What is the most sensible child you have ever seen?

Every parent wants his child to be independent and sensible, and every child also tries to be a sensible child in order to make his parents like him more. As a result, it often causes some "self-harm" in children's minds, which affects their healthy growth.

Let's see how children describe being sensible!

"Being sensible just doesn't bother mom and dad!"

Some children think that they are sensible as long as they don't disturb their parents! This has caused many children to be lonely inside, but they dare not talk to their parents. They gradually feel that they are not valued and paid attention to, and they have developed a pair of iron king kong, and they resist everything on their own. Or become a silent person, unwilling to express his inner thoughts.

"Being sensible is to do what parents want to do, even if they want anything more, they should keep it in their hearts!"

Such children often dare not express their thoughts and demands, gradually lose themselves and lead an unhappy life. As a result, I am not qualified to ask for it, and I dare not say it again!

"Being sensible is to listen to your parents. Mom and dad will do whatever they want. Don't ask why! "

Such children often act like good babies. His parents asked him to do whatever he wanted. I don't have my own opinion and gradually stop thinking. As a result, he has become a person who always asks others what to do when encountering things! Often let yourself fall into the predicament that there is no way, no way, no way. Life is low and weak, and life is meaningless.

"A sensible child is just to please his parents!"

Such children tend to please mode, for the purpose of pleasing others, and often lose themselves. When I grow up, I will treat my work, career, family and life in the same way. Because I always think about what I do, others will be happy, and I ignore how to do it, and I will be happy. Often the result is a very tired life.

Then what is really sensible?

A child or a truly sensible person will not live according to other people's intentions, let alone lose himself in order to please others. Really sensible is to understand, respect, tolerate and accept others on the premise of taking care of yourself! To understand, respect, tolerate and accept, parents must first understand, respect, tolerate and accept.

Because a person can only give others what he has, but not what he doesn't have! When parents give their children understanding, respect, tolerance and acceptance, children will naturally understand the meaning of these words, so they will know how to give others!