am still young and have capital." Many people often say that. In fact, youth is not capital, just because you may still have dreams and fighting spirit when you are young. Those fighting spirits and dreams are your capital. Don't be fooled by youth. Youth is not your capital, it is just the soil for your capital growth.

I am 2067 years old, and you?