Work is like a war, it needs to be managed with care, and so is love, but now I suddenly find myself losing badly, so I want to change from today.

Let's start with work. In the workplace, we all know that we don't care about human feelings. Needless to say, I can only say that everything should be well thought out. What are the reasons and purposes for others to do this? Only by understanding other people's ideas can we win our own opportunities. Camouflage is just a means to prevent others from seeing you clearly, but you should be brave and dare to bully back when you are bullied.

Let's talk about love. This is a rather unclear question, but it depends on what you want to change. Do you know why ancient beauties da ji, Xi, Wu Zetian and Yang Yuhuan were favored by men? Not only because they are beautiful, but also because they are smart, scheming and know one or two skills (dancing, singing, playing chess, painting and calligraphy). . Know how to pay attention to your body (such as beauty, maintenance, make-up, good figure and smooth skin). . . ) Let's not talk about calculation here. You said you lost, but have you ever thought about how much you have paid for yourself? If women are not like women, can men stay? Don't say how horny men are, but the more capital you have, the stronger men will hold on to it. Apart from your knowledge, cultivation and temperament, although there is a saying that someone will always tolerate everything about you, including your shortcomings, in reality, can some things be achieved without changing? Always boring. I won't say more about men. I just think that as a woman, we should start with the image first. If your image passes, you should enrich your knowledge, cultural accomplishment and speaking temperament. Then you can not be virtuous, but be lovely. You have to believe that the more sincerity you give, the more men will like you. When two people are together, they will always attract each other in some ways. When they quarrel, they will tolerate each other. If you are willing to use some means, men will admit defeat and apologize to you. I have little experience, but I also lost miserably. A netizen said the same thing to me. I have changed, first from the appearance, and now I get along well with my current boyfriend. I saw the joy in his eyes. I believe that there will always be people who will fall for you and worship you as a goddess.