What to say to your husband after divorce

What to say to your husband after a divorce

What to say to your husband after a divorce: The two people got married because of their original promise. No one wanted to get to the point of divorce. The following is what I said to my husband after divorce. You can learn more about it with me. I hope it can help you. What to say to your husband after divorce 1

What to write to your husband who is about to divorce

1. Husband, do you know? I always think about the days when we were in love, when you would do it for me Do all the things I do and you'll think I'm cute. Now, if I act like a spoiled child, you will feel very unwilling to accept it, and you will feel that I am making trouble unreasonably. In fact, it’s just because your love for me has slowly faded that you have such thoughts. Thinking about everything we have experienced together, isn’t it painful for you?

2 , I am tired of loving you for so long, and I am tired of having sacrificed so much for this family. In marriage, you are like a grown man. You don’t care if your child is sick. What needs to be done at home? I am the only one who has to worry about it. Being able to leave you is also my relief. If you can find a better woman than me, then I bless you. At this point, although I cried, I still respect your choice.

Words to impress a man

1. Husband, do you know? When I can’t sleep at night, I am also recalling the sweetness between us. Thinking about the past, we have been together for so long, you were so good to me, and I didn’t ask you what you did. I wanted to be with you all my life. In this way, the two people have been happy. Let us *** work hard for life together.

2. I care about every smile on your face, I care about every expression of yours. You must know that every expression of yours affects my heart. Every time I see you happy, I will be happy for you, and every time I see you depressed, I will also be very painful. So if you are happy, I am happy. You must know this.

To my husband who is in the midst of a cold war

1. Husband, please stop having a cold war with me. I thought you could give me happiness in my marriage, but I didn’t expect what you brought to me. It's all hurt, but for the sake of loving you, I endure it. Please look back and recall the good things between us.

2. You are like a ray of sunshine in my life. Wherever you are, I feel very warm. In fact, I do laundry and cooking at home alone. You are taking care of the children alone, but it warms my heart to think about you working hard for this family and for me. Please don't use a cold war approach to our feelings. If you are sad, I will be very sad too.

Let your husband read the sentences about cherishing you

1. Husband, look at it. For the sake of this family, you always have a handsome young man who turns into a man. Think about how much you are. of greatness. Although I may not have taken such comprehensive care of you in life, I will treat you twice as well in the future, and I will definitely make you live happily in this home.

2. In life, you can always be seen busy for this family. So I will not argue with you over some small details. Although I have gone too far in the past, seeing you so tired, I will never torture you again in the future. Let the two of us stay together and cherish each other. Marriage is about creating opportunities for happy people. I believe that while you bring me happiness, I can also bring you happiness. Things to say to your husband after divorce 2

Ways to prevent divorce

1. When resolving conflicts between husband and wife, do not make them public easily.

2. Husbands and wives should respect each other and engage in frequent criticism and self-criticism.

3. Don’t fake divorce for certain interests, otherwise it will be easy for the fake divorce to become real.

4. Do more transformation work, eliminate barriers in time, and melt the ice and snow in your heart.

5. Husbands and wives should be open-minded and resolve conflicts proactively.

6. Don't talk nonsense and threaten the other party with the word "divorce"

7. Don't intensify conflicts and make the relationship between the two parties tense and rigid.

8. Don’t be hot-headed or think of marriage as child’s play.

9. Don’t be obsessed with singing, dancing, gambling, or even staying up all night.

10. Don’t resort to violence when a couple quarrels, otherwise it will add fuel to the fire and expand the conflict.

11. Even if both parties agree to divorce, they should think twice before committing, think deeply about whether the relationship is really broken, and do not play tricks on each other.

12. As the saying goes, listen to others and eat enough. Couples who are divorcing should also listen to the advice of their parents, relatives and friends.

13. Be good at self-control and don’t be domineering or impulsive. Even if you get divorced. You should also deal with it coldly and don't solve it in a hurry to avoid regrets. Things to say to your husband after divorce 3

1. The mentality of a divorced woman

Although a divorced woman has gone through a long, painful and difficult process of thinking before the divorce, due to After divorce, the care, tenderness and tenderness between family members are lost, and a series of social psychological needs are not met, which can easily lead to a sense of loss and even lead to abnormal mentality, such as unwillingness to see people and losing temper with others. In the relationship between the sexes, women are often the object of discussion, often pointed out by people around them, and even sneered at, causing their self-esteem to be frustrated, their reputations to be damaged, and they are burdened with the mentality that "divorced women are inferior to others."

A woman after divorce has devoted her emotions and energy to her previous man because she has been married. When they start a new relationship, if the other person has no history of marriage and the relationship status between the two is unequal, they will unconsciously feel that they owe each other, subconsciously put themselves very low, and be cautious in everything. , Worry that the other party cares about your marriage history, or even fear that the other party will dislike you for being married for the second time.

The mentality of divorced women is fragile and they are afraid of being hurt again. Of course, there are women who still live well after divorce, or even better than before, because they are not afraid of worldly judgments, bravely be themselves, and live the life they want. So women, no matter why you divorced, believe me , as long as you want, you can live happily.

2. The mentality of a divorced man

1. He may not be so romantic anymore

Because of the failure of a marriage, a man after a divorce will become calmer And rational. They are no longer like young boys who may play and sing donbula in front of your window every night; they may wish to pick the moon for you; they may fold a thousand paper cranes for you, etc. Divorced men may feel that romance is an illusory and unreliable emotion. Because the romance they once had is now in vain, they become very realistic. They believe that reality is reliable and romance is a fairy tale that fades away at the age of 18.

2. Determination to build a stable marriage

The mentality of divorced men is usually willing to repair defects and solve problems, so divorced men have a strong desire to build a new happy marriage. Andrea, 47, has a happy family with a divorced man. She said that divorced men usually have the idea that "this time they must form a beautiful marriage" when dating.

3. Be more sensitive to women’s needs

Many men after divorce admit that they should have been more romantic, listened more, bought flowers to their wives more often, and praised their wives more in their previous marriage. Wife, these painful lessons learned in failed marriages will make divorced men more careful when managing their new emotional lives.

4. Treat divorce as growth

Completely free from commitment. Although divorce is sad, it can also be said to be a turning point. Sometimes we will be hurt from it. , but after divorce we also know very clearly: The challenge is not to fall into the quagmire of who was hurt the most, but to perceive and face the hurt and hope. The mentality of divorced men regards divorce as growth. a stage.