Articles describing the philosophy of life

Life is a science, and life contains many philosophies that we need to understand. Here are the articles I compiled for you to describe the philosophies of life. I hope you like it.

An article describing the philosophy of life: Don’t be so persistent in life

After reading "The Biography of Lin Weiyin", what touches me is not Lin Weiyin who is praised by everyone, but Lin Weiyin who is praised by everyone. It was her admirer Jin Yuelin. His affection for Lin Weiyin is admirable, lamentable and sad. When I was covering up the book, I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: a famous philosopher, logician, a man with a dignified appearance and a very gentlemanly demeanor, but for Lin Huiyin, he never married, never left, and remained consistent. That kind of love is so profound and persistent, but it makes people even more regretful.

In fact, don’t be so persistent in life.

For the three men in Lin Weiyin’s life, who can comment on their deep love and shallow love? They all love so sincerely and deeply. But even though Xu Zhimo could abandon everything for love, he could still love Lu Xiaoman so passionately regardless of it. Although Lu Xiaoman could never replace Lin Huiyin, he loved like this. It can be said that Liang Sicheng was the person who cared for and loved Lin Weiyin all his life, but after Lin Weiyin passed away, Liang Sicheng quickly married his student. Only Jin Yuelin stayed with Lin Weiyin all his life, guarding her soul even after her death, and never let him down in the slightest.

A record of Jin Yuelin’s later years is even more impressive. It is said that one day in the late 1950s, Jin Yuelin invited his friend to dinner without explaining the reason, and the friend did not know why. Halfway through the meal, Jin Yuelin stood up and said that today is Lin Huiyin’s birthday. Hearing these words and looking at this old man who had never married, everyone cried silently.

Perhaps, for Jin Yuelin, being able to be by Lin Huiyin's side, seeing her face and listening to her words is a kind of happiness. However, such happiness is heartbreaking after all. Happy love and beautiful affection should be given by both parties. You have me and I have you, rather than one party giving silently.

Ms. Lin Zhu, Liang Sicheng’s successor, once described this: Once Lin Huiyin told Liang Sicheng with a sad face that she was extremely distressed because she fell in love with two people at the same time and didn’t know what to do. Liang Sicheng was in extreme pain from the conflict. He thought hard all night and compared the advantages of Jin Yuelin over himself. He finally told his wife: She is free. If she chooses Jin Yuelin, I wish them happiness forever. Lin Huiyin told Jin Yuelin everything exactly. Jin Yuelin's answer was so frank and candid that it would surprise anyone: "It seems that Sicheng really loves you." I can't hurt someone who truly loves you. I should quit. ?

From this, we can get a further glimpse of Jin Yuelin's magnanimous mind and selfless love. I even hope that Lin Weiyin, who is known as a talented woman from Jiangnan, can drive away Jin Yuelin against her will and let him leave her completely to pursue his own happiness. But Lin Weiyin, who is as tender as water, calm and wise, never fails to live up to any spring. Her life is always green and verdant, and this is what Jin Yuelin is obsessed with.

In Lin Huiyin's eyes, Jin Yuelin is more like a relative, and she will feel at ease as long as he is around. For a long time, they have lived next to each other, often in front of each other in a house. Jin Yuelin just spent his whole life willingly and silently guarding the woman he loved most in his heart.

It is said that there is infatuation in the world, but how many people are as infatuated as Jin Yuelin? In addition to admiring it, I want to say: Don’t be so persistent in life. While giving happiness to others, don't neglect yourself or wrong yourself. In life, there is another way of companionship and blessing. An article describing the philosophy of life: Two states of mind that a person must have

One is to be in awe of life, rather than being indifferent to life at all times.

Life looks different to different people. Some people are born into an excellent family and receive a good education since childhood. During his growth period, his parents have consciously helped him correct his life. Well, after going through primary school, middle school and university, and then moving forward according to the route designed by my parents, my life is basically going smoothly. They cannot appreciate poverty or the oppression and impact of money on life. They don’t even have an attitude towards money because they are never short of money in their lives.

Of course, he cannot appreciate the warmth and warmth of human relationships, nor the cruelty and severity of life, because his parents’ success has made him the center of the world, and everything will revolve around him. In his eyes, the world is always sunny and full of energy. Smiley face.

For most people born in poor families, life is completely different. I remember that when I was in college, I had almost no food to eat and had to exchange my fine grain stamps for the coarse grain stamps of the girls in my class. At that time, we only had 23 kilograms of fine grains in a month, which was less than a kilogram a day. Today, it might still be possible. It’s not too much, but in that era, people’s stomachs almost depended on staple foods to fill their stomachs. So the impression left on me in that era was not only hunger, but also the unfairness in growing up, as well as the inherent gaps and inequalities between people. Therefore, I will never in my life believe that there is complete fairness and equality between people. That is completely irresponsible for a cruel life and an unrealistic delusion. Trying to be yourself amidst inequality, realizing your limited dreams, and trying to make your life as decent as possible. This is the attitude towards life that people from humble backgrounds should have.

The second is to have a kind heart and not to be indifferent or numb everywhere

The world is becoming more and more indifferent and shameless. What is indifferent is the indifference between people. relationship, as well as the relationship between human beings and the world. In our eyes, relationships between people are dangerous and cannot be trusted. Man and the world are antagonistic and sometimes even irreconcilable. We have been educated since childhood, and are forcefully indoctrinated every day not to talk to strangers, not to be fooled by the smiling faces of strangers, not to trust anyone easily, and not to trust the world casually. Denial and skepticism are the mainstream of our culture, and warmth and closeness have become a luxury. So we always speculate and question the world. We firmly believe in the warmth and coldness of human relationships and false smiles. What we insist on is also what hurts us the most, so that today, we are no longer able to smile at the world, open our hearts and warm our hearts to our fellow humans. Our kindness is locked up and becomes a beast trapped within us. What is unleashed to bite people is indifference, insensitivity, excessive selfishness and omnipresent suspicion.

Really, if you are more kind, give more warmth to others, and be less indifferent and selfish, the world will become a different place. After all, the world changes because of our attitude, and the world becomes smooth because of the smoothness of each of our hearts. An article describing the philosophy of life: Young people, don’t always think about breaking through yourself

A child sent me a message. He first asked me whether interpersonal relationships were important, and then asked: Sister Mu Mu, IQ and Can people with low emotional intelligence break through themselves?

From my personal point of view, the standard answer is this:

Of course it is good to be able to handle interpersonal relationships well, but it cannot be handled temporarily. It's better not to worry too much;

There are not many people with poor IQ and EQ, most people are at average level. What does it mean to break through yourself? Do you want to change yourself into another person, from introversion to extroversion, from talkative to calm, is this?!

If this is really the case, then I suggest , it’s better not to break through yourself. You're fine now.

To be honest, I think it is difficult for most people to break through and surpass themselves.

And what are those? Defeat oneself?, Surpass oneself? They are basically trying to give you a pair of examples of people who have become successful and famous, and tell you that they succeeded only by transcending themselves. ;

You shout a few slogans and your blood boils. After a few days of excitement, you return to your old ways. You are lazy when you should be lazy, procrastinate when you should be, introverted when you should be, impetuous when you should be, and you can't solve the problem.

If you are not satisfied with your current self, what you have to do is not to change or break through yourself, but to try to find some methods and do some things to make yourself better and become that so-called The best version of yourself.

When you become what you like, you will no longer think about how to break through yourself. You will find that you like yourself very much, from your personality to your character, from your behavior to your speech and behavior. You become more confident and more open-minded.

You find that you are pretty good and don’t need to make a breakthrough at all.

I have read too many stories of inspirational idols in the past, saying that they overcame their character weaknesses, conquered their natural weaknesses, achieved great things, and became famous in history.

For example, if there is a person who stutters, he practices his speech skills desperately, and then becomes a very outstanding speech master. This kind of story is exciting when watching, and makes people yearn for it when reading: Wow, as long as I want, I can defeat myself, become another person completely, and achieve great things!

To be honest, we It is difficult for most people to achieve this kind of qualitative leap. This kind of perseverance, perseverance and perseverance is beyond the reach of ordinary people; and the qualitative leap seems to be a moment, but in fact it is a very long process, full of ups and downs, and a lot of obscurities. There are twists and turns, discouragement, and wanting to surrender every minute.

For example, King George VI in "The King's Speech" had no intention of becoming the king. It was because his brother Edward VIII did not love the country and the beauty, so he was pushed to the king's seat.

As a king of a country, he has to speak in public, and he was despised by his father because of his stuttering when he was a child. All of this forced him to change his stuttering? The role of external forces is actually greater than his inner motivation, and he has no choice but to do so. for it.

When I was a teenager, I really longed to become a smart, intelligent, gentle and popular girl. How many children don’t want to be like this?

But I have I am reserved and shy. I am embarrassed to talk to strangers and unfamiliar people. In strange environments, I will be so embarrassed that I have no sense of presence and pretend not to care about anyone.

So, how much I hope that I can break through this disgusting part of my personality. I hope that I can be able to make both ends meet and be good at dancing.

But this kind of change is very painful. You have to force yourself to say a lot of things you don’t want to say or want to say, and force yourself to deal with people you don’t like (because you want to be popular). You have to Force yourself to hide your personality and become a warm cotton ball without edges?

Every time I take stock of my overall performance in a semester and find that it is not satisfactory, I decide to break through myself. ?;But every time less than a week after school started, I surrendered: Forget it, forget it, I'll just do what I should do, forcibly change my personality, and adopt a posture that I don't even recognize. It’s very awkward for others to see.

So, that’s it.

From the age of sixteen or seventeen to now, nearly twenty years, my personality has not changed much. There is still a part of me that is very shy and introverted. I don’t like to talk when I see life. I feel awkward in the environment;

On the other hand, I am getting better little by little doing what I like, and watching myself grow little by little, this feeling is really good, let me I gradually believe that I am not bad, and I like myself very much. If you like it, you will like it. If you don’t, I will push you down.

Yes, I have become more confident.

When you become confident, those factors in your personality that you thought were negative will slowly disappear. You may still be introverted, but you will not say a word because of inferiority; you You may still have a strong personality, but you won't blame all the problems on your personality when you fail? How good it is to have a personality. There are so many mediocre people in the world, and there is a shortage of people with your personality.

It is very, very difficult to break through yourself, but it is not difficult to make yourself better? Do what you like, try to make your life better, and try to work to the best of your ability. Well, as you have more and more good things, you will have much less doubts, uncertainties and even disgust about yourself.

The questions that children particularly like to ask are either how to break through themselves or how to change their destiny.

Your problems are too big.

It seems that everyone wishes to become Steve Jobs or Jack Ma, wishes that everyone would fly on the branches and become a phoenix, or at least return home in glory to shine on the family lintel.

Of course it is good to be ambitious. But I still suggest: start by doing small things, start by making yourself better, and start by gradually becoming the person you like.

The more you walk on this road, the more you will feel that you will gradually become more confident, gradually have a broader heart, gradually have your own understanding of success, and gradually have a deeper understanding of happiness? It is really like this.

Sometimes I wonder, have I changed my destiny?

I think I have.

I have realized my childhood dream. I write, publish books, have the time and ability to travel, buy things I like, socialize with friends I like, and most importantly, I have myself. The life you like is success and happiness.

Isn’t this just changing my destiny?

In this process, I didn’t really break through myself. My personality is much the same as before, but my state of mind is completely different.

The things I have done and the books I have read over the years have penetrated into my life bit by bit. Although I have not made a breakthrough in myself, I am still getting better, right?!

So , young people, don’t always think about breaking through yourself, and don’t always think about making great achievements.

Do the things in front of you first, learn the English you have always wanted to learn, and do the internship at hand. If you want to write something, turn on the computer and start writing. Don’t just talk. Say?

Obviously what you need is not a way to break through yourself, but the courage to let go of too many thoughts and pick up a few small things and do it seriously.