Others say that talking to me is boring. How can I get more people to talk to me? This sometimes makes me feel depressed. Is there any way?

This is a common problem, but there are always more methods than problems.

These are some dry goods I collected in my own net disk. Now I'll copy them to you. Welcome to correct me.

1. Interested in eloquence

Interest is the best teacher.

When you focus on eloquence training, you will inevitably pay attention to eloquence skills in your daily life and work.

Where is the interest, the focus of attention is also there! This method is progressing faster.

Even if you watch TV, you are paying attention to the beauty of lines, communication etiquette and humorous smile!

Train your mind.

Get up in the mirror every morning and say to yourself, "I can do it, I can do it, I am the best!" " "

Smile in the mirror, and you can also imagine yourself speaking in front of everyone.

Practice for a few minutes every morning, and after a long time, self-confidence will naturally develop.

Step 3 imitate, observe and learn

Speech and eloquence are not innate abilities, but the result of acquired efforts. We must rely on hard work, careful observation and open-minded study.

In the process of imitation, observation and learning, we can observe the manners and language of some announcers and actors to imitate.

In this process, we should turn these abilities into abilities that can be naturally displayed in some occasions in the subconscious through our own learning, rather than imitating for the sake of imitation!

A brief conversation

Theoretical experience shows that the shorter the one-way communication, the better.

In two-way communication, neither party should keep making appointments, but should leave time and opportunity for the other party to have a cognitive conversation. You can't finish a round of speeches, you have to wait for the other party to respond.

5. Accumulate knowledge and read more books.

If you have more knowledge in your brain, you can have more conversation resources.

We can find that talkative people have a wide range of knowledge.

Reading is the best way to accumulate knowledge. The ancients said that reading can not only increase knowledge, but also improve a person's temperament.

6. Resolutely talk to strangers

I often participate in group activities and chat activities, where there will be many strangers. I like it, which not only exercises my eloquence, but also improves my communicative competence. By the way, I have an exchange group here about improving oral communication. You can trust me privately if you are interested ~

By the way, that's how my girlfriend met, haha!