How to change children's selfish inferiority complex? How to change children's inferiority complex?

1, help children find their strengths: to eliminate their inferiority complex, the most important thing is to let children find themselves useful, so it is very important to find their own strengths and advantages. Because children with inferiority can't see and don't think they have talent, but this is definitely not true. After discovering his talent, of course, we should create opportunities and conditions for him to give full play to his talent!

2. Language suggestion: Positive language can make people have positive thoughts, and then change the negative mentality. Therefore, parents can usually use "You are smart, you can do it!" This kind of words will cheer up the child and make him full of confidence in himself.

3. Wash the shadow of failure: The shadow of failure is a hotbed of inferiority, and washing the shadow of failure in time is an important key to overcome inferiority and maintain self-confidence. The practice is that in the experience of failure, parents should play the role of teachers, so that children can learn from failures and learn lessons. In addition, it is to cover up the failed experience with the successful experience.

4. Preview victory: When children encounter difficulties and flinch from the challenge, parents can let their children imagine their sense of accomplishment when completing the task in their minds. This feeling similar to that of daydreaming is of great help to children with low self-esteem.

5. Reduce pursuit: The situation of some children who lack self-confidence is that they think they are too backward and have too ambitious goals, so they have a timid psychology. Instead of forcing children to follow up, it is better to lower the standard appropriately, so that the lofty goal can be broken down into several small goals, which is easier to achieve, and children can have a sense of accomplishment and make faster progress.