What if my mother-in-law needs to be beaten? Old people need respect, yes. But you can't make her do everything just because she is an elder.

It's quite common for your mother-in-law. In our daily life, we often meet the daughter-in-law who describes her mother-in-law in this way. In your case, I have several suggestions:

1 When you have a baby, please make sure that your mother takes care of yourself. This is the best choice for you, because most of the people who love themselves most in this world are their mothers. Originally, you and your mother-in-law had no blood relationship, just two strangers, just because of your husband. So please don't expect your mother-in-law to be kind to yourself, which is unrealistic.

If you can meet a mother-in-law who is kind to you, you are actually lucky. Most mother-in-law is similar to your mother-in-law. Try not to expect too much.

In addition, getting along with my mother-in-law still needs respect. When angry, I feel that I am a mistress, and it is not shameful to be said that there is nothing wrong with it. However, if the other person has exceeded your bottom line, then you should say what you should say and do, and let the other person know where your bottom line is, which is good for getting along in the future.

Finally, if you can't live together, please try not to live with your mother-in-law, which will benefit both sides in the long run. When two people of different ages live together and come from two different families, there will inevitably be contradictions. Their living habits and even their views on some things are different, and there will inevitably be conflicts. It is best not to live together, but not too far apart, so that we can take care of each other. Good for both sides.