The days are long.

April 23rd, 20021year, World Book Day. Zhao He's studio also issued a statement that they decided to break up peacefully and end their marriage.

The two became attached to each other because they met at work, and they chose to get back together because they were away from work. -marriage and divorce are all because of work.

Weibo of both people released the same message, "The days are long, the past is good, and I hope the future will be better." , and love each other (@).

The couple announced their marriage on June 6, 20 18, announced the son of Hiuke on March 8, 20 19, and announced their divorce on April 23, 2026 54 38+09. Two years of marriage is a hurdle, and seven years is a hurdle. Zhao He ended up on the hurdle for two years.

Love, marriage and family are very complicated relationships. People who can live together for a lifetime are happy.

The reason why two people break up is definitely not as simple as getting together less and leaving more. Of course, there is no need to guess the reasons behind it, so as not to cause trouble to the parties.

Generally speaking, there are three reasons for the breakdown of marriage.

First, because of the families of both sides. Marriage is not just a matter for young couples. A marriage concerns two extended families. Only when the two big families are in harmony can the small family be stable for a long time. This is why China pays attention to adaptation.

Second, just love and don't care. This situation is mostly because the two sides like and attract each other, and they are independent and independent after marriage. After a long time, my feelings faded and I no longer need each other.

Third, there is no freedom if you love deeply. It's deep love, but it's actually a strong desire for control. Because there is no personal space and freedom, marriage has become the grave of love. Therefore, both husband and wife must give each other some space to live for a long time.

Zhao and Weibo, both colleagues, sent the same message: "The days are long, the past is good, and I hope the future will be better." Give me a feeling of helplessness. To complete this sentence, it should be "the days are long, the past is good, the present is not good, and I hope the future will be better after breaking up."

If it's just a relationship, everyone will be fine. Once you get married and start a family, it is no longer beautiful to spend all your time on rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Marriage involves too many things. If both sides have nothing to maintain together, they will go further and further.

Therefore, this sentence of two people is clearly saying that "it is very bad now." This helplessness can only be attributed to the work caused by gathering less and leaving more. If it is an ordinary family, life forces them to get together less and leave more, there is no problem, and marriage will not break up. There are many such families in China. The problem is that life is not so embarrassing, and both of them should pursue independence and career. In this case, there is no way to maintain a family.

For couples with strong independence, they should relax, pursue their own ideals, leave some space and freedom for each other, and leave some worries for each other. This kind of life may last longer.

If there is really no way, separation is also the best choice. After all, many people don't have to depend on each other now, and living apart or starting a new life will be tolerated by the present society. I wish everyone who is separated a better future, after all, the days are still long.

The third phase of the 28-day writing growth camp (14) 1022 words, totaling 16833 words.