This year's concept of mate choice for girls is very tangled. what do you think?

Fall in love with an innocent boy

What's the difference between boys and men?

A youthful sunshine, a mature and steady; Happiness is the most important thing for a person to do things according to his mood. If you are drunk today, you can enjoy the present. A person has to consider many consequences when doing one thing, and a promise takes several days.

For a boy, the biggest advantage is: I am still young, I still have time, I am full of passion, I love life, I love romantic, beautiful and idealistic life.

For a man, the advantages are: mature and steady, strong sense of professionalism and responsibility, a lot of plans for the future, and a good marriage life.

Will you stay with boys or choose to stay with men?

For young girls, the best moment in life is now; They are beautiful and in good shape, full of hope and longing for tomorrow; They long for love, explore the unknown, discover a wider world, and fall in love with interesting, energetic and youthful boys.

He was wearing a white shirt and she was wearing a floral skirt. They walked arm in arm from sunrise to sunset at the seaside.

Youth is capital, not only in feelings but also in life; There are still opportunities to make mistakes emotionally, and mistakes in life can be changed.

What kind of experience is it to fall in love with a boy?

I have a female friend beside me who is 29 years old and unmarried. Although she is not the only child in the family, she is unmarried at this age and is an "older woman" in the eyes of her parents and relatives.

Every day when I get home, I have to go through the soul torture of my parents, relatives and neighbors: have you found someone? When are you getting married?

Her mother even once said: If you can't find someone this year, don't come to this house again, and I don't have a daughter like you.

But my friend has a particularly stubborn temper, that is, he wants to live the life he likes; Perhaps it is because of fear of marriage, lack of self-confidence in marriage, feeling that she is unable to have a good marriage, and she has seen many unfortunate marriages around her, which makes her more determined: if I meet the right man, I will consider getting married; If you can't meet, you will only fall in love and won't get married.

Some time ago, my friend fell in love, but this time it was different from her previous love experience. This time, her boyfriend is only 23 years old, 6 years younger than her.

In the past, her love experience was that boys were at most one year younger than her, and she was not a person who accepted the age gap between her brother and sister.

But this time in love, she discovered a new continent.

Boyfriend is young, sunny, full of vigor and vitality, and every day is the expectation and yearning for a better life; A friend said, since I am with this boyfriend, I don't need to recite it again. She even forgot that she was a 29-year-old girl and regarded herself as a little girl.

Going out to eat together, regardless of the restaurant, regardless of the price, even if it is a roadside snack, the two will enjoy themselves; Moreover, falling in love with a sunny and naive boy aroused her strong desire for protection.

She said: falling in love with a boy who is innocent and sunny seems to make you younger and younger, and make your heavy life full of passion.

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Marry a man

Girls will fall in love with boys and yearn for youth, beauty, romance and sunshine.

When we were young, we all wanted to live a romantic life. We have many fantasies, many wishes and many motives, and we are full of yearning for a better life in the future.

But suddenly one day, you realize that life is really hard, and all your wishes and ideals are gone with your life. You think you will always be young and brave. In fact, you are becoming timid little by little.

Become emotionally insecure and become silent in life.

For a girl, they are eager to fall in love with young, naive and youthful boys; But at the age of trial marriage, they will gradually find that naive boys are really not suitable for marriage.

Marrying a mature man is their ultimate choice and destination.

Why?

Because mature men often have stable careers and incomes, have their own complete three views, and have their own plans for marriage and life; With mature men, you can relax and don't worry so much, because mature men can take care of everything.

As for marriage, naive boys are not ready, and even dare not say to you: Let's get married.

Because they are in a confused state themselves, talking about marriage with boys will make them full of pressure and finally leave you slowly.

When you are young, you can fall in love with anyone, with your ideal partner, and then live your dreams, wishes and ideal life.

However, in choosing a marriage partner, we need to be cautious again; Marriage is not a period of time, but a preparation for a lifetime.

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If you want to live a life, go for it bravely.

I have always emphasized one thing to people around me: what do you want, what do you want to do, what do you want to pursue, then work hard; Today is always younger than tomorrow. Don't do it today, hesitate, and probably won't do it tomorrow.

If you want to love, love. Dare to love and hate, and there will be less trouble. Hug hard if you want, no matter whether you can be together tomorrow; I want to go far away, earn more money, get everything ready and go out and have a look.

If you don't do these things when you are young, do you have to wait until you are old and can't walk?

Just like you like playing with cars and cameras, if you don't play when you are young, you may not want to play after you get married and start a family, because your savings have become more and more important.

When you make all the preparations, think about all the consequences and think that the consequences are tolerable, then do it bravely.

Love is love, it doesn't matter whether you are together or not, at least you have loved.

Who to fall in love with, whether to get married or not, and who to marry in the end are three things. After you figure this out, you will live more easily.

This year, girls' concept of mate choice is always very tangled; On the one hand, I want to fall in love with a young, romantic and sunny boy, on the other hand, I want to marry a mature and steady man; It's a pity that things can't be satisfactory. At this age, it is enough to choose the right person and the right feelings.