Don't care too much about your image in the eyes of others.

We all know that there is a saying called "Your value of the image Million", which refers to the personality charm displayed by our external and internal two-way cultivation. This is understandable and worth learning. However, in life, we often care too much about what others think of us, fearing that we will say something wrong, be misunderstood by others, and that our actions will damage our image in the eyes of others, so we try to change ourselves, even echo others, please others, and so on.

Whether in work, life or feelings, we are always eager to grow into what others expect. Some time ago, I heard on the radio that a girl had just arrived in a new company. In order to quickly integrate into the new group and win everyone's love, she strives to make herself better, buy fruit drinks for her colleagues, try to get along with her colleagues, and strive to integrate into the group as soon as possible, hoping to leave a good impression on her colleagues. Because I want to be recognized by more people, I constantly cater to others in my work and lack my own opinions. Finally, I couldn't stand the reality of "nothing in return" and resigned from the company.

In fact, many times, we will do the same. In order to quickly integrate into the new collective and gain recognition from more people, we will work harder to show ourselves better and show our positive side. This is not wrong, but we will find that we will be very tired and feel very tired in this process, because we have gradually lost ourselves in this process and are no longer what we like. So just be yourself at any time and don't lose yourself in order to cater to others.

I was stupid when I was in college, perhaps because I had too little experience, or because I felt inferior from the bottom of my heart, so I cared so much about my image in the eyes of others and lived like others. At that time, I always cared about what others said about me. When my friends or classmates misunderstand me, I feel as if I have been hit hard inside, and I feel very painful. I feel wronged that my sincerity has been misunderstood, and I am also afraid that my image will be damaged in the eyes of others. I think my friends must have a bad impression of me. I can't let go. I want to find the right opportunity to explain. This process is really tiring, just like a stone on me. We can explain it properly, but don't force ourselves. People who know you will naturally understand you, but for a long time. Later I realized that the most precious thing in life is sincerity. You just need to follow your heart, not be judged by others.