Professor Li Meijin: Most children with low EQ have these three manifestations when eating, so they should be corrected in time.

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I went to my best friend's wedding at the weekend. Many relatives and friends attended the wedding. At dinner, there was a little boy who made people feel particularly worried. Before the food was served, he kept arguing, "I'm so hungry. When can I have dinner?" It's just lip service, and he has been knocking on the bowl with chopsticks. Everyone thinks that the little boy's behavior is particularly rude on festive days.

When the food was served, the boy brought his favorite dish to himself before others took chopsticks. The deskmate picked up the dish and turned the table directly without apologizing. Although everyone was disgusted, nobody wanted to ruin the wedding, so they didn't say anything.

1. I like to eat things in person.

Some children always spill their favorite food on themselves when eating, or put all the dishes on the table in a bowl, no matter what others like to eat. As long as you like this food, you should keep it for yourself. Even when the dried vegetables are served on the table, you should shout "Stop eating, it's all mine".

Many parents think that it is good for their children to protect food, but their performance also shows that they don't know how to share and don't care about the feelings of people around them. Such a child's emotional intelligence is particularly low.

(2) Shouting while eating.

When we get along with people, we can't find some people with high emotional intelligence. What we say can make others feel comfortable and won't cause everyone's disgust.

Those children with low emotional intelligence will not only put food in front of them when eating, but also shout, eat and run around the party, which makes others very disgusted.

As parents, they don't educate their children. These children are easy to suffer when they enter the society, because they only care about themselves and never care about the feelings of others.

Say something rude

When children are young, we should educate them to be polite and civilized, but now many children are only children, and their parents spoil them too much, which leads to their disobedience and lack of basic etiquette.

When you attend other people's parties, you will say some rude words, such as "the food here is terrible", and at the same time you will do some impolite behaviors. When the elders help themselves with food, they are particularly disgusted and throw the food directly on the table.

One: Parents lead by example.

If you want to educate children well, you must first set an example. Parents should talk less when eating and influence their children with actions. Just talking about it, they simply don't understand the painstaking efforts of their parents' education, and they won't take these words to heart. It is the most appropriate way to influence your children with practical actions.

Two: Don't make any noise while eating.

It's actually impolite to talk while eating, because when we talk, others will see what's in our mouth, which will affect others' appetite. Of course, you can't make a loud chewing sound, which will affect the mood of people at the same table, and you can't make a loud noise when you eat.

Three: Don't waste food.

Parents must tell their children not to waste food at ordinary times, especially eating buffets. It is normal for everyone to eat a lot. No matter how much children eat, it won't affect others, but pay attention to how much they eat and don't waste food. This is a particularly bad habit and a very impolite behavior.

Parental education will affect the formation of children's future personality and three views. A child's childhood habits will affect his future development. Therefore, parents should set an example from an early age and let them strive to be polite and civilized children.