What words are there that couples should never say when quarreling?

Husband and wife are like teeth and tongues. Even if you are intimate, there will be friction and disputes. I believe everyone is familiar with this sentence: a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. A kind word, even in the cold winter, will make people feel very warm; And a stinging word, even in the heat, will make people feel cold into the bone marrow. Especially between lovers, when there is friction and dispute, you should control yourself. These words must not be said.

1) "Does it have anything to do with you? I can do whatever I want. "

Legend has it that when Nu Wa made a man, she divided a piece of soil into two halves, a man and a woman. You have me, and I have you, which are intertwined and inseparable. Partners are the object of common ownership, not a single individual. The word "lover" is as inseparable as fish and water. If you deliberately emphasize your independent status because of some small frictions and deliberately abandon the other person completely outside your own life circle, it will leave an extremely bad psychological shadow on your other half and give him a sense of unnecessary pain. Because, at any time, never say, "Is this important to you? I can do whatever I want. " This sentence.

2) "Do you know I was wrong?" "I'm right!"

"Do you know this is wrong?" "I was right." Why do all disputes have to be your fault or mine? Two people together, make a fuss, hurt the body and be sad. Don't lose big because of small things. What about distinguishing right from wrong? You win the quarrel, but you lose your lover's heart, which is not worth the loss. As long as one party raises this question, it means that he wants to end this farce, no matter who wins or loses, enough is enough. At this time, you must not pretend to insist on repeatedly emphasizing "I am right!" This will only make things worse. Even if you win, can you really be happy?

3) "I don't care if it's a big deal to break up!"

Don't say goodbye, maybe you have been regarded as a weapon of "Fang Shangjian", and maybe you will really cut off your love one day. No matter what kind of weapon, it will rust one day. Even if it is a "breakup" that has been tried and tested, there will always be a day of boredom. Maybe you didn't realize that maybe an angry word during the quarrel was deeply put into your heart by your other half, and he would think that this relationship was run by himself from beginning to end. This behavior is like planting a time bomb in the other person's heart, which may explode at any time.

4) "Get out, I don't want to see you!"

Many lovers have this mentality when they are angry: they don't want to see each other for a minute. But don't use "roll", there is an emotion called "self-esteem". Many times, when you let him out, you are pushing yourself away from him. Be sure to go easy on your lover.