The best state of a person: forgetting things, forgetting feelings, forgetting self

Days, whether you like it or not, will always rush forward in the vicissitudes of time.

Occasionally, it will make you a little confused; occasionally, it will give you some surprises; occasionally, it will give you hope and longing.

Time goes by, and no one will always stay in your life, and no one will care about the reluctance in your eyes, and no one will accompany you through the ups and downs. Each of us, It is in loneliness, stumbling forward.

Time gradually changes the young face to a slightly vicissitudes of life. Before you know it, your parents will grow old. Before you know it, your children will grow up. Before you know it, you will find that you She looks gentler on the outside, but stronger and stronger on the inside.

The four seasons are like running water, year after year, it seems that all the scenes are reminding you: beauty is fleeting, and the blank space is just in looking back.

Everyone has a journey with ups and downs along the way. No matter how passionate you are, there are still many things you can't keep.

However, a sober life is not that troublesome. Everything can be explained with one word, and this word is: forget.

Everyone is just a speck of dust in the years, but many people pin their lives on gaining more wealth and having more fame and fortune.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with making yourself better and living a higher quality life.

However, there are many people who ignore the meaning of their lives, blindly pursue the luxury of cars and BMWs, are vain about the support of others, and even go for things that do not belong to them. things, and went to extremes.

In the past two days, at the Winter Olympics, Yuzuru Hanyu, who has won two Winter Olympics championships, has shown us an athlete's ultimate pursuit of his life.

For every athlete, the championship is the greatest honor in life, but he has a more accurate understanding of himself, that is: to break through himself.

The gold medal is very important, but being able to perform a difficult move that he is proud of in the Olympics is a milestone for him, although the chance of being able to do that move perfectly is very slim; After making this choice, it will be difficult to get the gold medal.

However, just like the commentary played on the TV, "Defend an undefendable city, fight an unwinnable battle, add history with you, and laugh at the successes and failures in this life." look".

To him, success or failure is just a joke.

Some people say that the moment you decide to incorporate 4A into the free skate, you have already won.

It can be seen that most people aspire to be such a free and easy person, but few people can truly achieve it, so they have such praise for him.

Perhaps, in his heart, it doesn't matter whether he wins or not. His reputation and status are just a cloud to him. What he wants is to put in his best efforts, realize his beliefs, and try his best to realize his dreams.

When a person is alive, he can forget about "things", not be burdened by fame and wealth, not trapped by money, be indifferent to things outside him, and live out his true nature.

This is the best state of a person's life.

To live "forgetting love" is not to be heartless, but to not be trapped by love, not to be disturbed by love, not to sink in love, and not to live a languid life because of a certain person.

There is a saying: We put down our dignity, personality, and stubbornness all because we cannot let go of one person.

Falling in love is always easy, but letting go of someone is extremely difficult.

Just because many people, once they fall in love, will make themselves entangled and obsessed with it. Even if the other person has done something sorry for them, even if they have been hurt by the other person, they are still stubborn. I persisted, unable to bear to leave, unable to bear to give up.

Just like the gentle and virtuous Zhang Youyi, who came from a prominent family, in that era of parents’ orders and matchmakers’ words, she happily married the talented Xu Zhimo, but who knew that she would marry her husband and raise her son? In his eyes, serving his parents-in-law is just an old-fashioned way of doing things for women, and it doesn't appeal to him at all.

In front of him, she was cautious, walking on thin ice, and had to compromise.

Even after Xu Zhimo met the slim Lin Huiyin, he decided to ask her to have an abortion and divorce her, regardless of her pregnancy. He was even heartbroken for a time.

It was only then that this hurt woman finally made up her mind to leave the selfish and indifferent man.

Then, she turned around and traveled across the ocean to study in Germany. After returning from her studies, she entered the business world and entered finance. She became a powerful female entrepreneur at that time and became famous for a while.

It can be seen that the so-called peaceful years in life are just brought by ourselves.

Only by forgetting the imperfections of the past can you achieve your future perfection. If you bloom, butterflies will come, it’s never just talk.

Just like what this strong woman said:

Only when a person can forget "love" can he live a free and easy life and live a dazzling life. .

How many people live like people in a box, living cautiously and hypocritically;

How many people feel that they are extremely important and are better than others in every aspect? , the earth cannot rotate without him, he is willful, selfish, and self-centered.

In the world, everyone seems to have two sides. One is to live oneself, and the other is to live in the eyes of others.

In this impetuous society, most people long to be more elegant and successful in the eyes of others, so that they can be envied and admired by others.

Everyone wants to live a splendid life. They want everything. They are already very happy, but they still feel that they lack a lot. They are competitive and want to be more perfect after they are perfect.

However, you have forgotten what kind of person you most want to be, and you have also forgotten that you are already a scenery and attracting the attention of others. You are also a dazzling star, and you are also a dazzling star. The trajectory and brilliance.

In life, we don’t need to please everyone, because no matter how well you do, there will be people who can’t stand you, and there will be people who hate you. You can’t be praised by everyone. . Therefore, it is better to live happily and live the way you like most openly.

Be selfless, be real, don’t be pretentious, impetuous, or hypocritical, and be calm and comfortable.

The calmer and more relaxed you are, the freer you can live.

Drinking a cup of tea can taste the bitter taste; looking at a flower can make you smile calmly; reading a book can enrich your heart... Enjoy every moment of your life and enjoy the tranquility and tranquility. warmth.

Let the sun shine in your heart, let yourself be optimistic, let your soul be rich and clear, forget yourself, and let everything be beautiful.

Life is like a wall calendar.

Once you turn this page, it has become a thing of the past, and the remaining days will only be less, not more.

So, learn to forget.

Put the pursuit of fame and fortune second, put all grudges and hatreds aside, and forget everything that should be forgotten about right and wrong.

Life is like a journey, and we are all just travelers.

See more of the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, how beautiful the scenery is; read more books to make yourself lively and relaxed. Let other worries and worries become a thing of the past.

When you live for your ideals and pursue your dreams, when you forget about the entanglement of right and wrong and release your mind, you will find that your heart becomes comfortable and calm.

The rest of life is long, I hope everyone can live their own wonderful life, forget things, forget feelings, forget themselves, and live their own free and easy life.