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When you reach out to your husband for money
I remember when I was at school, my parents always took a notebook and told me how much they spent on me this time. I will remember all the money for you. Perhaps the implication is that when I grow up and earn money, I should return it to him. It's hard to think about that feeling at that time. I wonder what other children look like and feel when they ask for money. Parents spend money for their children. Although they should really be grateful as children, why do I always feel particularly uncomfortable every time I say this? Maybe my parents made me feel? This money is not worth taking. Shouldn't I accept it?
It seems that there is really a little feeling, just like every time I ask my husband for money, it seems that he will really give me one, and I shouldn't take it.
I don't want to analyze anything with my brain. I just wonder, what is hidden in this uncomfortable feeling?
If it is only for self-esteem, we say that if a woman wants to be independent, she must earn enough money to buy jewelry, bags, clothes and shopping for herself. . . . On the one hand, we preach that women should love themselves, see the value they pay, and don't follow the crowd to measure their value in the family with money. . .
You know, just like me at present, there is a big contradiction here, that is, the conflict between taking care of children and career.
I am a person who values accompanying children more than my current career investment, which may be related to my more recognition of my mother. I think this is what I should put in the first place at present, and it is also a more important thing. Although I will be anxious in the face of career development restrictions, I firmly feel that even if I sacrifice my career, it is more important than anything else. But every time my husband gives me a feeling, I feel that a very big contradiction will be highlighted, which makes me embarrassed and makes me feel a little helpless. Because I don't want to rely on him, I want to put more energy into my career, and I will inevitably sacrifice the company of my children. But when I am with my children, I need to temporarily succumb to my husband financially, which makes me very uncomfortable. So whenever this time, let me have a feeling of going back to the past and realize the helplessness of relying on others. This is also my deepest feeling since I was a child. It should be said that this is the most painful.
Perhaps, I need to face and deal with this seriously, because I can't change his attitude towards this matter for the time being, so I need to adjust myself.
It is really difficult to be a mother, an enterprising mother and a mother who loves life.
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