Don't let your wife do housework and take care of the children at all, okay?

This is not good. Children are children of both parties, and families are families of two people. Be sure to share it. It doesn't matter how much you share, but you can't let her worry completely, so you will be very tired in the future, and parents are the first teachers of children, and everyone has the obligation and responsibility to educate their children. Parents have different influences on their children.