How to do well interpersonal communication in the workplace?

1. In reality, the saddest misunderstanding is that many people regard eating as human feelings. Please eat is not human, remember this sentence. A meal is nothing. If so, even if it is returned, the human feelings in this world are too good. Besides, if you treat, you can't treat only one party and a bunch of people. Inviting you to dinner is just an attitude and a ceremony.

2. Suggestion: Step one, please eat first. Whether the other party wants to attend or not, you should at least invite them or ask them to bring someone. You shouldn't arrange anyone to accompany you casually. The other person may have the consideration of returning his favor, so that your meal will be of some value. If the other party insists on not participating, don't force it. Considering that you are introverted and can't talk, don't struggle. You are a supporting role and a waiter at the dinner party. Just treat them well. If you dominate, you dominate the dinner, so it won't be cold. Don't think of yourself as the protagonist. Don't think that you should be one of the protagonists just because you pay the bill.

The second step, whether you are invited to dinner successfully or not, is to carry out the second step and give gifts at the right time. Don't give too deliberately. Don't give it right away. Giving immediately will look like a deal. It will be ugly, make the other person uncomfortable and too cold, and you will be impatient and eager to return the favor. After a period of time, say two or three months, choose a time and send some gifts to express your gratitude. You don't even need to mention anything when you send it, otherwise it will be too utilitarian. Just say, it's a holiday, express your feelings, thank you for your concern and so on, and you don't need to mention anything specific.

The third step is to make a statement that you will contribute to what the other party needs you, and then prove it with actions. Only if you help each other once or twice will this favor be rewarded.

In reality, how many people still fail in human feelings, will not pay back, and no one will be willing to help you slowly. I say this not because I am sophisticated, but because as long as you are willing to put yourself in the other person's shoes, you will be naturally transparent, and many people only have "me"!