What things do couples know only after dating?

What things do couples know only after dating?

1. Have a heart-to-heart talk?

Talk to each other often to let them know how to get to know each other without communication and how to form a tacit understanding. You don't have to talk about your psychological activities like a thought report. Just like chatting, talk about what happened around you, your own thoughts, or how two people get along. How can you fall in love without talking? Don't keep everything in your heart, so it will be uncomfortable to keep guessing. Women like to think. Often a lot of things, you say it, but it doesn't matter. Say nothing, nothing will turn into anything, and sweetness will turn into sadness.

2. Do you want to vent your quarrel?

Quarrel should be vented, and two people can't be together overnight. Quarrel is inevitable. But I hope two people don't have a cold war and can quarrel and fight. Let each other vent, so as not to get sick. Don't spend the night, sleeping in anger is the easiest way to die, unless you are heartless and lying down doing nothing. But it's best to solve it on the same day, because many things are often more and more difficult to solve.

Three. Mutual respect?

Mutual respect is necessary for two people in any relationship. We should not only respect each other when we speak, but also respect each other's thoughts and behaviors. Especially in front of each other's friends, don't show too much how awesome you are, you must get the upper hand, because the protagonist is not you. I'm not saying that you must give him enough face and belittle yourself in front of his friends, so that he will appear in front of his friends, that is, love and respect him. But don't deliberately belittle him and show yourself, but hold the other person and say it, so that others will think that you respect each other and have equal feelings.

4. maintain a sense of boundaries?

Don't keep in endless contact with friends of the opposite sex. Everyone has friends of the opposite sex, which is not a bad thing. On the contrary, it can explain your mental health. But don't have too many friends of the opposite sex, and it is even more problematic to surpass your same-sex friends. Contact is ok, but not too frequent. There is a saying: "quarrel with your lover and tell the truth to strangers." You are always gentle with friends of the opposite sex. Tell them everything in your heart. But with my lover, I take it lightly, cherish words like gold, and don't speak my mind. Then your relationship will definitely not stand a little storm, and the calm is only temporary. Once the other person can't stand it and breaks out, then you are definitely finished.

5. Sweet talk?

Don't be stingy with your mouth It is proper for two people to communicate with each other, and it is also the most way to enhance their feelings. Don't be stingy with your mouth just because you have been together for a long time and don't feel the need to say these words. Always talking sweet words. If you haven't seen each other for three days, you must say you miss them. You must say so if you don't want to. "Isn't it only a month?" You must not say such a thing, it hurts. Attitude is everything. Don't be impatient, don't lose your temper and don't shout. Everyone is in a bad mood, and everyone is unhappy sometimes. But you have to explain to each other why, don't kill people for no reason.

6. cherish each other?

When two people quarrel, no matter whose fault it is, someone must bow their heads first to apologize and coax each other; And the other party should also cooperate with face and make up quickly. Men's psychology and women's psychology have something in common. Nothing in the world can't be overcome. Only by mastering the way to get along with each other will there be fewer obstacles on the road of love. People's hearts are all flesh, and a master like Shi Jue can only exist in legends. Only by cherishing and caring for each other can such a relationship be happy.

Finally, romantic moments are accidental, and love needs to be experienced and managed by itself. Loving yourself is the beginning of a romantic life.