The lost friendship

Since graduating from high school, most of the people we know from different classes have not seen each other for more than 30 years.

In fact, many of us know what each other is doing, but because the work and life circles are different, the contact has gradually decreased.

? I have just graduated and returned home. I have a few close friends and have many similar hobbies. Although we are far apart, we often write letters to each other to greet each other and talk about our own situations. , ask how the other person is doing, and talk about everything from hobbies to all kinds of gossip and rumors.

? At that time, we were so good that I was convinced that our friendship would last forever. We will suffer and suffer. But as they gradually became busy with their lives, the friendship seemed to have graduated. Contact slowly became less and less. Later, I don’t know when the contact was broken. Many people don't even know where each other is, what they are doing, or whether they are married. All friendships seem to have expired.

? It’s not just us, it seems that everyone around us has this experience. Everyone will have a few friends who were once very good but now have lost contact. But when this friendship ceased, almost no one knows, and it seems that they will still remember the friends they once were.

? Remember after my father passed away. When I was sorting through my father's belongings, I found an old piece of paper that was carefully folded and carefully preserved. When I opened it, I saw that it was the eighteen brothers who were sworn in by my father at school when he was seventeen years old. My father was ranked ninth, and each of them had a birth date. Year, month, day and home address. The situation of parents, brothers and sisters. But I never seemed to hear my father talk about these people. My father was born before liberation and went to school at a young age. At that time, he was also a very great cultural person. He could write well and knew more Chinese knowledge than college students today. I heard him talk about many of his classmates who seemed to have found a place after joining the revolution. After the liberation, my father served as the co-principal of our area. Many of the students he taught had good positions. My father was imprisoned during the Cultural Revolution when I was a child. I only remember going to see my father with my mother or sister and giving him food. I still don’t understand why my father didn’t come home at that time. Later, I went to Xi'an and met an old classmate of my father's. I heard them talk about some people. I don't remember their names or events. Maybe these people were among them. But they must have completely lost contact. I don’t know how many people remember the sworn relationship with Jinlan at that time? These old people may have passed away, and I don't know if this friendship can continue in another world. Because each other's life trajectories are different, no matter in the past or now, the friendship they once had is never mentioned again.

The so-called fighting for each other is probably not limited to love, but also our friendship. The reason for parting ways with friends is not because of ideas, feelings, or distance, but because of time. Running around for life, so many friends come and go, but very few stay.

In the past, we talked about everything, but now we rarely even get a phone call. The warm greetings in the past are now gone; the sufferings and troubles in the past are now ignored; the things we used to grow old together are now painless and painless...

In fact, We all know in our hearts that everyone’s life is not easy. Everyone’s life pressure is much greater than before. If you have a little time and don’t know if others have free time, you might as well stay at home, play with your mobile phone, and take a look. TV, even if I don’t do anything, I don’t want to go out with friends.

? Very few friendships last forever. Most friendships eventually go away.

In fact, we all understand that every friendship has its own time limit. We should never expect every friendship to last long. When the friendship cannot go back to the past, don't believe that the friendship will last forever. There is no eternal banquet in the world, and we have no unchanging friendship. Perhaps, leaving is the best friendship. Because of friends together. Maybe one day we will become strangers and enemies due to some differences.

? Therefore, I am grateful for all the short-lived friendships and let go of all regrets.

After all, every friendship is a beautiful memory and leaves unforgettable memories.

? The destination of friendship may be a dusty memory.