Busy and poor, no one asked what it meant to have distant relatives in the mountains. From which book?

The poor in the downtown area, no one asked which book the rich with distant relatives in the mountains came from? This sentence is from the Ming Dynasty children's enlightenment education book "Zengguang Xianwen", and there should be no author. It is said that it was edited by Zhou. When I was a child, my parents often nagged me. Sometimes I listen to it too much, but I don't like it very much. Later, I experienced the world and felt quite reasonable. However, we should understand and recognize this sentence dialectically.

What does it mean to have a distant relative in the mountains if you are poor in downtown? The poor live in downtown areas, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Literally, this sentence should be very simple, that is, if a person is poor and lives in a downtown area, no one will care, but if a person is rich, even if he lives in a deep forest, there will be distant relatives to visit him. It sounds mean and makes people suddenly feel sad about the world.

Does this sentence follow the theory of evil nature of Confucian Xunzi in Augmented Xianwen? The main idea of. Human nature is evil, with a cold-eyed insight into social life, it highly summarizes the dark phenomena in many aspects of society, and shows them in front of readers coldly: family ties are polluted by money, friendship is just a lie, honor and inferiority are determined by money, law and justice are manipulated by money, human nature is distorted by interests, sophistication leads to unpredictable people's hearts, and good and evil are difficult to distinguish.

There is a key problem here. Is the communication between people in society emotional or material? From Xunzi's theory of evil nature? Analyzing social communication, he advocates that human nature is evil and pursues interests. In the real society, there are such real examples that cater to the psychology of many people. The more material the society is, the more serious the mentality of pursuing material interests will be. Because material is the first pursuit of that society.

In a society with relatively rich materials, people should not only satisfy material desires, but also pursue spiritual pursuits, among which family friendship is a part of spiritual comfort and has become a direction that people pursue. So no one asked whether the poor lived in downtown and whether the rich had distant relatives in the mountains. This sentence should be viewed dialectically and analyzed from the specific conditions of different historical stages and regions, which will have guiding significance.

You live in a poor city, and you are poor. Rich people live in deep mountains and forests, and they are rich! Live in a villa and drive a luxury car. It's not difficult to wear gold and silver! Rich one by one!

We'll talk about the poor later. The room was tattered, dressed in rags, revealing meat, and the heels worn by beggars were far from perfect.

? No one asks if you are poor in the city, but if you have money, you have distant relatives in the mountains. I think there is some truth in this sentence. This sentence vividly reflects an unhealthy social phenomenon, or an unhealthy social reality. Since ancient times, there have been some people in society who are so snobbish and practical. If you have no money, people will not pay attention to you even if you live in a busy downtown area. Because you're useless to him. Not only are you useless, but you may also go back to others to borrow money or ask for help. Why do people talk to you? You'd better stay away so as not to drag others down. And if you are rich and powerful, things will take a big turn. If you are rich and powerful, even if you live far away in the mountains, people will visit you and curry favor with you because you are a useful person. Because maybe one day he will come to borrow money from you or ask you for help! In order to eat in front of you, it is necessary for him to recognize you as a distant relative and contact your feelings! If he doesn't, once he borrows money from you, you won't lend it to him.

I don't entirely agree with this view, but it is true for the real society. A person can be poor, but his thoughts and ambitions cannot be poor. If so, it is difficult to see a person's future. That really fulfilled this sentence. I once heard an old man say: the poor have endless roots, and the rich have no rich roots. Wacha can turn over, let alone be a living and thoughtful man. Therefore, when a person is poor, we should not look down on those poor people. If you look down on him today, maybe one day, you will be looked down upon. I have seen a similar situation with my own eyes. People who are used to laughing at others will be laughed at sooner or later. I don't believe that if you carefully observe some small things in life, you will find new things.

These two sentences are a summary of the wisdom of the ancients and also adapt to today's society.

Just like two popular sentences on the Internet, 10 years ago, others regarded you as their parents, and 10 years later, it is the same truth.

I have a deep understanding. I remember 10 years ago, my parents were honest and filial. My mother is a little retarded and my father is honest. His family only planted two acres of thin land, and he could only support his family. In the case of drought and flood, he will borrow food from his neighbors, let alone provide us with education. Relatives and friends are afraid that we will go. On the one hand, they are afraid of us borrowing money. On the other hand, they always think that we will embarrass them.

Now I have built a house in my hometown in the countryside by my own efforts. Even my relatives who live in the city come every year and have more contact with each other.

This is the personal experience of a rural person, and I want to share it with you. If there is anything wrong, I hope everyone will tolerate it.

Environment is an important factor to change a person. People who live in the city and the hinterland have a great influence on a person with dreams, goals and perseverance; There are very few people who change their fate in the hinterland, such as panning for gold in the sand. In the busy downtown, more people will choose comfort and unconsciously turn themselves into poor people without dreams and goals. Therefore, no matter in urban areas or in mountainous areas, only those who try to change their destiny will become strong in life, even if they have nothing now.

The poor live in downtown areas, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This is a popular saying in China. Its original intention is to tell us that as a person, we must strive to become rich. The word "poor" here is not limited to money and treasure, but also includes people's knowledge, ability and technology. It means that if you are poor, the traditional word "poor" in China is a person with a bow in the house. In the present words, you can't straighten up because you have nothing.

The original meaning of the word "rich" is that one person, one room and one acre of land are considered rich? In fact, there is an acre of land now, which can guarantee food and drink for a year. Cang Xie is so clever that the meaning of this rich word has remained for thousands of years. The wealth here also includes knowledge, study, skills, skills and money. If you have the above abilities, someone will always find you and ask you to come out. That is to live in the mountains and have distant relatives.

I will answer in two sentences, and I won't explain the rest.

One: the world has been so cold since ancient times, and only morality has survived to this day.

Two: people are poor and busy, and they are afraid that you will borrow money. Who dares to care? What do the rich people in the mountains want from you? How can you not kiss them?

I'm Xianghe Yayu. I wish you happiness, peace and self-cultivation.

That makes sense. Generally speaking, if you are poor, you have no money or less money. For others, it is not only impossible to borrow money from you, but also possible to lend it to you. So, for others, your poverty is a potential burden. In that case, why should I know you? Isn't this fire? Don't say that you are unknown in the downtown area. It's best not to go out in the mountains. Going out is a disaster. On the contrary, wealth is simply full of treasures. Have a good relationship with rich people, and there is basically no loss. If you are not as good as the rich, you can fantasize about getting some gifts from the rich. If you are neck and neck with the rich, it means a chance to join hands. If you are richer than the rich, so much the better. You can hardly lose anything because of him. So don't say that in the deep mountains, even in the deep sea, cities will be crowded. Therefore, behind the city and mountains and rivers, knowledge and knowledge are typical manifestations of people's psychology of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

This sentence reflects the human feelings of the world at all times and at all times, and it is very true. It's just that people have to face reality and strive for self-improvement. Could it be that Xiangning has balls? ? Wealth is also a pervert. If you are poor, change it. Once you become rich from poverty, some people will ask? So, distant relatives? Yes

Vulgar people only know destiny, complain about others, do not strive for progress, and always end up in a situation where no one cares and no distant relatives; An enlightened person knows how to change, make progress, work hard and use his wisdom and diligence to create and change his destiny when he is poor. Heaven rewards diligence, the rich and the poor change hands, and the poor can get rich. By then, they will naturally live in the mountains and have distant relatives.

There is fire when you hit a stone, but no smoke when you hit the original.

Noble people have no seeds, but there are two worlds: enthusiasm and laziness.

This is a very realistic problem. When people are poor, others look down on them and say nothing. Even relatives are far away, so don't involve them. Rich, especially very rich, friends and relatives from all walks of life will really visit. There are too many examples in this regard.

I know a boss. When he was 4-5 years old, his parents died one after another, and the two brothers became orphans. He took his brother to a relative's house and had no relatives to take him in, so he had to beg everywhere for a living. Later the government adopted them and grew up in an orphanage. Fortunately, the government also trained him to study and found a job when he grew up. Later, he went to the sea to do business and his property exceeded 100 million.

Because at that time, the two brothers left their hometown to beg for a living and never went back for decades. Later, when they became rich, he donated money everywhere and was known by people in his hometown. All the neighbors, acquaintances and strangers came to him and asked him for money to find a job.

He said with emotion: the urban area is really poor, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

Poor people don't ask in downtown, but rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. In essence, it reflects the warm and cold human feelings in society and the particularly ugly side of the world. It can be said that the phenomenon of the world has existed since ancient times. I am afraid that as long as there is human society, it will be difficult to eradicate it. Why? Because human society exists objectively, people's classes are uneven, their status is high and low, and their economy is rich and poor. The disparity between the poor and the mentally unstable will lead to different views on the world, which will naturally lead to the good and evil of human nature. Good is clear and evil is dirty. If the rich are cool, the poor envy greed and vanity, if the aunt flatters, finds an excuse to climb up, finds distant relatives for no reason, and brazenly climbs Zhu Hu. In fact, the most shameful thing for incorruptible people in ancient and modern times is this snobbery, not loving themselves and losing their personality. But people are unpredictable, and saints are helpless. Only sigh:

I hate evil and treachery most in my life, and despise snobbery and human feelings.

When is spring in the world? Yin Nian, all beings are rewarded equally.

Poverty and wealth are only superficial phenomena, but the external manifestations of personal energy. Powerful energy can naturally attract many substances, including money, popularity, resources, sexual resources and so on.

A person with strong energy can still help many people even in the mountains and forests, because his energy is strong enough. Many people need to rely on his energy to live, or rely on him to live better. Even if they live far away, they will visit, and even on Mount Everest, there are people to follow. ...

However, most retarded people, people who can't even do it themselves, can only live by absorbing the energy of others. People who are close to such people will feel particularly uncomfortable. No matter where they live, others will stay away from them and no one will take care of them. ...

Therefore, because everyone's energy is different, this external scene is formed. The downtown area is poor, but the mountains are rich in distant relatives. This is the most appropriate explanation.

Of course, energy also includes personal energy, family energy, collective energy and so on. There is no need to worry about this problem. If you live, who can guarantee that you won't go to Maicheng all the time? Only when you are in trouble can you see through people's hearts and feel the world. Everyone has his own way of living, and it doesn't matter if you see through it.