Eight taboos for chasing girls!

Chasing girls requires certain skills and routines. Why is it so painful for many boys to be single? It is precisely because of the lack of experience in getting along with girls, coupled with the low emotional intelligence and emotional intelligence that I am caught in the quagmire of chasing girls. Passion is not enough to successfully catch up with the girl you like. First, you must avoid the misunderstanding of chasing girls.

1, too flattering to girls

Beautiful girls are always surrounded by men, and you can often see "bad men" surrounded by women, but what you think of as "good" and "romantic" is not liked by women. Because when a woman chooses a spouse, a man is kind and romantic to her, and he can't be her partner. When you flatter girls too much, you will only get a "Platinum Goodman Card".

2. Try to persuade girls to fall in love with you.

Many boys will be nervous, anxious and extremely uneasy when they meet girls who have no feelings for him, and then try to convince girls: "How good I am to you, how excellent my conditions are, and it is appropriate to fall in love with me." Because women are more emotional than rational, it is not feasible to convince girls with logic before they are attracted to you, and even alienate your relationship.

Step 3 ask girls for approval

Many boys will show off their things to each other when chasing girls, trying to gain the recognition of girls by pleasing them. Seeking girls' approval can establish emotional connection on the surface, but it is actually a low-profile and low-value behavior. When a girl has a crush on you, a casual action can make her happy: but when a girl hates you, even if you tell funny jokes, the girl just scoffs.

Step 4 spend money on love

The so-called "spending money to buy love" is to get corresponding returns by constantly sending red envelopes, gifts and luxury goods to girls. In fact, spending money on love will only become a spare tire. When you want to spend money to improve your relationship, latent communication is telling girls that you have no self-confidence and nothing in your heart gives women a sense of security. Only spending money can prove your charm.

5. Premature exposure to a sense of need

Many boys, when chasing girls, will show their affection or confession prematurely because they are worried that girls will be taken away by other boys or want to establish a relationship with girls quickly. For example, when you meet a person for the first time and say "You are so beautiful, I like girls like you very much" or "I like you very much, let's fall in love together", girls will only classify you as an annoying spare tire.

6. Lack of self-confidence

Before pursuing a girl, I never set a threshold or made excuses for myself. For example, "this girl is so beautiful, I am not handsome, rich and talented, and she must have a boyfriend." I completely denied myself before trying. This lack of self-determination is the biggest taboo to pursue a girl.

7. I don't know how to upgrade the relationship.

Many times, if a girl is not interested in you, she is generally unwilling to associate with you, so when a girl is willing to associate and date with you, it shows that she is interested in you to a certain extent. When girls show interest in you, if you don't seize the opportunity to upgrade your relationship in time and properly grasp the girl's window, after a period of time, the girl's heart will close to you and your relationship will stagnate.

8. Make a promise casually

Some things are obviously difficult to do. Some boys will make promises in front of women in order to show their abilities, which will give girls a feeling of being unreliable and hypocritical. Such a boy is very unpopular with women. Don't make promises for things you can't do.