What if a man has no sense of responsibility? Husband loves gambling and has no ambition. What should I do?

Faced with men's lack of ambition, we women have a lot of helplessness. Many women choose to become stronger, work harder, try to change their living conditions, and strive to get promotion and salary increase to engage in private work.

Who doesn't want their children to receive a better education?

Who doesn't want to travel around with their families during the holidays?

Who doesn't want to live a rich life?

But the premise of these things is that you should have money, goals and self-motivated efforts.

My husband has no ambition at all, and he also said that women are too realistic and that I was so poor at the beginning. Why are you following me? That's what I do. Am I bad to you? You are poor, but at that time you said you would give me a lifetime of happiness, but how can I be happy now? Every month, mortgage, car loan, utilities are on us, and the monthly payment is so much. Children go to school, and money is needed everywhere. If I don't want to make progress and earn more money, I want to know how to live in the future.

Some people say that it doesn't matter if you are not motivated, just be practical. People are down to earth. Going home from work is not only playing games, but also playing mobile phones, washing, cooking and looking after children. What was your mood at that time? Do you particularly regret why you got married in the first place? In fact, many times you wonder why you got married. I used to be single, but I was not hungry when I was full. I work hard to make money and buy whatever I want, but my marriage career is limited and I have a drag bottle hanging on my body, forcing us to be strong and work harder. However, when a family only works hard, it feels particularly hard. Women have natural weaknesses when giving birth to children, and men are much better, but they met men who didn't want to make progress and graduated in 3000. However, after working for five years, the company is still the same and the salary is the same. Who can stand it? The times are progressing, but you are standing still, far behind, and your inner sense of loss is particularly great.

Many married friends I know choose to go out to work and strive for the top in the workplace, because women all know that if they meet a man who is not motivated, if they don't work hard, the whole family will be unable to move. Children need to be taken care of, and so do parents. Care means money is needed everywhere. If you don't work hard to make money, who can you rely on? There is nothing behind, so we can only go forward.