How to communicate with parents?

If you want to understand each other when talking to your parents, you need to improve it like this: first, communicate with your parents more actively; Second, listen carefully and respect the opinions of parents; Third, put yourself in the shoes of your parents; Fourth, take your parents to travel together to broaden your horizons.

What should I do if I have difficulty talking to my parents?

1. What should I do if I have difficulty communicating with my parents?

1, actively communicate with parents, communication is the basis of establishing a good relationship.

I often exchange experiences with my parents and tell them the problems I have encountered in my study and life, and I need their help. You can also share your achievements and happy things with your parents. Establish good communication relationship with parents.

2. Always listen carefully and respect parents' opinions.

Although the two generations lived in different times, their parents' experience was also summed up through life training. Listen to parents' suggestions and respect their opinions. Even if you object to your parents' suggestions, you'd better not get angry, control your emotions, talk to your parents calmly and listen to their reasons.

Put yourself in your parents' shoes and apologize to your parents when you make a mistake.

If you really do something wrong, don't always talk back to your parents when they scold you. Think from their perspective and understand their feelings and difficulties. Even though some things may not be your fault and you have suffered a lot, don't argue in a hurry.

Learn to be considerate of your parents. Maybe they are too tired or have troubles, so they will get angry. You can change the time and place and communicate with your parents, which will have unexpected effects.

4. Take parents to travel together to broaden their horizons and enhance parent-child relationship.

My parents have been busy all their lives, living in a small circle and being complacent. If they have time and conditions, they can take their parents out to travel more, which will broaden their horizons. Traveling with parents also helps to promote parent-child relationship.

What should I do if I have difficulty talking to my parents?

Second, the skills of talking with parents

Understanding is the premise. Knowing your parents gives you the initiative to communicate. Knowing what parents think, how to do it, what hobbies they have, what temperament they have and what expectations they have for us, we will have foresight and initiative when communicating with them.

2. Respect and understanding are the key. Respect is the basic requirement of communication with parents. If you don't even respect those who love yourself the most and give the most for yourself, then you will lose the minimum morality. To communicate with parents normally, we must first understand their parents, understand their feelings, respect their wishes, and pay attention to basic courtesy, not willfulness.

3. The effective way to understand parents is empathy. When we don't understand our parents and have conflicts with them, we should learn to put ourselves in their shoes, think for them, and understand what they are for, what they think and what makes sense. This will make us more calm and rational.

The results of communication should seek common ground while reserving differences. Don't go to extremes in communication. After all, there are differences between the two generations, and it is inevitable that they have different views, motivations and behaviors. It is because of the differences that we need to communicate. This kind of communication does not have to be unified, but should seek common ground while reserving differences. Find the same, and we will have the same words and actions; Preserving differences means preserving respect and understanding for parents.

In addition, we should overcome psychological lock-in, convey information and materials about ourselves to parents, express our feelings and opinions, and let parents know themselves. We should maintain our independence, but don't neglect the communication with our parents. When you have conflicts with your parents, you should explain patiently, let your parents listen and get their understanding. When explaining, speak in a low voice, choose words carefully, and have business and quantity. Even if our parents are wrong, we should talk about it, not to our parents themselves, and we should not take it out on them.

What should I do if I have difficulty talking to my parents?

Third, how to communicate effectively with parents

1, respect parents. Specifically, when parents talk to us, we should concentrate on understanding what they are saying and what they mean. Many people will feel impatient when chatting with their parents after going home and start playing mobile phones. Parents are angry with our perfunctory attitude and will scold us. This will destroy our relationship with our parents.

2. Express your thoughts. When communicating with parents, explain things and express our feelings at the same time. For example, the most helpless thing for young people nowadays is that they are urged to get married by their parents as soon as they get home, and they are often urged, so young people will be very upset and angry. Later, it is very likely to quarrel with parents, which will affect the relationship with parents.

3. Less blame. Generally speaking, we should pay attention to ways and means, and try to start with "I", which can reduce each other's antipathy and even psychological defense. In view of an example, we can express our views and thoughts on this matter with our parents, expressing that we know that our parents are good for ourselves, but if we are always asked to do things we don't want to do, it will only make us communicate less.

What should I pay attention to when talking to my parents?

1, calm and pure, with humility.

When chatting with parents, many young people are always self-centered, and it is easy to leave an impression of "self-righteousness" in their hearts. You know, your parents may have been to more places than you have eaten, so communicating in such a tough way will certainly not win their favor. The consequence is often that the core topic has not been touched, and the chat ends in a quarrel.

But if we face it in a different way with a "consulting" attitude and don't deliberately challenge the authority of our parents, it will be easier to get pertinent advice.

2, beat about the bush, step by step

There is a huge gap between us and our parents. The fundamental problem lies in our ideas. Parents' ideas are generally conservative, while young people are more open and free. So on many topics, they will show two opposite attitudes.

In order to reverse this situation, we can try to "beat about the bush" communication mode on the premise of ensuring benign interaction. Both parents are experienced people, and they will understand a lot when you listen. If they are not disgusted with your "edge ball" communication, it proves that there is still room for manoeuvre in the topic, and they can do their ideological work step by step. If parents show special resistance, it is best to stop it in time to avoid embarrassment.