If you are tired, you can change your lifestyle and live a life without competition. ...

We have to compete with each other in our studies since childhood. When you grow up, you must strive for the top in your work. Don't be afraid to compete with our competitors. ...

In this era of chasing after each other, we must dare to fight for the first place in order to flourish in an environment where the superior and the inferior are eliminated and no one can compete.

It seems that only by working hard can we excel, become a success in the secular sense, be envied and hated, and become the next goal that everyone pursues.

Blind competition makes people physically and mentally exhausted, leaving only a busy body in life.

My friend has often complained recently that his life is out of breath. In order to win the middle-level promotion, she tried her best, juggled all kinds of intrigues, pursued the ultimate in everything, tried her best, and finally stood out.

Friends who can get promoted are still as busy as a top. There are more meetings, higher standards and heavier burdens. ...

She is often too busy to think and socialize. It feels like being caught by an invisible hand and stepping on a high-speed machine that never stops.

It was not until one day that she was ill that she realized that this was not the life she wanted. Too busy to know the meaning of life. It's not worth living a programmed life every day and desperately pursuing immediate interests. ...

In this world, everyone has their own goals. Some people enjoy a busy elite life and can make great strides under high pressure. This is of course understandable.

Fear is fear. Many people, like my friends, are trapped by this era and can't help but run faster.

They are very tired every day, wearing masks, like clockwork robots, but they are getting farther and farther away from the life they want and more and more unhappy. Even if they live to succeed in the secular sense in people's eyes, they have become what they once hated most.

Well, honey, if it's the second case, it's time to stop. Please stop busy but empty steps, listen to the voice of the soul and ask yourself: what do I want?

Being aloof from the world is a choice.

After watching Super Brain, I was deeply moved by Water Brother Wang Yuheng. As a schoolmaster in Tsinghua, he is gifted, and his observation memory is different from ordinary people. In the second quarter of 2005, on the stage of Super Brain, Wang Yuheng became famous for challenging "micro-water discrimination".

In the program, he quickly found the glass of water that others had just put back from the same quality of 520 glasses of water by scanning line by line.

The speed and accuracy are amazing. Even the well-informed Gao is admired.

Since then, Wang Yuheng has passed all the way, advanced to the competition, and killed all the masters, which can be described as a king's demeanor. He is known as a "ghost talent" in the super brain, and there are countless circles.

Such a top player galloping on the field is different in life.

He claimed to be idle and refused to go to work. He lived just for fun. In addition to professional painting design, he can also play the guqin, make handicrafts, plant exotic flowers and plants, raise birds, turtles, fish and insects ... His home is like a wild zoo, full of green eyes and fragrance.

People say that "playing with things is a weariness." However, the more he learned, the more fascinated he became. The demand for handicrafts in the Taobao shop was in short supply, and customers lined up. ...

These "idle" hobbies have gradually become his main business. It is a kind of luck to regard hobbies as work. Wang Yuheng lived according to his own wishes and became the master of life.

He said, "I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with ...".

He didn't fight against the world, he didn't struggle, he didn't win, but he followed his heart and made a choice that lived up to his heart.

Choose wisely and leave room for what you love.

Huang Yali is the person who makes life unique. The difference is that this super girl who debuted in 2005 started her beloved life while taking care of her main business.

After her debut, Huang Yali's singing career was repeatedly frustrated, and her concert was stripped off and gradually disappeared. She didn't give up. In recent years, while insisting on singing an album, she devoted more energy to developing hobbies and creating a unique home.

She took the rented house as her home and spent a lot of time designing, renovating and redecorating it. In the room, she paints walls, knits tree clothes and makes sofa cover herself. ...

In the yard, she even cultivated a vegetable garden, planted vegetables, watered and picked vegetables herself, and lived a self-sufficient life.

The humble garage has also been transformed into a studio under her unconstrained style, meeting various needs such as handcraft, composition and singing.

At home, she can lean on the warm sofa, smell the soft baked sweet potato in front of the warm fireplace, eat the delicious food cooked and planted by herself, and think about the inspiration of her creation ... This picture makes people feel happy just thinking about it.

What's more, these hobbies have made her, once again helping her get attention and re-enter the singing stage.

Huang Yali's cleverness lies in seeing that her main business can't satisfy her wishes, changing her thinking in time, exploring her other hobbies and practicing silently.

She makes choices in affairs, decisively eliminates unnecessary ones, and spends more time and energy on things that really interest her.

Doing so not only makes the career and hobbies go hand in hand, but also turns the original hobby of "saving the country by curves" into real love, which helps the main business to achieve a win-win situation.

As the saying goes, what is lost in the East Corner is what is gained. People who feel busy at work may wish to learn from Huang Yali and learn to choose.

Please give up some so-called immediate fame and fortune, get rid of all unnecessary blind obedience and make room for love.

See fewer trivial things in life, more and more things you really like, and a long-lost smile will climb your face again.

Slow down and let it go.

If you are confused and haven't found what you like, it's a good idea to do your current job well, gain less and make progress slowly.

The famous program host Murphy is deeply loved by the audience for his wise and humorous hosting style. But such a well-known host does not have the ambitious and advanced history that mainstream values usually think. On the contrary, he believes in the philosophy of taking things as they are.

In the program, he mentioned this point more than once: "Soldiers who always say that they don't want to be generals are not good soldiers, but they all become generals. Who will fight as a soldier? " I don't want to be a boss, I just want to work. "

Murphy's experience is very rough. I worked as a printer, a TV handyman, a photographer, a reporter, and then a host. ...

Along the way, he was unhurried and unhurried. Every step is slow and steady, without unnecessary ambition and unwillingness, and only focus on doing the current work and the things at hand.

This attitude, on the contrary, makes him do things better step by step. The turning point in life also unexpectedly appeared, making him more and more smooth. Everything is so natural and easy. ...

When your pace can't keep up with this fast-paced world, you might as well adjust your pace and get better slowly. Sometimes not arguing is more useful than arguing. It's like making soup. When the heat comes up, the fragrance naturally overflows, and it is difficult not to be found. ...

Or as long as you are happy, it is not bad to be an ordinary grass.

You have your grandeur, and I have my calm freedom;

You have your passion for cooking oil, and I have my own way. ...

This reminds me of the story of a rich man and a tramp sunbathing on the beach.

When the rich man advised him to have a good fight before enjoying it, the tramp smiled and asked, "But I am already enjoying the sunshine without any worries."

Just like the song sung by Brother Pu Shu:

In this impetuous society, it is not shameful to be ordinary, but it is especially valuable to be out of the world.

After she recovered from her illness, her best friend quit her middle-level job and stopped filling her schedule with work.

With a calm mind, she deleted or simplified all unnecessary affairs and arranged many things that she wanted to do before but had no time to do in more time.

She is conscientious in her work, attends yoga classes in her spare time, occasionally takes care of herself, gets together with friends, travels 1-2 times a year ... life has quietly become interesting.

When I saw her recently, I felt that her whole person was radiant, and there was a sense of happiness and satisfaction inadvertently between her eyebrows and eyes ... I knew that she lived a life she liked.

Whether to break the shackles, pursue what you love, and turn love into work;

Or life and work go hand in hand;

Still keep a normal heart and move forward steadily, and be a unhurried grass. ...

Please remember: as long as you are willing, you are a real hero in your own world.

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About the author: Wen Xin, a young woman who loves writing and life, is willing to decorate her life with flowers and pursue her dreams!

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