If you want a mother, you don't want a wife. If you want a wife, you don't want a mother.

It's simple. First of all, as a son and husband, you are a poor leader.

You make it clear first; First, as your mother, she will never hate her children, so if there is any contradiction, you can say it in front of your daughter-in-law and let your mother suffer a little injustice. For the sake of family harmony, there is no way. But after things happen, you must honor your mother.

Second, your wife is so fierce. First of all, she has given her enough face in front of your family. If she gives face, don't. Then we have to sweep the floor. If you can solve all the problems (hurt your wife privately, accept it, if not, seek common ground while reserving differences). Only in this way can things be completely solved.

Only this time, you can't let your mother be wronged all the time. If your wife keeps acting like this, it's not your family's problem, it's your wife's problem. I suggest you go to your mother-in-law's house to change. If you don't change it, you will return it. Your wife is definitely not a thing anyway. At least this is not a good thing.