Do you want to have a second child? Triplets?

As a second-child mother, my advice to you is: If the family's economic conditions permit, you can have a second or third child.

The following is my opinion:

In today's society, I think two children are better. Because one child will be lonely, although the financial pressure of the two children is a bit great, I think it is worthwhile to have a second child in order to have one more person to accompany me in the future.

Let's talk about my family:

I am now a mother with a second child. At first, I thought the pressure of having a second child would be greater, so I never planned to have a second child. But then something happened that made me decide to have a second child. Here's the thing:

My father-in-law is an only child, and his father is my husband's grandfather. Five years ago, he needed hospitalization because of a serious illness. Because our family has jobs, except my grandmother, she has no job, but she needs to take care of my son, so she can't stay with me in the hospital.

In this way, we can only hire hospital nurses to help take care of it. Father-in-law's job is to run business, so there is no guarantee that he will have time to visit his father every day. Because many times, hospitals need to communicate with their families and need their signatures. So, during that time, our family was very difficult. Every day, we must make sure that our families are present. After work, my husband and I will take turns to visit him and then go home.

From this incident, I deeply realized that it would be great if I could have one more brother and sister. Aside from money, it is also a happy thing to have one more person take turns to accompany or discuss decisions. Because young people need to work and can't often take time off to accompany them, so many people are capable. My husband and I also thought about whether this kind of thing would happen to us in the future, so we decided to have a second child.

As children grow up, I find that having a second child is really beneficial, as follows:

Know how to get along with people. I have to say that since Bauer was born, my Dabao's personality has become cheerful. He used to be introverted and unwilling to get in touch with others. Maybe it's because he has another playmate. He is very happy. In the process of growing up, he learned how to get along with others and learn to share. So I think this is something to be happy about. With imitators, you are competitive. I also found a rule: when a baby doesn't want to learn or touch new things, we just need to bring another baby to study in front of him. Then the baby will have a strong interest in learning. This is probably that with competitiveness, there is motivation. Therefore, children have a mentality of being unwilling to admit defeat. Finally, I suggest you decide how many children to have according to your actual situation. Since you choose to have children, you should be a good parent and give your best love to your children. I think this is a happy thing.