Why doesn't engineering male go after girls?

? Yes, you are not mistaken. In China University, this phenomenon is very common, even a little serious. In this atmosphere, both men and women, ordinary college students will easily feel lonely. After all, for college students with normal orientation, gay friends and his girlfriend can't make up for all the emotional deficiencies, so I want to express my views on this issue.

? Before answering this question, it is necessary for us to look at what engineering male is doing most of the time. According to my personal experience in recent years, it can be roughly divided into three categories. The first category is the most decadent, that is, addicted to games. For the first category, either they really like games and don't care about the disturbance of the real world, or they want to escape from reality and lack the courage to communicate with others, so naturally they won't actively pursue girls; The second kind of person is similar to Xueba or Great God in the eyes of ordinary people. They come and go between the laboratory libraries in the teaching building and stay at home all night. To tell the truth, such people don't need to actively pursue girls, there will always be girls looking for them. I have an example around me. After all, in my opinion, many times men pursue a sense of accomplishment and women pursue men; As for the third kind of people, it is the embarrassing group stuck in the middle, which is more than enough. If they know someone and participate in more club activities, they may take the initiative. However, most other people are anxious, unwilling or afraid to give their feelings, time, money, etc. Try, can't eat sour grapes, want to turn to the internet, but be affected by all kinds of negative news, how can we be passively frustrated?

The development of science and technology will always make us mistakenly think that the world is getting closer and closer, but the way of communication between people is different. Especially for college students in our country, they have just come out of the hands-on teaching of middle school teachers and have not formed enough independent self-awareness, so they are bombarded by all kinds of network information. No one teaches us how to identify and accept, just like a piece of white paper is always easy to get dirty, not to mention the big dye vat of the network.

I don't think I can pull out the first kind of people who can't extricate themselves. After all, the treatment of the king of thunder and lightning has not achieved much. The second kind of people don't need any guidance at all, and people with goals in mind don't have to worry at all. So for the third person, I have a few suggestions:

? 1. surf the internet less and read more. Before you can't treat network information correctly, the things in the book can give you a lot of reference.

? 2. Stay in the dormitory less, and participate in more community activities, at least to live a more fulfilling and happy life, without asking for anything in return.

? Try to get along well with your classmates. Don't expect everyone to smile at you. There must be at least three or two people who can talk and laugh.

The above is my personal summary. I regret spending a lot of time brushing the headlines of shock before. Might as well come early!